Age old question...

[Tighter]

One of my male friends asked me today.. "does size REALLY matter?"
I was quick to respond with a, "YES".

He of course said.. "I KNEW it!"

Well it matter to ME as I've had both and honestly.. my motto now is, "the bigger, the better".


So does it matter to you?

 

[EJFan]

as a guy, yes, it definitely matters to me... because all guys know that all women go around talking to all their friends about this shit. i can't stand the thought of my wee willy winky being degraded behind his back.

the general consensus around here has been that there's a vagina for every penis... a hole for every pole... so women who think bigger's better must have... well... room to accomodate yer bigger units.

i banged a girl once and it was like waving a yardstick in the holland tunnel.

of course, this is coming from a guy who has room to spare when i stick my john-thomas into the end of a bic pen.

 

[Tighter]

Oh now that's offensive... mine is in no way throwing a hot dog down a hallway hon... quite the opposite.
But it seems for one innocent question I was bound to get an answer with a bit of an insult thrown in.

 

[EJFan]

But it seems for one innocent question I was bound to get an answer with a bit of an insult thrown in.

with a little requisite self-deprication thrown in. i wouldn't poke fun at size queens without poking fun at myself as well.

 

[Eilan]

Must. Exercise. Self. Control.

*backs slowly out of thread*

 

[HollyHawkk]

Well.... If you can't feel it what fun is it? (same can be said from the male point of view)!!

 

[Tighter]

with a little requisite self-deprication thrown in. i wouldn't poke fun at size queens without poking fun at myself as well.

I'm no size queen.. I'm a size princess.

In all honesty though.. it may sound shallow and maybe even a little selfish, but after having sampled from both ends of the spectrum, it's just how I feel.
And not all women are necessarily 'loose' from liking/wanting 'bigger'... I'm not talking GI-normous mind you.. just little better than "what-the-heck-is-that?"

 

[luv1]

I'm always paranoid about my willy. I remember when I was first going out with my first girlfriend and we were young and so sure we got out the tape measure and whoo hoo! 7 and bit inchs, but it still looked smaller.....over the years I read that if you have less sex your little chap gets even littler So I measure and it's 7 inchs (it wasn't as hard as the first time all those years ago) so the paranoia sets up home in my head...and stayed. All the while it looks smaller to me. Untill I took a photo (don't ask, it was for a friend....I said don't ask) side on and was surprised at how big it look then I worked it out. The reason it looked small to me was because I was looking down at it and it curves given the impression it's smaller .....Or is it Darn being single

 

[HollyHawkk]

What is the real average size?? I heard it was about 5 to seven inches hard.

 

[Eilan]

This is in the FAQ Sticky:

According to the editors of "Men's Health", the average penis is 5.03" in length and 5.14" in circumference.

If you're bigger than that, you're "above average".

But, for your information, the BRAIN is the largest sex organ that anyone has... Use it!

Now, before anyone attacks my lack of understanding of "elementery" statistics (sorry--inside joke around these parts), keep in mind that one study isn't the be-all, end-all.

 

[lizaveta]

Every size has its perks and problems, I think. From my experience, length doesn't matter much; turns out I don't feel much after the first inch or two anyway. Well, unless it was banging against my cervix, at which point it's "Whoa there, Chief - flip over please."

Deepthroating is a lot easier if it isn't sticking up out of his waistband, too.

Girth is a better measure, but even that is relative. One guy was so big that if I hadn't already been fully satisfied no way was it going to fit without some serious effort, and even then he had to work for it. Put a damper on any "quickie" notions right quick, and no way was he exploring any other nether territory with that thing.

I prefer the mid-size model, to be honest. Easier on the BJ and excellent sensation everywhere it counts - for me.

But, of course, I have to say that no matter the size, skill level is a much better predictor of my level of satisfaction. If all you have is the tool... Well, I can buy one of those. Men, get a manual and learn how to use ALL your parts.

Just my two cents, and since they're trying to phase out the penny we all know what that's worth.
L

 

[Tighter]

Every size has its perks and problems, I think. From my experience, length doesn't matter much; turns out I don't feel much after the first inch or two anyway. Well, unless it was banging against my cervix, at which point it's "Whoa there, Chief - flip over please."

Deepthroating is a lot easier if it isn't sticking up out of his waistband, too.

Girth is a better measure, but even that is relative. One guy was so big that if I hadn't already been fully satisfied no way was it going to fit without some serious effort, and even then he had to work for it. Put a damper on any "quickie" notions right quick, and no way was he exploring any other nether territory with that thing.

I prefer the mid-size model, to be honest. Easier on the BJ and excellent sensation everywhere it counts - for me.

But, of course, I have to say that no matter the size, skill level is a much better predictor of my level of satisfaction. If all you have is the tool... Well, I can buy one of those. Men, get a manual and learn how to use ALL your parts.

Just my two cents, and since they're trying to phase out the penny we all know what that's worth.
L

VERY well said.. and I fully agree. http://bestsmileys.com/thumbs/7.gif

 

[sunshine12]

does size matter

To me size does not matter I have been with guys who were big but didn't know how to use what they had so to me it how you use it that matters

 

[HandFan]

For me...the only reason that size could matter would be that if a guy is a little longer, it's easier to perform some positions. I'm very happy with 5 and adverage girth myself, but sometimes wish my SO could add on about 2inches when we want to try more exotic positions; then he could just go back down to 5 for the rest. I'm small in the vagina, so I really can't accomidate a lot anyway....it would hurt too much!

