Age and Movies

[Shadowsdream]

Ok heres the scoop...

I am in the midst of writing a movie script..believe it or not it is BDSM related...who would have thought right?

Main characters are 1 Domme and 2 male subs and 1 female sub...supporting characters 1 Domme and 1 female sub...

I have given them all ages of course but thought it would be interesting to see where kinky movie goers might like to see the ages in proportion to their own kinks and fantasies...

anyone care to add some input..maybe even some whys?

Thanking you in advance

 

[catalina_francisco]

LOL, never would have guessed!! Question is though, are you going to reserve the lead part for yourself..I would if I were you. As to age I guess it isn't a biggee for me as long as it is believeable and real as an overall storyline. I figuer it would be so doin't forget we all want free tickets when it is released.

Catalina

 

[Shadowsdream]

LOL, never would have guessed!! Question is though, are you going to reserve the lead part for yourself..I would if I were you. As to age I guess it isn't a biggee for me as long as it is believeable and real as an overall storyline. I figuer it would be so doin't forget we all want free tickets when it is released.

Catalina [/QUOTE

~~grin~~ well I had considered grabbing the lead role and will at the very least do so in the pilot that will be filmed in February..

I am only interested in depicting reality...hopes and dreams...

But I don't want to influence the age question as I do think it can be very important as it relates to reality and believability to those who do not understand BDSM and *only* see it as perversion.

 

[incubus'_sub]

Well, in the interests of reality, one of the female subs should probably be middle aged. I'm sure Catalina will agree ( & please send us tickets so we can both audition ) that there is a group of us here who spent our younger years striving to be good little wives & mothers by smothering our kinks.

We may be older, but we are certainly wiser in the ways of the world, and we now embrace the lifestyle with true enjoyment and abandon, happy to have finally found where we belong.

Sounds like a great project.

 

[graceanne]

Well in my fantasy's and stories my dom's are usually middle aged. I think that it's sexier for several reasons. One, they have experience, and two I like older guys. lol

I generally have the sub as about my age (mid 20's), but that's cause it's my fantasy. I'm sure as i get older, the subs in my fantasy's will too.

 

[Shadowsdream]

Well, in the interests of reality, one of the female subs should probably be middle aged. I'm sure Catalina will agree ( & please send us tickets so we can both audition ) that there is a group of us here who spent our younger years striving to be good little wives & mothers by smothering our kinks.

We may be older, but we are certainly wiser in the ways of the world, and we now embrace the lifestyle with true enjoyment and abandon, happy to have finally found where we belong.

Sounds like a great project.

~~smile~~ thank you for your contribution! I also like the idea of maturity that can back step to the younger moments of trials and tribulations...

Hmmm I never thought of auditions outside of Stockholm and BC...good idea ~~grin~~

 

[Shadowsdream]

Well in my fantasy's and stories my dom's are usually middle aged. I think that it's sexier for several reasons. One, they have experience, and two I like older guys. lol

I generally have the sub as about my age (mid 20's), but that's cause it's my fantasy. I'm sure as i get older, the subs in my fantasy's will too.

Thank you graceanne...which sub/s would you see as younger..the main subs or the peripheral?

 

[catalina_francisco]

LOL, now do incubus_sub and I audition together or seperately? Could be quite the experience, speaking of which it will be nice to have a movie written by someone with some real experience of the lifestyle rather than basing it on fantasy and perhaps wishful thinking. And then there will be the book....well hope so, and then the book and documentary about how you reached this point and wrote this masterpiece or should that be Mistresspiece!! Hmmm, then you could split that into 2 books and documentaries instead of one. Hmmm, I think your fingers are going to be worked to the bone. Seriouslly, I think it is great you are doing this and we are privileged to count you as one of our community.

Catalina http://www.smilies4you.de/content/smileypics/b9.gif

 

[Shadowsdream]

LOL, now do incubus_sub and I audition together or seperately? Could be quite the experience, speaking of which it will be nice to have a movie written by someone with some real experience of the lifestyle rather than basing it on fantasy and perhaps wishful thinking. And then there will be the book....well hope so, and then the book and documentary about how you reached this point and wrote this masterpiece or should that be Mistresspiece!! Hmmm, then you could split that into 2 books and documentaries instead of one. Hmmm, I think your fingers are going to be worked to the bone. Seriouslly, I think it is great you are doing this and we are privileged to count you as one of our community.

Catalina http://www.smilies4you.de/content/smileypics/b9.gif

Have your people been speaking with My people? How did you know there is a book and a documentary? Man O Man!

LOL

A big Lit BDSM audition..of course you will all have to come to Sweden or Canada to audition!

 

[snowy ciara]

May I please audition, too?

