Accomplishment!

BlueSugar

Faceted Sensualist
Joined
Jun 13, 2003
Posts
7,608
So I finally convinced my friend to get herself a vibe of sorts after much teasing about me buying her an electric toothbrush when shes lonly and horny and she gets frustraited with her fingers and all.

She went from NO WAY to waiting for people to go to sleep around her so she can research vibes and toys!

I'm quite proud.


Anyone ever have any similiar accomplishments?
 
I used to be sooooo embarrassed about the subject of dildo's and vibrators. My husband was estatic when i finally decide it was "time" to make the move and get one! LOL only thing is now i constantly look and see what other kind of goodies i can find!
 
haha, I bought one when I went into college... because I finally had the privacy to make such decisions.

Now i have alot more then one ... and I've decided that i want one of EVERYTHING regardless if I'm going to use it or not, I think they're that awesome.
 
Yes...when I was in LA on vacation with a friend of mine I got her to come into a sex toy shop with me...her first time ever. She was completely embarassed by the whole thing...but even so, looked around...asked a few questions...touched a few things. But the best part was when we got back to our hotel room and I was checking out my purchases....had her trying on the hand cuffs...checking out the vibe...and inspecting my other purchases :D Yup I was sooo proud of her.
 
Um. Not so much with other people, but myself...

I was so proud of me when I managed to walk into a sex shop BY MYSELF and actually BUY something.

Considering my horrendous fear of anything that remotely resembled doing something on my own at the time, that was a huge accomplishment.

Now? I really don't know. Getting J to finally post here was pretty neat. It's even opened up our communication lines more.

Ang
 
My best friend has not had sex in over 4 years. She's married (of course - what single woman would wait that long unless she had decided to be celibate for awhile?!?!?) Her birthday is in March. She's made several comments over the years about being bored with 'self sex'. and even talked about finding her own sexual outlet. But I know she would NEVER have an affair on her husband. I'm thinking about buying her a vibrator for her birthday. I mean - they don't even sleep in the same bed anymore, its not like it would bother him. I'll let you know how it works out!
 
Oh goodness yes! Had a friend who was very embarrased by such things and then when she was suddenly deflowered found her sexual appetite had awakened and she had nothing to feed it with but herself in her partners absence. I kept encouraging her to get a small vibe or at least a dildo to help out while her guy was away and she turned three shades of scarlett and fled from the store. Lonliness eventually got the better of her tho and She finally broke down and tried out a little bullet vibe and now she has a collection to rival a few porn stars!:D
 
Does walking into a tack store to buy a riding crop count? Good thing I wear a cowboy hat. :)

A few years ago there would be no way my wife would enjoy going into a toy store. She's not prudish by any means, just had little interest. She has a an absolute love affair with her special clit vie and occassionally enjoys a couple others. But she has little use for insertion toys.

But she came home the other night and I discovered she'd gone to the toy store all by herself and without me giving any urging. Now the "toys" she bought don't vibrate and aren't phallic. They are designed for something a little...er...different. But I think buying what she did tool more guts than any of the others.

She's so good to me! :D
 
I had a friend who, well into her 20s, had never experienced an orgasm. She never did any self exploration b/c when she was little, her mother told her that touching herself was bad. She asked me to be part of her little support team of friends that would help her experience the "big O." So we talked about strategies and went shopping online for toys together. She also read alot about the subject. Anyways, i got a call from her one day that started, "Guess what!!!" ;) I was so proud!!
 
I think i could go into a toy store and probably pretty much spend all day in one. Not to mention allllllllllllll the money i'd spend. Good thing my husband wouldn't care if i came home broke.. he'd be a happy happy man! And well you know hey if he's happy im gonna be happy, especially with allll the new toys!

Question though for you women or men that may know anything about the subject:
What is your favorite sex toy? Absolute favorite? I need to buy more, but i kinda bought a few boring ones last time and wasted a ton of money on.. "shit" thats what i think of them.. they are worthless.. so i dont want to do that again..


C'mon Ladies!!! I NEED HELP!:D
 
Tx girl said:
I think i could go into a toy store and probably pretty much spend all day in one. Not to mention allllllllllllll the money i'd spend. Good thing my husband wouldn't care if i came home broke.. he'd be a happy happy man! And well you know hey if he's happy im gonna be happy, especially with allll the new toys!