 

[Quoll]

Must. Exercise. Self. Control.

*backs slowly out of thread*

Now, before anyone attacks my lack of understanding of "elementery" statistics (sorry--inside joke around these parts), keep in mind that one study isn't the be-all, end-all.

Oh well done, give yourself a pat on the back.
Is that muffled screams I can hear in the distance.

I have nothing to add to the discussion, I am the size I am, not small enough to try and enlarge it, not too big to be a public threat.

 

[SallyIsHere]

trivial

Unfortunately dicks are attached to real people. I have had sex with young guys with huge dicks who are completely boring. A guy wearing a baseball cap backwards who says "dude" every third word and thinks sex is relentlessly pounding his dick into some appreciative passive chick is not going to do it for me.
If you don't know how to talk, share, be creative and act like a partner, your big dick is a waste. There is too much to explore that has nothing to do with cock size.

Sal

 

[Michi_Knickers]

*definate size queen*

 

[Pyro Paul]

yay finaly some where i can start an aurgument and be totaly right!

Accourding to the sexual based studies among human interaction, human sexual pleasures, biological interaction and biological sexual interaction, the Stunning conclusion has come to prove that size does NOT matter in the value of intercourse or sexual pleasure. seeing as how only a small presentage of people can be pushed to orgasim by internal vaginal stimulation the size of the penis would not matter as they dont entierly feel the stimulation from your penis. Also as a great opposit, the ones that can be pushed to orgasim by internal vaginal stimulation Hate men with larger penises simply because their vaginas are more sensitive, and the larger penis causes Great pain to them.

in a 107 biologicals studies of All mammals that have mating patterns as well as ones that proforme acts of sexual pleasure simply for pleasure (dolphins) it was found that Penises among those mammals ranged from 1-3 (land based mammals) and 4-6 (water based mammals) Also Found, Males that had unusualy Large penises where usualy outcasted by the group of land based mammals (usualy apes). (commonly thought that their sexual drive was too strong and they where outcasted by the alphamale. although the true reason behind this is not entierly known)

In modern human sexuality studies it is found that Females Often do not like larger penises simply because there is not much that one can do with it. the saying 'okay your inside me... now what?' and often those with larger penis often can only have sexual intercourse with a simple In and out motion, providing an extreamly less stimulating experence than one of a more avarage penis size. often the saying 'it isnt the size of the boat, its the motion of the ocean' comes in to play here seeing as how the person with the smaller penis can do more with himself in her. as it is easyer to pull out, push in and manuver her around (move your legs around pull out rub your clit then gently eaze it in).

even though most know that size doesnt matter, in full truth the common belief is size Does matter, there is the rare few that enjoy the feeling of a larger penis simply because the pressure of the larger penis on the internal nervious sensors Around the vagina (not In the vagina) tend to feel the preasure, also those with larger penises often find it easyer to hit the eroginous zones of women (the g spot) as they tend to fill the women more. most belive that with the larger penis is better Mostly because it is portrayed in Pornography. ofcourse the same rule here also applys to Breast, raising another good question, Does the Size of the Breast matter? in pornography your presented with well hung men giving huge breasted women sexual pleasure, even though some or most think that those people are acting, we still like to belive, wow that Larger penis is making that hot girl cum alot harder than i ever could. also the idea that a Larger penis will get them more chicks. again i would like to ask, when is the last time any one with a large penis walked up to a girl in a bar and Pulled his dick out and said, 'I got a large penis!' and got laid? oddly enough, None. and most get arrested for indesent exposure, that is if the girl doesnt beat the life out of him...

So, in Human sexuality, modern biology, as well as in Modern Human social patterns Size does Not matter!


i humbly wait your rebuttle, filled with cold hard proof saying size matters.

thank you for your time.

 

[Pyro Paul]

sry, i got a little carried away there.

but hey, what ever floats your boat go with it. im one to belive that large guys can only fit some girls, because most girls it hurts, and the ones that they do fit, to every one else that has a normal dick size they have a pussy that has the consistancy of romin noodle soup. maybe it works out for both of em....

 

[FurryFury]

Men are just nuts about this.

Size doesn't matter to me. I've been with four guys. Never did I see a discernable size difference.

I would be scared of a really bit one though. I am NOT looking for that! Grandma always said Grandpa was so big he hurt. LOL! She about scared me to death!

Fury

 

[Eilan]

Oh well done, give yourself a pat on the back.
Is that muffled screams I can hear in the distance.

I done good, didn't I?








I'm a little hoarse from all the screaming, though.

 

[Epona's Chylde]

I've had sex with 4 different guys. One was about 5 inches and HORRIBLE, did nothing for me. Another was also 5 inches and gave me the most awesome orgasms of my life. The only thing I found fault with in his case is that some positions are not feasible.

The other two guys were 6in and 8inch. 6 inches was fine, 8 was good when I was *really* turned on, but the rest of the time it hurt.

As someone who enjoys anal, I'll go with 5-6in as my preference.