adjust to a big cock

[Sacbottom]

Hello,

I've been dating this VERY hot outdoor muscle guy for the last couple of months. He is a great guy great kisser, very sexually dominant and aggressive. The only problem is taking his big 8.5-9.5x6 cock up my ass. He is really rough and doesn't give me enough time to get use to his size. It's not like he's being an asshole he just get so turned on he cant help himself but go butt wild. At the same time he loves it, so I dont want to kill the mood. I'm a total bottom and love anal. I usually just get use to the size after a while. Howeve, he works a lot and I usually only see him once a week so I haven't had it regularly enough to get use to it.

So is there any tricks or advise you guys can provide me so that it doesn't hurt as much when he's going at it roughly?

 

[Chrissi]

Hello,

I've been dating this VERY hot outdoor muscle guy for the last couple of months. He is a great guy great kisser, very sexually dominant and aggressive. The only problem is taking his big 8.5-9.5x6 cock up my ass. He is really rough and doesn't give me enough time to get use to his size. It's not like he's being an asshole he just get so turned on he cant help himself but go butt wild. At the same time he loves it, so I dont want to kill the mood. I'm a total bottom and love anal. I usually just get use to the size after a while. Howeve, he works a lot and I usually only see him once a week so I haven't had it regularly enough to get use to it.

So is there any tricks or advise you guys can provide me so that it doesn't hurt as much when he's going at it roughly?

He sounds like an insensitive ass if you ask me.

But that doesn't help you.

Get yourself some toys (dildos or plugs) that are a little thicker than he is. Practice with those.

But perhaps more importantly, use more lube or try a different kind that keeps you and him well lubed from start to finish. Not having enough lube can definitely lead to discomfort.

 

[Toontweeker]

I agree with gayTopher... it's all in the lube. Astro-glide works well and don't be afraid to use it. But you can find all kinds of lube at your local drug store or even Wal-mart.
I love big cocks, the bigger the better. One trick I tried years ago was to get myself the fattest "novelty" dildo I could find with a suction base on it. I'd lube it up and insert it when I knew I had a few hours of alone time, get dressed and go about my day at the house. It will loosen you up.
Until then, try taking him from the top so your in control until you get comfortable enough for him to let loose on you. Good luck.