Question though for you women or men that may know anything about the subject:
What is your favorite sex toy? Absolute favorite? I need to buy more, but i kinda bought a few boring ones last time and wasted a ton of money on.. "shit" thats what i think of them.. they are worthless.. so i dont want to do that again..


C'mon Ladies!!! I NEED HELP!:D

Depends on what you mean.

If you mean the specific toy itself then I think you can't go wrong with Fukuoku line: http://www.blowfish.com/catalog/toys/outie_vibrators.html

If you're talking in general, it's hard to say. I mean there are som many variations out there from glass dildos to swirling vibrators.

I guess the question is, what do tend to enjoy?

But then I'm not a lady so what do I know...lol!
 
I have this ravenous rabbit thingie that I enjoy quite a bit. Been almost two years since I got it, and it's still going strong. Always the first one I pull out of the drawer too.

I could make an odd confession about my first experience with a vibrator.... but I wont. :devil:
 
I may have corrupted/initiated a few innocent females in my time to the joys of vibration.:devil:

and ropes.

and cuffs.

and blindfolds.

a little leather.

and a few other things.;)

But that only a sideline. I'm only medium kinky.
 
ChromeCollar said:
I have this ravenous rabbit thingie that I enjoy quite a bit. Been almost two years since I got it, and it's still going strong. Always the first one I pull out of the drawer too.

I could make an odd confession about my first experience with a vibrator.... but I wont. :devil:


Ahhh c'mon CC, dish! Tell us all about it. Don't be shy! ;)
 
Originally posted by Tx girl
I think i could go into a toy store and probably pretty much spend all day in one. Not to mention allllllllllllll the money i'd spend. Good thing my husband wouldn't care if i came home broke.. he'd be a happy happy man! And well you know hey if he's happy im gonna be happy, especially with allll the new toys!

Question though for you women or men that may know anything about the subject:
What is your favorite sex toy? Absolute favorite? I need to buy more, but i kinda bought a few boring ones last time and wasted a ton of money on.. "shit" thats what i think of them.. they are worthless.. so i dont want to do that again..


C'mon Ladies!!! I NEED HELP!:D

Would help us if you gave us an idea what you had...which you liked and which you didn't.
 
shes almost ready to make her first buy... I'm so happy, I'm going to gift wrap batteries !! lolol

multitasking toys aren't boring
try something waterproof ... warm bath, suds, candles and a vibe.

hm... clamps of sorts? some kind of beads?
 
I'm trying to lead a friend of mine to the side of self-love and vibrators. Haha. She's only recently had an orgasm, but when she told me, she seemed embarrassed and not that excited. Her boyfriend was the one that helped her, but he's not always going to be around, so I want to get her a little discreet vibe. The only problem is I don't know if she'll use it. Maybe if tried coaxing her a little instead of just throwing one at her. Show her that not all toys are really scary looking. :D
 
Another Friend corrupted ...

Since splitting up with my first long term boyfriend I have become very "sexually liberated" as I like to call it. I talk about it all the time, to anyone who would care to listen. One of my friends is very naive when it comes to the alternative side of sex, and was having huge trouble coping with me being so open about it.

We live in a smallish town, and have only just recently had a sex shop open. I told her I wanted to go and she said she had never been in one. So after about an hour, I talked her into coming with me because I wanted to go and buy myself my first vibe. She came with me, almost running from the car to the store, incase anyone saw her, whereas I just walked in, even waving to the people outside the takeaway store which is just next door.

Once inside, she didn't really know what to do, kept wandering around. I went straight to the vibes and picked one and she came over to have a lookl. I told her she should get one as her current boyfriend couldn't make her cum. It would give her a bit more excitement when pleasuring herself.

So I started with a friend not even wanting to go into the store, to having my friend and I buy matching vibrators!

:kiss: :kiss: :kiss:
 
Re: Another Friend corrupted ...

Mistress K said:
[BSo I started with a friend not even wanting to go into the store, to having my friend and I buy matching vibrators!

:kiss: :kiss: :kiss: [/B]

Isn't that what friends are for?? Sounds like fun!:)
 
Back
Top