AmericanTrash
Really Experienced
- Joined
- Apr 20, 2007
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I post this only because I'm not entirely sure I am reading things right in my relationship. I met my partner when I was pretty sure I wanted to be a lesbian Domme. My partner claimed to be a lesbian submissive.
Turns out that my partner is a transwoman who is bisexual and has been accustomed to taking part in bdsm play parties.
As we got emotionally involved, I told her the play parties made me uneasy as she came to me for aftercare. We are physically miles apart, though and I feel guilty for denying her pleasure just because of my jealousy. Yet, now, I cannot unring the bell. She won't attend those play parties because she knows I feel uneasy about them (worried for her safety more than anything).
How can I help her feel okay about getting local, immediate skin to skin contact?
Turns out that my partner is a transwoman who is bisexual and has been accustomed to taking part in bdsm play parties.
As we got emotionally involved, I told her the play parties made me uneasy as she came to me for aftercare. We are physically miles apart, though and I feel guilty for denying her pleasure just because of my jealousy. Yet, now, I cannot unring the bell. She won't attend those play parties because she knows I feel uneasy about them (worried for her safety more than anything).
How can I help her feel okay about getting local, immediate skin to skin contact?
