Advice on being "discovered"?

[Getaway.Driver]

Now I never wanted to this to happen but being a closet CD who's bi, my annoying housemate who is forever borrowing my computer because he's too lazy to rig his up to the internet just walked into my room while I took a phonecall on the landline in another room. I'd been looking at trannies and as I thought I'd only be a minute, I didn't bother to minimise the pictures I was looking at. I was well annoyed and I know he saw the pics. I'm also sure he's found my makeup stuff as he's always just helping himself to my things.
What should I do. Keep quiet? We're in the same social circle and share many friends so I'm worried after a few drinks he might divulge his findings to another peer.
I"M SO PISSED OFF! Any advice would be great.

 

[Night_Jasmine]

It sounds like you need a new housemate. That one really has no respect for boundaries it seems.

Part of me is like wait for him to bring it up and another says bring it up to him. I think it depends on the type of person he is.

The others might have more advice for you though. Good luck!

 

[dizzylia]

It sounds like you need a new housemate. That one really has no respect for boundaries it seems.

Part of me is like wait for him to bring it up and another says bring it up to him. I think it depends on the type of person he is.

The others might have more advice for you though. Good luck!

Yeouch. I always lock my computer when I walk away. It could be a housemate. My cat might pounce on the keyboard. You never know. Control + alt + delete is your friend sometimes.

I say wait for him to bring it up. Maybe you were doing, uh... research?

 

[gar9101]

housemate

Well you should tell this jerk that your room is just that, YOUR ROOM, and plz not go in tere with out asking you. If that bothers him, maybe you should find a new roommate,next thing you know, he'll be helping himself to your money.

 

[Getaway.Driver]

Well you should tell this jerk that your room is just that, YOUR ROOM, and plz not go in tere with out asking you. If that bothers him, maybe you should find a new roommate,next thing you know, he'll be helping himself to your money.

He's done that before! Not only has he nicked cash he also helps himself to my weed! Yeah, I need a new housmate! Maybe I should leave this forum open next time I leave my room!
Thanks to all who've suggested what to do. I'll let u know if anything happens.

 

[WhoIsJohnGalt]

Yeah, you really need to stand up for yourself and tell him what the rules are. It's total crap that he thinks your stuff is his.

 

[ShinigamiSama]

He's done that before! Not only has he nicked cash he also helps himself to my weed! Yeah, I need a new housmate! Maybe I should leave this forum open next time I leave my room!
Thanks to all who've suggested what to do. I'll let u know if anything happens.

eh...
the second is worse than the first I think

my roomie used to take a pinch or two of my weed now and then but he usualy rolled them and I suck at rolling - which is why I have a pipe

anyways

it does look like its time for a new flat mate if he can't respect that

 

[txboyalone]

Kiss Him

Its unfortunate that he surprised you but I would just give him a big kiss and say, " You tell anybody and I will tell them we have been lovers since you moved in." In other words, you out me and I will out YOU.

Then I would get a lock for my door and change the pass word on my computer.

Good luck

 

[Night_Jasmine]

Its unfortunate that he surprised you but I would just give him a big kiss and say, " You tell anybody and I will tell them we have been lovers since you moved in." In other words, you out me and I will out YOU.

Then I would get a lock for my door and change the pass word on my computer.

Good luck

Oh my gods, I could NOT stop laughing when I read this. I LOVE the idea. Let's just hope the flat mate brushes his teeth regularly!

 

[Getaway.Driver]

Its unfortunate that he surprised you but I would just give him a big kiss and say, " You tell anybody and I will tell them we have been lovers since you moved in." In other words, you out me and I will out YOU.

Then I would get a lock for my door and change the pass word on my computer.

Good luck

Thats bloody brilliant! The best advice yet! To everyone who's checked out my "problem" thanks alot. It means so much to know there's some good people out there. And a brief update, he's applied for a job in... CHINA! Thats about a million miles from where I am.. fingers crossed... he he

 

[Getaway.Driver]

eh...
the second is worse than the first I think

my roomie used to take a pinch or two of my weed now and then but he usualy rolled them and I suck at rolling - which is why I have a pipe

anyways

it does look like its time for a new flat mate if he can't respect that

Dude, all you need is a good hiding place like inside the tape deck of your stereo because lets face it, who uses casettes these days! And I don't mean to brag but I can make a damm good joint in less than a minute. Practise my good friend! Practise. Anyway, my housemate is pissing off to china to avoid debt collectors! Ha Ha! RESULT!

 

[Mary Hall]

You should have been more careful if you didnt want him seeing what you were looking at on the comp.