Advice from Bi's

[misshum]

OK, this is a little strange for me. Growing up I NEVER looked at girls in any other way but as friends. I always had a boyfriend and boys have always turned me on. I mean, who wouldn't like a well hung man? Don't get me wrong, I STILL find men very attractive and enjoy being with them and dominating them, but lately, especially since coming on Literotica, I have had some strange feelings....at least strange for me.

I have noticed that I am beginning to get really turned on by women, too. Looking at some of the amateur pics of other women are starting to get me wet and I find that I am masturbating to women's pics as much or more than mens. And Holy Moses, if I see another woman masturbating!!! That just about throws me over the edge.

I'm not sure if it is because it is new and exciting that makes me feel this way or what.

Has anyone else gone through this or is it just me? I know this probably sounds strange, right?

If you are a Bi can you tell me about your experience? I mean, did you always know or was there a certain event that made you realize.

 

[pinkpunani]

I think that the female form is so sexualized it would be hard not to find it arousing regardless of sexual orientation. I have enjoyed men and women and lose no sleep over either. If you feel turned on by pics of women, and you are ok with it, then go with it. Don't overanalyze it. It is not like people have to walk around with hats on that say "gay" "straight" "unsure" "indiscriminate" and so on.

 

[Xelebes]

The growing realisation is, I believe, common. I can attest to it too.

 

[misshum]

I have never had a relationship with another woman, but I wasn't sure if that was how people come to realize they were attracted to both sexes or not. Right now it is just looking at them, expecially nude or dressed provocatively.

I am even starting to fantasize about dominating a female sub and what it would be like.

I don't know....I've just never had these feeling before and wasn't sure where I should let it take me.

 

[Chicklet]

i like men, but i enjoy using women for sex I mean, I'm attracted to women. a good looking girl (or, what *I* consider good looking) really gets me hot. but i wouldn't have a relationship with one.

i think it's probably more normal than most people care to realize.

 

[misshum]

Thank you...

I guess that response makes sense to me because I really haven't imagined or desired to have a relationship with another woman, but Oh have I fantasized about the sex!

I just wasn't sure if others had ever felt the same way. Did you have an experience with another woman, sexually I mean, that made you realize you would like it?

 

[Chicklet]

Did you have an experience with another woman, sexually I mean, that made you realize you would like it?

well, i was lusting after women first, like, thinking about the possibility, liking the idea, etc. then i got to play around with a few women, and it didn't exactly make me realize I'd like it, but it made me realize that my desire wasn't just mental.

 

[misshum]

well, i was lusting after women first, like, thinking about the possibility, liking the idea, etc. then i got to play around with a few women, and it didn't exactly make me realize I'd like it, but it made me realize that my desire wasn't just mental.

See, that's where I have felt very nervous. How did you know the woman you played around with was interested? I am sooo nervous about approaching someone only to hurt our friendship if she is not Bi.

 

[Bandit58]

See, that's where I have felt very nervous. How did you know the woman you played around with was interested? I am sooo nervous about approaching someone only to hurt our friendship if she is not Bi.

I've known I was attracted to women since I was a teenager, but never had the opportunity to explore until after I left my vanilla marriage. I come from a small rural area in New Zealand and was too shy and didn't want anyone else to know.

Since I've been living with Master in Sydney though, I've had several experiences with a couple of women I met on Adultmatchmaker. I don't want a "relationship" as such, but more like friends with benefits. My first time wasn't even three years ago now, so I'm a late starter But it confirmed that what I had felt for all those years wasn't just a fantasy, it is a part of my sexuality and I'm very lucky to have a Master who lets me and actively encourages me to explore it (with or without Him there).

No one goes around with a sign around their neck saying "I'M BI". Yes it can be tricky which is why I have stuck to meeting people on personals sites, at least you know they are looking for the same thing you are