Advice for online training

[desireinmind]

Hi there I have a very willing and very slutty female sub..we have been develping an online relationship which has been going very well so far.. I enjoy making her do real life tasks whist she's talking to me...

Would anyone care to share any tips or experiences they have had with online training? I could do with a batch up my sleeve lol

Thanks

D

 

[desireinmind]

hmmm just seen the distance support thread....maybe I should read that! Lol

 

[desireinmind]

Ok read the first few pages and it doesnt really cover what I'm after hahah so the original post stands.....

<starts to feel the madness of talking to oneself> ;-)

 

[SweetErika]

I'll get you started with a couple of links, but you can also look yourself by googling site:literotica.com BDSM assignments/tasks/whatever you're looking for.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=517198
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70632
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=101674
https://forum.literotica.com/archive/index.php/t-177098.html
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=236314

 

[desireinmind]

ok thanks very much for the links..

 

[CutieMouse]

The BDSM Library at the top of the forum (Link) is also a good resource, and broken down by subject.

Beyond that, seemingly semi-innocent (okay not really) comments get made in random threads all the time, which inspires other ideas, which results in odd ramblings such as the idea I had the other week, which involved corner time, paper cuts, stilettos and salt. (ahem)

One difficulty in responding to requests for ideas, is that BDSM encompasses so many differnt styles/forms, that it can be difficult to know exactly what to suggest... a masochist might find simple bondage boring; one who isn't into minor humiliation might be horrified at the idea of writing on themselves with permanent marker; someone who enjoys research might not see the challenge in writing a 1000 word essay on this history of erotic slavery.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Ok read the first few pages and it doesnt really cover what I'm after hahah so the original post stands.....

<starts to feel the madness of talking to oneself> ;-)

So that begs the question:

What ARE you after?

 

[desireinmind]

yes i know what you mean, I am interested in all and any ideas though personally, to use and to read lol so far I have had her perform some simple tasks such as elastic bands on the nipples with camera phone evidence...inserting vibe whilst talking and she turns it on and off at command
cumming on my permission...

corner time sounds interesting...

The BDSM Library at the top of the forum (Link) is also a good resource, and broken down by subject.

Beyond that, seemingly semi-innocent (okay not really) comments get made in random threads all the time, which inspires other ideas, which results in odd ramblings such as the idea I had the other week, which involved corner time, paper cuts, stilettos and salt. (ahem)

One difficulty in responding to requests for ideas, is that BDSM encompasses so many differnt styles/forms, that it can be difficult to know exactly what to suggest... a masochist might find simple bondage boring; one who isn't into minor humiliation might be horrified at the idea of writing on themselves with permanent marker; someone who enjoys research might not see the challenge in writing a 1000 word essay on this history of erotic slavery.

 

[desireinmind]

So that begs the question:

What ARE you after?

Just a few simpleish tasks i can ask her to perform whilst talking to me she's a horny minx also i'm away soon and will be asking her to complete a few things while i'm no around but i think i got that covered...

But please use the thread for any experiences you may have to offer too

 

[CutieMouse]

yes i know what you mean, I am interested in all and any ideas though personally, to use and to read lol so far I have had her perform some simple tasks such as elastic bands on the nipples with camera phone evidence...inserting vibe whilst talking and she turns it on and off at command
cumming on my permission...

corner time sounds interesting...

I appreciate that you are interested in any and all ideas, it's just that well... that covers an encyclopedic volume of information, and it's rather difficult to know where to start, especially if no one even knows what *you* are seeking out of the experiences, how experienced you are, what your goals are, etc.

Corner time is a classic form of discipline, that is only limited by the one instituting it. Wiggle your mind enough, and you can come of with dozens of variations on the "theme" of corner time.

 

[desireinmind]

I have a fair amount of experience and imagination..and I do understand that people dont know my likes dislikes umm isn't that what bb boards are about though? asking...telling...recounting...communicating...

re reading this post it doesnt really make sense I know...in a nutshell i was just asking for peoples experience of online training and any tips really...but maybe I should have been more specific....

<realises why She doesn't go on BB boards much anymore>

they frustrate me lol

 

[CutieMouse]

I have a fair amount of experience and imagination..and I do understand that people dont know my likes dislikes umm isn't that what bb boards are about though? asking...telling...recounting...communicating...

