Advice please for beginner

[labialover1001]

I am emailing someone who sounds my perfect gf. She spends hours tormenting her breasts and pussy. She ties and clips her breasts, clips and twists her labia, and likes to fill her pussy with as large objects as possible and can push them out. She seems agreeable to fisting and does not seem to have tried it before.

I love pleasuring women, especially pussy pleasure, part of my pleasure coming from the fact that I am a voyeur and love to look at pussy and breasts.

So I wondered if anyone has advice on how to aid and pleasure her?

Edit: her clit hood is pierced.

 

[Stella_Omega]

sounds like a dream come true!

My advice, if you have the imagination, is to add to her pleasure by providing context. Why are these mean people tormenting her poor little pussy-- Punishment? Treatment? Science experiments? revenge? Power gone mad? You get to be the mean people and give them a voice.

 

[amofiga]

You did not say explicity but it can perhaps be surmised by her masturbation actions that she is a sub, or at least likes to sometimes take a sub role. However it is also possible for a domme to demand such things be done to her by her sub to provide the sort of satisfaction she craves.

If you want to please her, then you (assuming you have that bent) must take on the role of dom and do the things she likes to do to please herself (assuming she wants them done to her by someone else). You must show her that she must give up that action to you or perhaps you demand that she do these things for you to watch and direct. If she indeed enjoys using herself this way, she will probably enjoy being used by you to please you. It would be a pleasure for her both ways to do this. However, if you truly are in a relationship, you should talk this through so that you don't misread her actions. Her desire may only be to have you watch. You shouldn't assume things about anyone's sexuality. Trying to push her in the wrong direction or making the wrong assumption could just make things awkward.

She sounds like an ideal situation if you are compatible and can complement each other. Good luck.

PS: Fisting can be a fantastic intimate sharing experience. I've known several women who loved being fisted and in my opinion is a great experience from both sides. However, if she's never done it, take it very slow and let her set the pace. If you over do it and it's an unpleasant or scary experience for her, she may never want to do it again. There is a balance between being the "driving dom" and letting her call the shots, at least in the beginning. Again, good luck and I hope it all works out.