Advice Needed - Wife Wants Me To Cum On Heeled Feet

[Angryniceguy]

I don't post often and this time I need advice. My wife alluded last night after sex that she wants me to cum on her feet while she wears heels. She's mentioned in the past about a lover who had a foot artist but I didn't realise she shared it. Feet are not my thing but she is. How do I go about this? Fetishists help, what's the best approach in general? Masturbate on to them? Pull out from sex and cum on them?
We've never been shy with each other and I've cum wherever and wherever has suited us but his would be new. Need help here. Thanks.

 

[NOIRTRASH]

In college guys usta cum in girls shoes at the library.

 

[pplwatching]

Feet are not my thing but she is. How do I go about this? Fetishists help, what's the best approach in general? Masturbate on to them? Pull out from sex and cum on them?

If my imagination were coming up short I'd do a little bit of sleuthing to find out why she likes it, what turns her on about it, and then do whatever gets her wet. Ask her. If there's a scenario that she thinks is hot, for example her sitting in a chair while you kneel in front of her and masturbate onto her boots then you can start there.

Have fun

 

[Joso]

I don't post often and this time I need advice. My wife alluded last night after sex that she wants me to cum on her feet while she wears heels. She's mentioned in the past about a lover who had a foot artist but I didn't realise she shared it. Feet are not my thing but she is. How do I go about this? Fetishists help, what's the best approach in general? Masturbate on to them? Pull out from sex and cum on them?
We've never been shy with each other and I've cum wherever and wherever has suited us but his would be new. Need help here. Thanks.

Do it both ways. Even though you might not be into feet, sounds like she has something that is a turn-on for her and doing this little thing won't hurt anyone. Have sex, pull out and cum on her foot as you're holding it. Later on, do it the other way...

 

[Angryniceguy]

Thanks for the help and opinions.

 

[Aphro]

Remind me not to take my shoes off at the library...

 

[Ewobbit]

I don't post often and this time I need advice. My wife alluded last night after sex that she wants me to cum on her feet while she wears heels. She's mentioned in the past about a lover who had a foot artist but I didn't realise she shared it. Feet are not my thing but she is. How do I go about this? Fetishists help, what's the best approach in general? Masturbate on to them? Pull out from sex and cum on them?
We've never been shy with each other and I've cum wherever and wherever has suited us but his would be new. Need help here. Thanks.

I know the pain. When I was young, dumb, and full of cum and just looking for anywhere to spurt it, I thought I was pretty open minded. And then I met "her".

You want to what where and when now?

The thing is, you've cum... er, COME this far. So, obviously there is something there to share.

Here's the thing. People often approach a fetish as if it were a fenced off yard. People who share it and people who don't. What it cums down to at the end of the day is what works for you and your partner(s).

Could you kneel before her as she sits in a wing backed chair and jack yourself off on her slender foot encased in black leather high heeled shoes with black fishnets and not need to look beyond her ankle for inspiration?

Why would you have to? Or does it do something for her that just her shapely foot (and shoes) alone would get you off without needing to see the rest of her body?

And who says you can only do it once?

Start slow and work your way up. Have her wear stockings and heels while you make passionate love to her and just before you feel yourself cross the threshold, lift her foot (assuming you are both flexible enough) and let her see you kiss (or even lick) that patent leather.

I would not, however, recommend a Kevin Kline/Jamie Lee Curtis where you take the shoe off her foot and stick your face in it and inhale deeply before throwing it over your shoulder and beating your chest and falling on her.

Then again, what the hell do I know? You might both get turned on instead of laughing about it like we did.

 

[LizVegas79]

She may want you to get undressed and let her know that she's in charge (for once?). You need to make her feel loved, special and beautiful and if that means getting down on your knees and jerking off all over her feet then that's what you should do.

Most women are rarely ever in charge in the bedroom. But newsflash guys! We LIKE being in charge sometimes!

It sounds to me like your wife has some pent up control issues she wants to explore. Believe me, you'll be a happy camper if you explore those issues with her rather than without her.

Plus, wearing cum in public is a huge turn-on! My husband almost always takes me out and parades me around after he's frosted my tootsie's with his admiration. It's fun to see who notices and compare notes when you get home! Plus, she's liable to be so grateful you'll be 100% back in charge again and maybe even have a free pass to try something new you've been wanting to try!

