Just curious to see how I should react to a situation where I am not satisfied with my sexual relationship but totally fullfilled with my emotional relationship. Since I have been married this is becoming more of an issue than I ever thought. Emotionally, things are great, however, our sexual relationship is suffering greatly. Any advice out there ???
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Donsehan
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sure dude, try working it out, don't talk, like try to be more sexual around her, tempt her, or him. Try to tease the person as much as possible, leaving dirty notes, and stuff will work, or even wearing "sexier" clothing and always tease the person. After a while they'll come around, and you two can share fantasies and act them out.
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ncfun said:
Welcome to Lit ncfun.
At a time in my life, I felt my married sexual relationship was non-existent. I felt unwanted, and taken for granted.
Women have hearts as deep as oceans, and memories like elephants.
What tripped my trigger was when he MADE me feel sexy. He touched me meaningfully, but not in a sexual way. He worked his way up to it, and it worked.
Romance her, and if these things don't work; remember that she isn't a mind reader. You may have to train her in the bedroom to suit your needs.
I wish you and your wife all the very best that life has to offer. Any private questions can be answered via my PM box.
Sincerely-
Rain
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Re: Re: Advice
that's true make her feel sexy and wanted, I know it made my ex feel great.
Originally posted by Raindear816
Welcome to Lit ncfun.
At a time in my life, I felt my married sexual relationship was non-existent. I felt unwanted, and taken for granted.
Women have hearts as deep as oceans, and memories like elephants.
What tripped my trigger was when he MADE me feel sexy. He touched me meaningfully, but not in a sexual way. He worked his way up to it, and it worked.
Romance her, and if these things don't work; remember that she isn't a mind reader. You may have to train her in the bedroom to suit your needs.
I wish you and your wife all the very best that life has to offer. Any private questions can be answered via my PM box.
Sincerely-
Rain
that's true make her feel sexy and wanted, I know it made my ex feel great.
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