Advice needed

[nervousned]

I recently started dating this amazing woman, things have been great but i can tell she is a bit frustrated with me in bed at times. Yes she is my first and i am vastly inexperience compared to her. She has dropped hints that she likes being tied up and blind folded, something im fine with. Im fine with this but just not real sure what todo when i have her tied up and blind folded. Please help i need ideas!!!!

 

[Chicklet]

since this woman knows she's more experienced than you are, she probably won't mind communicating to you some of the thngs she's expecting while tied up.

i suggest licking, teasing with fingers, stroking, oral sex, kissing, fingering, feeding her your cock a little bit (no full fledged face fucking if this scene is about her)

you could go the cliched route and use feathers, ice cubes crossed with mouth, find something gently abraisive, like a soft hairbrush, to run over her skin...

stuff along those lines. blindfolds are great for sensation play.

 

[emap]

Asking her is the best idea, Chicklet gave you tons of great ideas as well. Course you could also read the BDSM stories or go to a BDSM website and read that. Heck you can even go to the BDSM section and ask them for ideas on what to do to your girlfriend when you have her tied up.

 

[nervousned]

Asking her is the best idea, Chicklet gave you tons of great ideas as well. Course you could also read the BDSM stories or go to a BDSM website and read that. Heck you can even go to the BDSM section and ask them for ideas on what to do to your girlfriend when you have her tied up.

thanks for the help...i did ask her and she told me i needed to figure that out for myself she cant always guide me

 

[Chicklet]

I *do not* suggest reading stories or websites for ideas - keep in mind that 99.9% of everything you find online is fantasy, and probably not what your girlfriend has in mind.

There are a lot of good threads in the BDSM section though = )