 

[Angryniceguy]

Thanks wobbly & Liz that was very helpful.
Control issues, take my word for it when I say that whatever she wants she gets. The only reason this hasn't come up is I have an aversion to feet so she saw no point in sharing.

 

[NOIRTRASH]

Remind me not to take my shoes off at the library...

It usta be a problem. Girls kick their shoes off, go to the stacks, and the guys leave surprises.

 

[keitht6]

It usta be a problem. Girls kick their shoes off, go to the stacks, and the guys leave surprises.

............

 

[lovecraft68]

Depends on the heels, are they open toed?

If your wife likes her feet played with and cum on...

Fuck her on her back with you holding her feet by the heels. Bring her feet to your face one by one as you're fucking her and lick and suck her toes(this is why open toes are the best for this) if not lick and kiss the top of her feet. If they are really open, work your tongue down the side of her arch.

When you're ready to cum, slide down the bed. have her put her feet on the bed and jack off over them, making sure to get some on each and get both shoe and foot so she feels it

Doggy style....grab her heels and lift her feet by them so she's literally just on her knees, rub your fingers across her toes and tops of her feet if you can, then when you're ready, pull out and cum all over the bottoms of them, then slip them off and show them to her.

Or if you're feeling really nasty, pull her heel off, cum in it, then slip it back on so her feet squish into it

needless to say make sure she is willing to probably not be able to wear these outside the house again, because depending on the material.....

 

[Ewobbit]

Thanks wobbly & Liz that was very helpful.
Control issues, take my word for it when I say that whatever she wants she gets. The only reason this hasn't come up is I have an aversion to feet so she saw no point in sharing.

Ah. That, my friend, is a bird of another feather all together. From the first post, I had the impression that you could take them or leave them. An outright aversion though...

Without trying to pry more than you wish to share, if one partner has a serious aversion to something that the other wants (not needs) it can cause some issues that, untended, can loom quite large.

The fact that you are at least talking about it means that you have a desire to conquer that aversion. The thing is, and I don't want to be a downer, not all aversions CAN be beaten.

But, is it the feet themselves or anything below the knee? What I'm getting at is would knee high zip-up "fuck me" boots be a problem? What if they were thigh high?

So, imagine this scenario. She is dolled up and wearing the thigh-high zip-up "streetwalker" boots you bought her... and not much else. You are between her thighs, worshipping the jeweled flower of her femininity. And with your tongue coated with the honey of her desire, as she lifts her head to watch you, you turn and lick the leather that has been grazing your cheek.

_or_

You are making love to her and just before the big finish, you pull out and turn to the side and the first spurt of your seed falls across both her thigh and that patent black leather.

In other words, according to what I gleaned from your original post, she isn't asking you to paint her toenails (yet). Could you potentially do this for her and work your way down to knee-highs and then calf-ropers and finally try for the open-toed stiletto heels?

If you can't, an alternative might be to use a condom and after finishing in the usual way, allow her to remove the condom and <SQUICK WARNING> dump the contents over them so that she can feel it squishing between her toes if that is what she wants and you can't bring yourself to do it.

 

[Anonymaso]

Is it bare feet that you're averse to or could you perhaps accommodate her on the understanding that she will not remove the heels and expect you to snog her instep?

What if you only engage in this stuff when she's shower fresh and not after a long hard day in her heels?

Only other thing I would say is that your partner has obviously chosen to test the waters despite your 'aversion.' You should therefore be careful what concessions you make and precedents you set regarding this. If you accommodate her to the detriment of your own sexual enjoyment and against your better judgement, you'll then potentially have her expecting more of the same in future.

Honesty is always better than false hope.

 

[subwannabe]

If she was man enough to talk to you about it then you should be man enough to ask her for more details. She may want you to eat it off her heels. If you don't want to do that she can give me a call.

 

[GiggLeGasm]

If she was man enough to talk to you about it then you should be man enough to ask her for more details. She may want you to eat it off her heels. If you don't want to do that she can give me a call.

I wouldn't have said it exactly like that.. but.. yes.

She's the one you should ask. Could you imagine the horror if she just wanted the visual of you covering her toes with your manseed and you've got her flipped over like the main course at a pig roast?!

