Advice????

[staryeyed]

I never believed it could happen to me and it did! I met this really great guy off line. Everything I wanted in a guy. Well call him Fred. I really liked Fred. We couldnt Keep our hands off each other. I wanted to see him again, Id hoped hed want to date me again. but it seems fred got really jealous over some emails and posted messages on the dating service in which we met. From another man named Bob lets say. I cant figure out how bob got so obsessed but he kept making it seem like wed fallen in love. Made it seem like he and I were running away to paris. I know that most of the stuff online isnt real. Its just theres nothing I can say or do to change the way he feels. He thinks that what he says is the real deal. I never heard a word from him again. I got an email but he wont return my calls. I cant believe this is happening all over someone Ive never met. The email said said something on the lines of Lets be Friends and Goodbye. Everything that he said after that should not matter to me.
Everyone says forget Fred and go for Bob???
what should I do... I wanted fred all along?

 

[estevie]

Advice? Lets start by calling them Dave and Mark!

Seriously, I think your question is whether to forget about "dave" and go for 'Mark' who has some sort of obsession for you. Right? Personally, you have confused me. But, I say this...you can not substitute one person for another. If you cannot have the man you are after, accepting the man that wants you is not enough. Don't settle. Good luck!

 

[staryeyed]

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Think its because Im so confused myself.. sorry

 

[estevie]

*chuckles*

No worries, hon. I am easily confused.

I hope everything works out for you!

Welcome to the board!

 

[Wiggles]

I'd see If I couldn't get Mr. Bob to write an email to Mr. Fred. But, it could be conceived that Fred's a little too moody.

Just use your best judgement. It sort of depends on the situation and how cool you are with Bob.