After some good lovin'

[daughter]

So what happens after you and your partner have had some great sex? Do you wanna cuddle, sleep, talk, go at it again?

I know women complain about a fella just rollin' over. In my case, I'm the sleeper. LOL Yep, a good session relaxes me to the point of wanting to snooze. Doesn't matter the time of day.

My s/o wasn't thrilled with this initially. I felt like crap for making him feel bad. Truth is, I really do feel so good and exhausted, that sleep is the natural response for me. Any other ladies do this?

I'm sensitive about my fella's feelings, too, so I have learned to cuddle some. Talking has never been an issue. We do that a lot. And, he's pretty secure so once he got the connection, it became a joke between us. He calls me sleepy head. Whenever I can't sleep he offers me a 'pill'. I love a double dose. Makes me sleep like a baby.

Peace,

daughter

 

[lovetoread]

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[TigerClaw]

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[daughter]

over time

lovetoread--

This is a new romance, right? Some things are probably going to just mellow with a little time, er?


My fella and I found a good mix. Just being together, he realized it really is just my nature and I'm sensitive to how he feels.
When you love somebody, you care that your partner's needs and wants are met. My s/o and I try to do that without pressuring the other to be someone she/he isn't. We're all for compromise. We also respect our differences. I'm a sleepy head in love with an insomoniac. We've never had any friction over our sleeping patterns.

Peace,

daughter

 

[Elizabeth]

I am usually the sleeper. I love it right after when he strokes my back and legs... but that puts me to sleep too. I'm not really into cuddling but I won't turn it down, if that's what he wants.

 

[Mistress]

I like to go again

 

[Guest]

Tiger_n_NJ
Location: Tall Grass Under the Tree of Sex! Enjoying my company with LoveToRead. "Rarely does one get the opportunity for Earth Shattering Love. When you do you must go for it. " I've gone for it and she is Mine and I am hers!


So, lovetoread is talking about how she and her husband have sex while you have this in your location box, Tiger?
And you have collared her while your mates are clueless?
Fine, I'll register just to say this over again, but you two creep me out. What if it was reversed and your husband and wife were the ones playing "velcro collar" with someone they just met online on a sex board.
Is that really fair to them as humans?

God this is sad when people behave like you two.


Back to the thread:
My girl likes to fall asleep almost before I can even pull out of her. She starts making these cute purring noises then is out like a light.
I take it as a compliment.


Off to register me a name so I can say stuff without getting slammed so when I have a random name my opinion will count.

 

[morninggirl5]

Depending on the day, I'm either completely relaxed and want nothing more than to fall asleep or I'm wide awake- talk to me- cuddle-talk some more. There is no pattern to my reactions at all. One former lover said part of the fun was seeing what reaction he got afterwards.

 

[daughter]

don't know what you're referring to

Unregistered--

I don't know what relationship you're referring to, but lovetoread's business is her own.

You might not approve, but I don't understand why you feel compelled to criticize her publicly. No one is asking for anyone's approval nor permission on this forum.

I'm all for hearing folks divulging whatever they want about themselves, but mud sligging says more about the slinger than the intended target.

Peace,

daughter

 

[TigerClaw]

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[lovetoread]

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[Mellon Collie]

So what happens after you and your partner have had some great sex? Do you wanna cuddle, sleep, talk, go at it again?

*Sigh*

I'll let you know as soon as I do.

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

Nothing so far,

But Cuddleing sounds nice.

 

[Chuckus]

With us it is a 50/50 deal. Sometimes...........if I am already tired and we have a good go round of sexual flavoring, I am the one who tends to fall asleep or want to sleep as opposed to talk.

however there are the times when she is tired already and we go at it like wild animals and she is ready to sleep.........we find the easiest solution is just to tell the other what we feel like doing. Either way we usually are both relaxed and ready for sleep (if it is at night) and if it is during daytime hours, maybe we just take a quick nap and "refresh" ourselves and wake up and do it again!!!

and of course there are times we just do it again, and again, and again..........until we are both exhausted or our body parts are beginning to hurt or become sore!!!

 

[lilfrk]

After some good lovin' he's hungry and I'm sleepy. Once in awhile it's the other way around. Usually he stays with me and tickles my back and plays with my hair until I'm asleep. Then he goes to eat.

 

[OLIEOGRE]

we both are usually so exhausted from the effort that we both fall asleep. But it is a good sleep

 

[knightstalker]

I would have to say I like to do it again ..I also like to cuddle and stroke her hair or back until she either falls asleep or wants more..Right now tho i only get to talk to my girl online or on the phone ..Kinda hard to do anything that way but thats soon to change in january..

 

[April]

I'll let you know next time it happens.

 

[Thumper]

After?

Shutdown MSN..then go to sleep.

J/K

Those who engage in mudslinging....have dirty hands.

 

[Wiggles]

We usually do the five seconds of cuddling.
Then it's a race to the bathroom, he always wins!
Then we either go to sleep, or get something to eat.

At some point we'll usually end up chasing each other around the apartment.
#Smack# *Slap* <Pinch>

 

[seXieleXie]

i'm not a sleeper. i like to cuddle and kiss.
talking after sex usually isn't high on my list because orgasms make me stupid and i usually have nothing to say other than "mmm....wow"
if the person i'm with falls asleep i don't mind. i usually just stay in bed and listen to music or read until i'm ready for sleep too, or until i decide i want more and wake him/her up