Advice for MFF threesome

[Tasha7]

My husband and I have recently toyed with the idea of having a threesome involving another woman. We have no idea where to start or what to expect. So...I'm hoping to get help from anyone that has took that step.
I think it would be safer to involve a woman we don't know, but he rather it not be a stranger. I just don't want any awkwardness that could ruin friendships or our relationship. I wonder if it's as amazing as it's played out to be. I've seen horror stories about threesomes ruining a relationship and we both don't want that. Is that a sign we shouldn't do it?
I would appreciate any advice and suggestions

 

[lynn-23]

My husband and I have recently toyed with the idea of having a threesome involving another woman. We have no idea where to start or what to expect. So...I'm hoping to get help from anyone that has took that step.
I think it would be safer to involve a woman we don't know, but he rather it not be a stranger. I just don't want any awkwardness that could ruin friendships or our relationship. I wonder if it's as amazing as it's played out to be. I've seen horror stories about threesomes ruining a relationship and we both don't want that. Is that a sign we shouldn't do it?
I would appreciate any advice and suggestions

My hubby and I have also has a little discussion about it as well, but haven't acted on it yet either. Not sure who the third would be, but I have thought that for some reason I might be more comfortable if the woman was someone we knew and trusted.

 

[Wings]

Please just hire a hooker. Find a pretty one who knows her stuff and will disappear when the moaning ends and the awkwardness begins.

 

[JohnnySavage]

And chip in the extra $50 to have her fix sandwiches before she leaves.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

Why not involve another man?

 

[kbate]

Yes, definitely a stranger because both shame and herpes are forever.

 

[pointless]

just fuck the women and tell the husband to fuck off. heterosexuality is super gross. that's how people get cooties.

 

[Aquagal]

You're the husband, aren't you?

 

[pointless]

no, he's off getting a blow job at the "bookstore."

 

[Saint Peter]

"You wanna be the man or you wanna be the wife?"

"I want to be the man."


"Great. Now get down here and suck your wife's dick."

 

[pointless]

what? no anal? that's lame.

 

[Noor]

Please just hire a hooker. Find a pretty one who knows her stuff and will disappear when the moaning ends and the awkwardness begins.

I agree, that is the best kind of woman you don't know.

 

[Noor]

My husband and I have recently toyed with the idea of having a threesome involving another woman. We have no idea where to start or what to expect. So...I'm hoping to get help from anyone that has took that step.
I think it would be safer to involve a woman we don't know, but he rather it not be a stranger. I just don't want any awkwardness that could ruin friendships or our relationship. I wonder if it's as amazing as it's played out to be. I've seen horror stories about threesomes ruining a relationship and we both don't want that. Is that a sign we shouldn't do it?
I would appreciate any advice and suggestions

Yes, I think that is a sign you shouldn't do it. Also that you want a stranger and he wants someone you guys know. I sided with him by the way because I don't do stranger sex at all.

It's been years since I have been in a threesome and I have been in both mfm and fmf, both with good friends whose friendship survived the threesomes with no problems. Neither of them was planned, and no alcohol or drugs were involved.

People seem different about sex and friendship these days, and I am not sure I would risk it in your situation unless with a hooker as Wings suggested.

 

[Tasha7]

Yes, I think that is a sign you shouldn't do it. Also that you want a stranger and he wants someone you guys know. I sided with him by the way because I don't do stranger sex at all.

It's been years since I have been in a threesome and I have been in both mfm and fmf, both with good friends whose friendship survived the threesomes with no problems. Neither of them was planned, and no alcohol or drugs were involved.

People seem different about sex and friendship these days, and I am not sure I would risk it in your situation unless with a hooker as Wings suggested.

Okay...thanks

 

[Que]

Okay...thanks

Best place to find a not quite professional hooker and be able to "audition" them to see if there is some chemistry is a gentleman's club. Find one you like (hubby will like them all) and ask if she can make some time for you.

Even if that either doesn't work, or you decide not to follow through on it, you will still end up with some nice pillow-talk fodder out of it.

 

[maverick51]

Please just hire a hooker. Find a pretty one who knows her stuff and will disappear when the moaning ends and the awkwardness begins.

Good advice. Good way to "test the waters" and see if you really like 3somes.

 

[Tasha7]

Best place to find a not quite professional hooker and be able to "audition" them to see if there is some chemistry is a gentleman's club. Find one you like (hubby will like them all) and ask if she can make some time for you.

Even if that either doesn't work, or you decide not to follow through on it, you will still end up with some nice pillow-talk fodder out of it.

Thanks. I didn't even think of trying a club. That is a good place to start...Thanks

 

[pink]

I had all my 3somes when I was single and unattached. Now those were some good times!!!

 

[Noor]

I had all my 3somes when I was single and unattached. Now those were some good times!!!

Kisses sweeter than Wine

he begged and he pleaded like a natural man

 

[pink]

Kisses sweeter than Wine

he begged and he pleaded like a natural man

Come to think of it, I am still single and unattached but I guess what I meant was back in my younger days.

 

[Noor]

Come to think of it, I am still single and unattached but I guess what I meant was back in my younger days.

You have a child your attached to, so not completely free

 

[pollynova]

Please just hire a hooker. Find a pretty one who knows her stuff and will disappear when the moaning ends and the awkwardness begins.

Does that advice work for twosomes? Or even just onesomes? I hate awkwardness.

 

[Noor]

Does that advice work for twosomes? Or even just onesomes? I hate awkwardness.

Sure, that is what hookers are there for, it's their livelihood.

 

[pink]

You have a child your attached to, so not completely free

That is so true. I sat Jennifer down several years ago, to talk about the fact that I wanted to start dating women again. She was in high school at the time, so she was probably about 17. She didn't have much to say except, "ok."

Now, she herself, has a girlfriend and is 22 years old.

 

[Queersetti]

Thanks. I didn't even think of trying a club. That is a good place to start...Thanks

You don't need a club, just get some roofies.