Advice needed!

[enjuedevi88]

Hey guys. Got a sexual problem.
I want to have wild, crazy sex with my fiancee all the time. Masturbation isn't enough. I am fascinated with his body and the way we make love. I should mention that we lost our virginity to one another. Finding someone else to boink is NOT an option either! (We love each other deeply.)
The problem is that he can't keep up physically. He is unable to come more than once a session, and once he does, the session is over. He's good about making me come afterwards if I'm still not satisfyed, and he does anything to make it as fulfilling as possible for me. He works hard and is tired a lot at night, and he also doesn't want sex to become routine for either of us.
I watch porn and look up erotica on the web ten times more than he does. Am I obsessed? Does anyone else have this problem?
Any advice would be much appreciated!

 

[Thephantomprincess]

Hmmmm

I wouldn't say obsessed..that would mean thinking about sex 24/7 like me (oops! Did I say that out loud?? )Maybe just active. I think that you should try just some self monitoring and control for a while. You can have too much of a good thing, even if it is with and by yourself! I know sometimes i can't get sex out of my brain..I try to do something else that will keep my hands and my mind busy!!!! Keep talking on here....we're soothing for the overactive libido!

 

[enjuedevi88]

response

I DO think about it 24/7. I can taste him, hear him, smell him all the time and it's drives me crazy. Thats' not to say I'm completely unsatisfyed, I just need a new outlet. That's why I started writing erotica, so I can blow off steam!
Thanks for the help, phantomprincess. I'll try looking at it from a different angle (though it will probably be from on my knees!)

 

[Flagg]

Sounds like a classic case of nymphomania to me. I wonder if you could have a word with my girlfriend...

 

[MunchinMark]

This always happens to some other guy doesn't it?

It sounds like you and the tired man have different levels on your libidos. The most sensible advice I can give is to compromise. He gives you more, but you ask for less. Think about it this way; don't wear him out.