I tend to go for older people, too. I'm starting to think this is a big part of some people's (but not all!) kinks. That being said, I do know a person who didn't really embrace this part of her life until she was 29-30 ish. I've talked to her as well as her PYL and there is just something really enticing about a (I'm trying to put this as unoffensively as possible, because that's really not my intent.) er, more grown up sub who's a complete novice. I find it fascinating. It's almost as if making it that long and staying "virginal" bdsm wise is more special. But I'm not a PYL, so I don't know about that. Her PYL seemed to think of it that way too.

Another thing that sounds wonderful, though I 'm really not brave enough to try it, is the 2 Dom/me, 1 sub scene. That just sounds so lovely.

I hope I made a little bit of sense here.

 

[Shadowsdream]

May I please audition, too?

I tend to go for older people, too. I'm starting to think this is a big part of some people's (but not all!) kinks. That being said, I do know a person who didn't really embrace this part of her life until she was 29-30 ish. I've talked to her as well as her PYL and there is just something really enticing about a (I'm trying to put this as unoffensively as possible, because that's really not my intent.) er, more grown up sub who's a complete novice. I find it fascinating. It's almost as if making it that long and staying "virginal" bdsm wise is more special. But I'm not a PYL, so I don't know about that. Her PYL seemed to think of it that way too.

Another thing that sounds wonderful, though I 'm really not brave enough to try it, is the 2 Dom/me, 1 sub scene. That just sounds so lovely.

I hope I made a little bit of sense here.

ciara your input was lovely and thinking it out like that for Me is very helpful in understanding age choices...

I really appreciate it ~ ~smile~~

of course you may audition!

 

[Quint]

Depends so much on their emotional level, their connection to the other characters, and pretty much everything else about their characterization. I can't age a person until I know who they are, ya know?

I don't even know that I'd relate all that well to someone of a similar age to myself...everyone progresses through BDSM at different speeds. On an aesthetic level, I'd probably most enjoy younger submissive women and older dominant women...since I don't appreciate or relate to submissive men very much, that would be irrelevant. o)

Sounds like a lot of fun! I hope you enjoy how this turns out, Shadowsdream!

 

[WriterDom]

It's only a matter of time before rose and kc show up here.

I'd like to buy a copy when you are done!

 

[Kajira Callista]

well your female sub...ermm i mean the female sub in the movie should be about 38 and a redhead just my opinion ya know.

 

[Shadowsdream]

Depends so much on their emotional level, their connection to the other characters, and pretty much everything else about their characterization. I can't age a person until I know who they are, ya know?

I don't even know that I'd relate all that well to someone of a similar age to myself...everyone progresses through BDSM at different speeds. On an aesthetic level, I'd probably most enjoy younger submissive women and older dominant women...since I don't appreciate or relate to submissive men very much, that would be irrelevant. o)

Sounds like a lot of fun! I hope you enjoy how this turns out, Shadowsdream!

~~smile~~ thank you quint...I am very much enjoying this script journey..which really is already in full bloom of characters...ages..pasts..presents and futures...I am now doing a peek back to see how well My interests fit into those of you kinksters.

 

[graceanne]

Thank you graceanne...which sub/s would you see as younger..the main subs or the peripheral?

um, I don't know. I guess how old I think they should be would depend on the experience you want that character to have. If you want them to be an experienced sub then it makes little sense to have them be my age. Their's only so much experience in subbing you can have at my age. Same as with dom/mes.

 

[ShyGuy68]

I'm looking forward to being able to buy a signed DVD, once it's released on DVD

 

[Shadowsdream]

It's only a matter of time before rose and kc show up here.

I'd like to buy a copy when you are done!

I wonder where they are hiding...movie if for the theatre...keep your fingers crossed!

 

[Shadowsdream]

well your female sub...ermm i mean the female sub in the movie should be about 38 and a redhead just my opinion ya know.

Ha ha ha you made Me choke on a cookie..thats never good!

 

[Shadowsdream]

um, I don't know. I guess how old I think they should be would depend on the experience you want that character to have. If you want them to be an experienced sub then it makes little sense to have them be my age. Their's only so much experience in subbing you can have at my age. Same as with dom/mes.

Good point! you are a smart little cookie!

 

[Shadowsdream]

I'm looking forward to being able to buy a signed DVD, once it's released on DVD

~~smile~~ hello ShyGuy....I am keeping notes about DVD distribution ~~grin~~

 

[Kajira Callista]

Ha ha ha you made Me choke on a cookie..thats never good!

oh my brushes the crumbs off of you and pats you gently on the back.

 

[Shadowsdream]

oh my brushes the crumbs off of you and pats you gently on the back.

Ha ha ha now stop it brat girl!

 

[Kajira Callista]

Ha ha ha now stop it brat girl!

I actually think... Dommes older, one male sub older then them... and one young sub, doesnt matter if its a male or a female. (hands you a bunch of still warm just made peanut butter cookies)

 

[Shadowsdream]

I actually think... Dommes older, one male sub older then them... and one young sub, doesnt matter if its a male or a female. (hands you a bunch of still warm just made peanut butter cookies)

Now thats better beastie girl! Some age dynamics to build around! Kinky thing you!