Advice 4 shy virgin

[Guest]

HELP! 27,still a virgin.never used to bother me,but now i am trying to find a girl i can not get this lack of experience out of my mind and am too scared to tell the truth to whoever i might meet for fear of ridicule.BUT if i dont say,i will be rubbish in bed and will feel even worse.

What do i do?

 

[TemptingTreat]

I'd like to help

I take it you are not dating anyone seriously at this time. Why not talk with a trusted friend of the opposite sex. You may find that they are understanding and will help you with your need. I had a male friend confide in me that he hadn't and he felt awful. It was interfering with his dating because he felt so bad about it. I volunteered to be his first, because he was a dear friend and I felt bad for him. We had a good experience, but it really freed him to go out and get into the single scene. He met someone in a few months and a few months after that, they had moved in together. You never know if you don't ask.

 

[Guest]

Thank you treat,

I have done exatly that with a woman i work with,who mothers me and is indeed old enough too,she said pretty much exactly the same and said she wish she could help,but being married she couldnt.
I know that she would love to if she could,as she is a dear friend but i could not ask that of a married woman.I just hope she doesnt offer,that would be difficult!

I think maybe i should just get tanked up one night and go to a club.get it over with

Thanks for your reply though.

 

[Astro]

virginity

Might not be you thing, but if you are worried about first time nerves, what about a prostitute?

 

[Guest]

RE: Astro

Notjing against prostitutes at all but i would like my first time to be with someones who wants me rather than my money.