Ain't it cute when...

[RavenSpirit2k4]

Someone who pursued you amost a year ago, then disappeared for months looking for a better partner, suddenly reappears acting like no time has passed? Especially when you know that looking for someone better is what they were doing.

 

[bluntforcemama]

I've never had that happen. I'm always very clear that they will not be allowed back into my life unless it's only as friends.

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

She's about to find that out. But I thought I might let her get her hopes up just for today and then tell her that tomorrow. Kind of like she did me, but faster. I'm impatient these days.

 

[bluntforcemama]

She's about to find that out. But I thought I might let her get her hopes up just for today and then tell her that tomorrow. Kind of like she did me, but faster. I'm impatient these days.

Well, you know what they say about revenge... I'm just bitch enough to agree with it, too.

 

[shy slave]

small hijack

I like the new name but confess I will miss your pussy

Please, Please Post the outcome complete with facial expressions when she realises that you have figured her out

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

Lol, I will.

 

[FungiUg]

I guess I'm just not revenge motivated.

I have had this happen to me in person. My ex-wife asked for a "trial separation", and when it didn't work out with her new girlfriend, she came back and told me she was thinking about us getting back together again.

It would have been disaster, of course. As flattering as it was to know she missed me, she's gay. And I can't imagine living in a relationship with little to no sex. Erk.

Oddly enough, it was after that when I REALLY fell apart. Up until then I had been kind of holding it together. But when I turned her down... I KNEW it was over. It really sunk in.

Anyway... yeah, I could have strung her along and hurt her. I know she hurt me like no one had ever hurt me before. But... I still cared about her. I still loved her. And no matter what the provocation, I'm not into hurting people... especially those I care for.

Remember -- what goes around comes around. What you put out is what you receive. So if someone comes back to you, that's great. But as an opportunity for cruelty? Do you really want to become someone who will treat others like that? Your respect for YOURSELF is what really matters.

If that does it for you... fine. But I know I couldn't enjoy who I am if I was someone like that.

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

I guess I'm just not revenge motivated.

I have had this happen to me in person. My ex-wife asked for a "trial separation", and when it didn't work out with her new girlfriend, she came back and told me she was thinking about us getting back together again.

It would have been disaster, of course. As flattering as it was to know she missed me, she's gay. And I can't imagine living in a relationship with little to no sex. Erk.

Oddly enough, it was after that when I REALLY fell apart. Up until then I had been kind of holding it together. But when I turned her down... I KNEW it was over. It really sunk in.

Anyway... yeah, I could have strung her along and hurt her. I know she hurt me like no one had ever hurt me before. But... I still cared about her. I still loved her. And no matter what the provocation, I'm not into hurting people... especially those I care for.

Remember -- what goes around comes around. What you put out is what you receive. So if someone comes back to you, that's great. But as an opportunity for cruelty? Do you really want to become someone who will treat others like that? Your respect for YOURSELF is what really matters.

If that does it for you... fine. But I know I couldn't enjoy who I am if I was someone like that.

Eh, we're not talking about love here. It just made me feel bad about myself when she did me like that. Like she was looking for a better domme because I'm not all that great.

More than anything, I'm formulating my response to her rather than actually stringing her along. But I can't honestly say I regret it if she does get her hopes up. For her, at least, it'll only be one day, for me it was almost a month she lead me on.

I'm having an interesting evening and night, aren't I? That'll teach me to complain about being bored.

 

[FungiUg]

I'm having an interesting evening and night, aren't I? That'll teach me to complain about being bored.

*chuckle*

 

[lorddragonwolf]

Well, you know what they say about revenge... I'm just bitch enough to agree with it, too.

yes revenge is a dish best served cold.