advice for 21st

[jlh1989]

Hi, I come by here often but this is my first post! I am about to turn 21 and am planning on going to a strip club with some friends. I welcome any advice on how to make this a great experience. Also, would it be tacky to invite a female friend? Thanks

 

[darkbeast]

Not tacky to invite a female friend, but only if she is cool with it. A lot of women are so long as it doesn't turn into a full on sleaze fest.

The key is know the rules of where you are, don't arrive sloppy drunk, have some respect, and have some fun. No reason to be uptight, the strippers know why you are there and they know why they are there.

 

[hidden_self]

In my opinion, it's never tacky to invite. The message is always, "If you are free and would enjoy this activity, we would be enriched by your company."

For situations like this, a modest disclaimer might be in order. Like, "I don't know how you would feel about this but I wanted to invite you... of course, if you're not interested I'll totally understand and we'll go out another time."

PS. Bring plenty of small bills and expect the booze to be weak and expensive. It may not be, but in many places that's the case.

 

[downhomeguy]

If you have a club picked out, check and see if they have a dress code. Some of them require shirts with collars, shirts tucked in, etc. And like someone already said, take plenty of small bills. Also make sure you've got more than enough money, because ATMs in strip clubs usually charge a hefty percentage fee for withdrawals.

 

[Noira]

No harm in inviting, the worst she can do is say no. Unless of course you know her to be conservative and easily offended by such things, but thinking about inviting her probably means she's not. So if your female friend is the sort of sexually liberated person who might enjoy that activity, why not invite her? Never tacky to invite, there's only one way to find out if she'd like to come.