all about 3somes.....need info please

[shynsexy]

what are some reasons a person (like you) would want to have a 3some? a fmf 3some more precisely.

what are some reasons NOT to do it.

a person whom i know rather well approached me about a 3some and told me i could pick whomever i wanted, he just wanted to experience this with me.

i've never done it before...

what are some things i should consider before i commit to this?

i am totally ignorant when it comes to this subject. it would be a "no" if it where mfm, most definatly----but, and theres always a but, i am considering fmf.

any help or comments appreciated. Thanks in advance.

Please tell about your 3some or moresome experiences, and how they went. do you regret it? Thanks again.

Shy

 

[lavender]

 

[shynsexy]

thanks lavy!!!!

 

[shynsexy]

come on yall... answer please.... i wanna hear from everyone here....

 

[Horny Hippie Girl]

I have done every kind of 3some accept all female. Personally, I feel like they were kinda fun, but sometimes people get weird afterward or it doesn't live up to your expectations. Mainly, I feel like they aren't really good for me because I can't concentrate. I am either paying too much attention to what I am doing or too much attention to what is being done to me. You know what I mean? In addition, I found them to be rather empty. I am not into meaningless sex. I find that sex with one person you love is much better. I have a girlfriend and a husband and we all live together, but we NEVER have 3somes. Well, first of all, my girlfriend is a lesbian, and second of all my husband doesn't fancy her. I am not a jealous person, I am just glad I don't have to think about all those complicated issues that go along with everybody doing everbody else.

 

[shynsexy]

wow!

Hippy, how did that happen?? sounds like you have your cake an eat it too! color me jealous

 

[Horny Hippie Girl]

It is a long complicated story, but I will give you the abridged version. Roxy (my girlfriend), was my first love and my girlfriend in highschool. We broke up after a year, but stayed best friends. In '96, I told her that I was still in love w/her, but she said she didn't know if she felt that way for me at that time. Time went on, and I met a really fabulous guy, fell in love, and got married. After several years of marriage to him, Roxy comes and tells me that she is still in love with me and she was sorry she couldn't admit it when I told her. So, my husband and I talked about it and we invited her and her child to move in with us. We have been one happy family ever since.

 

[unclej]

hey shy...how ya doin' sweety...

i have had the pleasure of a couple of threesomes with totally different outcomes...the first was with a girl that i had been dating and her female room mate...we laughed a lot, played around a lot...the only thing i wish i had to do over was to get them to play around with each other but all in all it was a lot of fun with no guilt or (pardon the pun) hard feelings in the morning...

the second one was with a friend of mine and his wife...they were really into it before we met and i was evidently just another "conquest"...it really was disappointing... i was there simply to add to their pleasure and felt like a dildo...the only realy hot part was that it was my first and only time to sandwich a girl...they called a couple of weeks later to hook up again and i declined...

i'd love to do another ffm, especially if the ladies enjoyed each other...

advice? do it if you feel like it could be fun but decide what you will and won't do and make sure everyone understands before you start....

 

[SexySlut2]

I have never been in a fmf threesome, but the mfm ones I have been in were nothing like I had expected. I found that I just didn't enjoy it as much as I thought I would.
I did learn however that it's up to the people involved as to what they make of it.

 

[bored1]

My x and I did the mfm 3some thing. I think it was the end result of watching porn and taking it to the next level. We always "partied" with a certain person at a neutral site. At first it was incredible as time went on it became less exciting. We lived the lifestyle for about 18 months. Looking back, I dont regret the experience, But I dont think I would ever again share the person that I loved . Our last experience left me empty and feeling cheap.

 

[CarolineOh]

Well, I'm never one to pass up the opportunity for a shameless plug! This is the true story of my first m/f/f threesome:http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=42334

 

[Uma]

Hey sexy girl

It's been awhile, how ya been?

U know its kind of funny because my SO and I have been talking about this very same thing. After work about a week ago a bunch of us girls went out and got hammered. One of them casually mentioned that she would be up for a threesome with me and my boyfriend. At first I didn't know what to say. I just laughed. I have thought about being with a another woman. I have even masterbated to the thought of it. But to actually do it, that is a totally different animal. My boyfriend is not nearly as excited about it as I thought he would be. I mean isn't that supposed to be every guys biggest fantasy? Plus the girl is hot! My only problem is I get this feeling that maybe this is her way of getting an in with my guy. Who knows what the right thing to do is? I guess everyone is different. I finally decided to pass. U just have to make up your own mind as to what is right for U and your guy!
Talk to ya soon-

Uma

 

[Laurel]

Orgy A Logistical Nightmare

 

[WhiteRose]

I've never been in a fmf threesome, but I'd love to try! The two mmf threesomes I participated in were pretty hot. All of the guys were good friends of mine, but I wasn't in a "relationship" with any of them, which made it easier, I think. The first time, the guys had planned it (I found out afterward), and the second time, it was purely spontaneous. There weren't any jealousy issues or lasting "weirdness" afterwards because we were such good friends, and none of us were looking to get further involved.

 

[Vivacia]

Personally I wouldn't do it, My (soon to be officially) Ex husband wanted us to have one and it nearly killed me...

I am too possesive to be able to stand seeing my man in the arms of another woman! It is something you should think about if the gent concerned is your SO - once you have done it there is no going back, it changes the mechanics of the relationship.

But if that isn't a prob for you then go for it! you may enjoy it

 

[Temptress_1960]

what are some reasons a person (like you) would want to have a 3some? a fmf 3some more precisely.

well, there're some things you just can't do with only 2 people. And me, well, I kinda like girls....


what are some reasons NOT to do it.

If your SO is jealous... If you are only doing it to please someone else.




what are some things i should consider before i commit to this?

It depends on the people involved. Is your relationship with your SO going to be hurt, or enhanced? That's a consideration.

Please tell about your 3some or moresome experiences, and how they went. do you regret it? Thanks again.


I loved it. You get so caught up in it, you don't know who's licking and nibbling and sucking on whom...