The point I've been politely trying to make is that you aren't giving anyone any information to build upon, which means unless your whole thread was meant as a place for people to tell "This one time, when I was at band camp..." stories, it's a bit difficult to make suggestions.

I kow you have "a fair amount of experience and imagination" and have used "rubber bands, vibrators, and orgasm control", but that's about as much use as me posting a thread saying "I want to be domananted", and expecting a satisfactory response.

[Disclaimer: that is probably the only time that phrase will come off this keyboard in this venue; it for illustrative purposes, only. ]

If the idea was a thread full of "this one time, when I was at band camp..." stories, carry on my good man; I'm sure someone will be along shortly who can help you; I surely can't.

Signed,

A persnickity mouse

 

[desireinmind]

Yeah I get you.....it's good woman btw ;-) But I probably should have said that...I appreciate everyones comments and the links have helped

thnx

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Just a few simpleish tasks i can ask her to perform whilst talking to me she's a horny minx also i'm away soon and will be asking her to complete a few things while i'm no around but i think i got that covered...

But please use the thread for any experiences you may have to offer too

I'm afraid I don't have any "experiences" to offer. I was never one to consider "online training".

I don't play online, I live 24/7 with my girl janey. When I was in a long-distance relationship I used OL as a communication tool, and we "cyber played" together when we couldn't be together physically. But I didn't do things like tell her to go to work without panties on, or light a candle and drip wax on herself. To my way of thinking, it is pointless to tell someone to do something in real time, when all they have to do is get online and write "I've done that now, Master/Mistress/Owner."

For me and mine training consists of teaching my slave what I want them to and how I want them to do it. I want my clothes sorted and washed by color, my underwear folded a certain way, shirts hung in the closet in a certain order. I want one roll of toilet paper on the roller and at least one spare under the sink at all times. etc. That's done realtime that's done in my presence, it's measurable, verifiable, praiseable tasks that make my life easier.

It just seems terribly silly to me to tell someone online "Cook my steak rare, my brocolli crisp, with cheese sauce and a nice Merlot for dinner." Unless I'm there to eat it.

Sorry I can't be of more help.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

"I want to be domananted", and expecting a satisfactory response.

[Disclaimer: that is probably the only time that phrase will come off this keyboard in this venue; it for illustrative purposes, only. ]

DAMN! I was really hoping! *wanders off looking for someone else to dominate...*

 

[desireinmind]

Lol yes i see what you mean in those circumstances...this training is online with a view to meeting...total honesty is required and expected I have no reason to think it isnt given...

PS I am in a real 24/7 D/s relationship too

I'm afraid I don't have any "experiences" to offer. I was never one to consider "online training".

I don't play online, I live 24/7 with my girl janey. When I was in a long-distance relationship I used OL as a communication tool, and we "cyber played" together when we couldn't be together physically. But I didn't do things like tell her to go to work without panties on, or light a candle and drip wax on herself. To my way of thinking, it is pointless to tell someone to do something in real time, when all they have to do is get online and write "I've done that now, Master/Mistress/Owner."

For me and mine training consists of teaching my slave what I want them to and how I want them to do it. I want my clothes sorted and washed by color, my underwear folded a certain way, shirts hung in the closet in a certain order. I want one roll of toilet paper on the roller and at least one spare under the sink at all times. etc. That's done realtime that's done in my presence, it's measurable, verifiable, praiseable tasks that make my life easier.

It just seems terribly silly to me to tell someone online "Cook my steak rare, my brocolli crisp, with cheese sauce and a nice Merlot for dinner." Unless I'm there to eat it.

Sorry I can't be of more help.

 

[Shankara20]

DAMN! I was really hoping! *wanders off looking for someone else to dominate...*

psst - big guy, over here......
oh - never mind, I'm rather Dommy myself today

 

[CutieMouse]

DAMN! I was really hoping! *wanders off looking for someone else to dominate...*

I had a feeling it would be wise to add that disclaimer.




















*ducks*

 

[myinnerslut]

verifiable things are difficult when your online. myself, i am in a LDR for most of the year. webcams came in really usefull when A wanted to see his orders being fullfilled.

this only worked in playtime experiences. if he wanted to watch me play with myelf or use a certain toy, for example. though i am his all the time, it isnt practical to leave a camera on all the time so he can view me.

most of the time it involves trust. if he told me to wear no panties that day, he has to trust that i will. for some people this doesnt work and they will just lie. it depends on the couple.