You could use it as foreplay.. tease her with the idea. While you whisper your thoughts to her over dinner at your favorite place, see which ones get the best response. Don't focus on the feet. Focus on the idea that she let you into a secret part of her life.

 

[urguyscott]

Hey whatever the lady desires.

 

[Angryniceguy]

Hi everyone sorry for the late reply. I just don't like feet, I find them unattractive that said though my wife is stunning and has never been anything less than the inspiration for any self pleasure when I'm alone and what I long for.
Th feet thing is hard, based on all your advice my plan is simple and I hope you all approve.
I'm taking her to a very secluded hotel famed for food and passion provoking rooms. Upon arrival a gift will be waiting containing certain red soled heels, I've chosen open toe based on the comments above. I plan to take her to dinner where i will do my best to look handsome and dapper having invested in some rather special shoes of my own. She will of course have received new underwear & dress to go with the shoes. A light dinner with,a selection of champagne for the first night followed by more champagne in the bar & room.
When,we do reach the room I intend to kiss, tease and play with her in all her favourite ways before surprising her with some rope at the 4 post bed before restraining her like she loves but hasn't had in a while.
From there I will do all I can to make her reach the edge of her orgasm and hold her there without ever removing my own clothes until I told to, she will never be fully submissive, the climax so to speak will involve using one hand on her while I make her watch as I use the other on myself beside her still shoed feet before cumming over her toes and shoes when she asks me to. During this whole part I will be telling her of plans for the following night which are different but equally as exiting and fresh.
Does this seem reasonable?

 

[LizVegas79]

Okay it's been over a month! Nice guys (or dirty perverts lol) shouldn't keep a lady waiting.

UPDATE PLEASE!

Were you a good boy and do what you were told?

 

[Angryniceguy]

Okay it's been over a month! Nice guys (or dirty perverts lol) shouldn't keep a lady waiting.

UPDATE PLEASE!

Were you a good boy and do what you were told?

Well Liz I had a plan as outlined above your post but it all fell through due to alcohol and being caught in the moment. I certainly did as I was told and was very eager to relieve her tensions on our little break so when the opportunity arose I kissed and licked and stroked and teased for all I was worth while she denied me entry and full release. When id taken her as far as possible,as closed to the edge as I could I stood from kneeling ast her crotch, placed my fingers inside, curled them, stroked and took her foot and licked the sole. The surprise, joy and sudden redness in her face told me as her rather large orgasm did that I had pleased her. I was rewarded and have now learned a lesson in overcoming my own inhibitions.
Next up will be the red soled shoe plan. I gifted her the shoes and await the chance to follow through.

The rewards to me made it more than worth it.

 

[LizVegas79]

Well Liz I had a plan as outlined above your post but it all fell through due to alcohol and being caught in the moment. I certainly did as I was told and was very eager to relieve her tensions on our little break so when the opportunity arose I kissed and licked and stroked and teased for all I was worth while she denied me entry and full release. When id taken her as far as possible,as closed to the edge as I could I stood from kneeling ast her crotch, placed my fingers inside, curled them, stroked and took her foot and licked the sole. The surprise, joy and sudden redness in her face told me as her rather large orgasm did that I had pleased her. I was rewarded and have now learned a lesson in overcoming my own inhibitions.
Next up will be the red soled shoe plan. I gifted her the shoes and await the chance to follow through.

The rewards to me made it more than worth it.

Oh I love when my husband buys me a pair of shoes. I just know I'm going to be so worshiped and adored ... and used ... that sometimes I practically have a mini even before I put them on!

Good for you!

Do it.

Thrill and surprise her.

Make her toes curl and I'm sure she'll blow your mind

 

[SquirtnBrat]

Daayymnn.... Those red bottom heels.... whew... I've never had a chance to play footsie but I would love for a guy to worship my feet!
She's a lucky woman. To be able to step out of your comfort zone just for her... my biggest wet dream right there! Kudos.

 

[Angryniceguy]

Daayymnn.... Those red bottom heels.... whew... I've never had a chance to play footsie but I would love for a guy to worship my feet!
She's a lucky woman. To be able to step out of your comfort zone just for her... my biggest wet dream right there! Kudos.

Thanks Brat. I do try to please her in any way possible be it sexual or not.