ADVICE: not lasting long?

[Blondewife11]

My husband is only able to have sex maybe twice a week. No less than 3 days in between or he can’t get hard. Also when we do have sex, he can’t do fast thrusts or he will get off super quick. Even with slow thrusts he still can’t do intercourse for more than 5 mins without stopping. We know his testosterone is low but shots didn’t help. Any advice?

 

[BackwoodsMama]

Talk to a doctor. Might be a candidate for viagra or something similar. Also assess porn use and any internal thoughts/feelings about sex that may be influencing.

 

[Saint_Ann]

My husband is only able to have sex maybe twice a week. No less than 3 days in between or he can’t get hard. Also when we do have sex, he can’t do fast thrusts or he will get off super quick. Even with slow thrusts he still can’t do intercourse for more than 5 mins without stopping. We know his testosterone is low but shots didn’t help. Any advice?

Trade him in on a newer model.

 

[13Fantasies]

My husband is only able to have sex maybe twice a week. No less than 3 days in between or he can’t get hard. Also when we do have sex, he can’t do fast thrusts or he will get off super quick. Even with slow thrusts he still can’t do intercourse for more than 5 mins without stopping. We know his testosterone is low but shots didn’t help. Any advice?

Tell him I'll be over soon to fill in the gaps. Maybe he'd like being a cuck

 

[Paguy8641]

Cailus is probably a good choice for him. How old is he?

 

[Britva415]

can’t do intercourse for more than 5 mins without stopping

What's the reason for that? Does he lose arousal if he stops? Does he come if he doesn't stop? Does he wear himself out and have to stop because he's out of gas?

 

[Not Normal]

One has to 'teach' oneself how to last longer (assuming there is no medical issues). Focusing on the pleasure, and partner's pleasure was one thing that helped me. I also will sometimes focus on different parts of my dick if I feel like I might cum, but and not ready to end the session. Thinking about and noticing the feeling on the sides of my cock, near the base, helps me keep going. The most sensitive area (for me) is just under the head, so I'll try to ignore those sensations if I'm trying to keep going. As a kid, I remember Dr. Ruth saying that focusing on the pleasure and the sensations would help to last longer. I didn't understand that until I was older and more experienced.

I've gotten pretty successful and can last several hours (with breaks) until I cum.

I worked on these things both alone and with partners. Edging, even with a partner, also helped a lot. If I'm with someone and it starts to feel too close, I'll pull out and eat her pussy, or rub my thumb on her clit, or give her some good spanks if we're prone or doggy. the sex continues, even if I've 'excluded' my dick for a time to allow it/me to relax and not cum.

 

[Lifestyle66]

My husband is only able to have sex maybe twice a week. No less than 3 days in between or he can’t get hard. Also when we do have sex, he can’t do fast thrusts or he will get off super quick. Even with slow thrusts he still can’t do intercourse for more than 5 mins without stopping. We know his testosterone is low but shots didn’t help. Any advice?

How much alcohol does he drink?

A high alcohol intake will deplete his "free testosterone" level. So, even with testosterone shots, the alcohol would be counterproductive. (But he's probably been told that by the doctor giving him the testosterone.) And if he's been a heavy drinker for some time, it might take months of drying out to see any increase in his performance.

So basically, he may have to WANT to make different choices in his daily life and diet.