Administering Spankings

[son_hot4mom]

I have a mature woman friend who has requested that I spank her... no restraints, no other forms of dominance, just a spanking. Any suggestions? I have done some research, and would like to hear more about spanking from our lit family.

I would like to hear from men AND women who have administered spankings, hear about your techniques, safety issues, etc... PM's welcome.

I would also love to hear from women who love to be spanked... what is it that makes a spanking so erotic to you?

 

[cascadiabound]

A spanking tutorial

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Impact play is a common kink that’s practiced in D/s dynamics and S&M. It can be a form of punishment, teasing, and funishment. Spanking is the most well-known form of impact play either with hands and brushes. However, other objects can be used depending on the amount of pain or bruising that wants to be inflicted.

Short range vs Long Range:

Short range objects include hand, brush, ruler, belt, paddle, or anything that requires you to stand fairly close to the spankee.

Long range objects include canes, crops, whips, cat o nine tails, and floggers.

Safety:

Practice before engaging in impact play if you’re using long range or hard equipment.
Always have your partner’s consent and a safe word. If you don’t have a safe word, use these colors:
red = stop
yellow = slow down or pause
green = resume the scene
If the spankee is gagged or cannot speak, use a hand signal as safe words.
If you’re using a whip, practice with it before using it on someone. Aiming isn’t as easy as it looks and you could accidentally injure your sub/bottom.
Also keep in mind that whips can break skin!
Never hit the following areas:
Mid back - Your kidneys are located here
Tailbone
Spine
Hips
These areas can be hit but with caution:
Face (only with your hand)
Crotch/genitalia
Inner thighs
Breasts/chest
If you spank someone with a cane or whip and the spankee bleeds, clean your equipment before using it on someone else.

A good thing to remember is that fatty areas work well with harder spankings and objects, while boney areas should not be hit with hard objects (like brushes and paddles) and should be hit moderately and lightly.

Don’t be afraid to attend dungeons and observe how others use their toys and ask questions.

Aftercare:

Aftercare is extremely important. Not only could you have bruises and welts to soothe but you have to treat subdrop also. If you’re not familiar with subdrop or subspace, refer to this post or read on Google.

Having an aftercare kit is a good start. It should include an icepack, wet cloths, bandaids, a blanket, water and Gatorade, pain relievers, and energy food.

Do not leave your sub or bottom alone after a scene. Hold them, hug them, kiss them, cuddle them or anything that lets you know that you love them and soothes them.

If you’re shaking, feeling lightheaded, panicking, or hyperventilating you should lie down and relax. I recommend taking deep breaths where you breathe in from your nose, hold it in, and then exhale until the next breath comes naturally. This is something that I was taught to do for panic attacks. This should help the tremors (shaking) stop, help you calm down, and bring your heart beat and breathing back to normal.

Good luck.
have fun.

cb

 

[son_hot4mom]

I finally spanked her, with a large paint stir stick (her choice) and then used my hand. She didn't take as much of the spanking as I thought she would but I had my fingers in her pussy between slaps. She came rather quickly... then it was my turn... It was good.

We did some mother son role-play as well... I really don't have many partners who I can ask that of... but this lady is cool.

 

[Sirtimothyk]

I used to belong to a spanking group who had spanking parties........whoever wanted to get a spanking paired up and went into a bedroom or was spanked right there in the living room.

 

[son_hot4mom]

Great concept... I like it. My "mom" emailed me last night with a photo of the new paddle she made, much larger than the paint stick. She is also talkin' about restraints while I spank her. Should get interesting. She also asked how I want her to role-play our mother son connection.

 

[cascadiabound]

More good spanking info

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[deesto99]

My mom used to spank me proper with a brown belt.
It was terribly painful and I would always moan and cry like the world was coming to an end. Every spanking would turn me on though, I would get my dick hard and have to hide it.
Afterwards she would come into my room and tell me it was only for my own good, and I sat on her lap with my face resting on her shoulder. she would rub cream on my bruised ass and legs - and her nipples rock hard in her gym clothes.
I think she was turned on by it, because this would happen for the smallest of mistakes. even if I had a friend over, she would wear her spandex leggings and boobtube. making sure that they watched the whipping.