Alcoholic

[jack2009]

I am currently in a long term relationship with an alcoholic woman. I am not against drinking except when a person has a real drinking problem. I want to move on and escape from this woman but I first want to meet a woman who I am compatible with. If you are in the New England area and would like to explore this further let me know.
Thanks,

Jack

 

[MsTexas]

Why do you have to wait till you meet someone else?

 

[cowslinger64]

Why do you have to wait till you meet someone else?

yeah? are you a woman? Thats what they do..

 

[MsTexas]

yeah? are you a woman? Thats what they do..

Uhhhh

Yeah I'm a woman ....

Didn't you know?

 

[koalabear]

yeah? are you a woman? Thats what they do..

http://i305.photobucket.com/albums/nn233/koalabear_photo/haha4.gif

 

[jack2009]

I want to have someone who I can totally enjoy life with. The alcoholic woman I am currently with is just not for me. Until I can connect with someone special I feel an obligation to stick it out with her. I know that this sounds just plain dumb!

 

[MsTexas]

I want to have someone who I can totally enjoy life with. The alcoholic woman I am currently with is just not for me. Until I can connect with someone special I feel an obligation to stick it out with her. I know that this sounds just plain dumb!

Yeah it does but hey it's your life ...

Not sure why you would string along a person when you're actually getting ready to dump them

 

[LiveWire64]

If she's worth you "sticking it out" with her now, then you obviously must care about her still. Why not try to get her some help?

 

[PublicAffection]

It doesn't sound dumb, but it does sound a bit co-dependent. Staying with her out of obligation will do more damage to the both of you than any good you might think you're doing. If the relationship is over, alcoholism or not, then move on and be alone with yourself until you find someone new.

 

[jack2009]

I guess I am a true PISCES and love to make love but with a person who is drunk the sex is just no good. I also have seen her in situations where she is so drunk that it is totally embarrasing. Should I just dump her? Or should I just tolerate the situation until a better situation arises? As you can tell I am not a great person for hurting people.

 

[janeyl]

I guess I am a true PISCES and love to make love but with a person who is drunk the sex is just no good. I also have seen her in situations where she is so drunk that it is totally embarrasing. Should I just dump her? Or should I just tolerate the situation until a better situation arises? As you can tell I am not a great person for hurting people.

What bollocks, you're not a true pisces, you're a true coward.

You'll hurt her more by stringing her along until you find someone else. Perhaps you leaving her will be the spur she needs to seek the help she clearly needs-by not confronting her problem, you are condoning and possibly enabling it.

I'd hate to be with someone who was just tolerating me despite being an embarrassment...

 

[Fmature2play]

Ok I will put down my bitch mode. If you EVER cared about her try to help her or at the very least be a man and be honest with her. Don't just hang on until something better comes along. Was she like this before you met her?

 

[koalabear]

The only person who can fix a drunk is the drunk themselves. Stop picking up drunks in bars.

 

[Mrs.H]

I am currently in a long term relationship with an alcoholic woman. I am not against drinking except when a person has a real drinking problem. I want to move on and escape from this woman but I first want to meet a woman who I am compatible with. If you are in the New England area and would like to explore this further let me know.
Thanks,

Jack

Describe long term? Only reason why I'm asking is, you sound VERY

young. My dear, you need counseling. Contact your local AA chapter

and see where hey have meetings for Co-Dependents of Alcoholics.

It will do a world of help. I speak from experience.

 

[default24]

Fuck the people that are calling you weak. Chances are if she's an alkie, she hates herself or some facet of her life, and is trying to escape. That being said, it's up to you to move on and take the leap of faith into the single pool. You've gotta know you can do better