A very nearly blank slate for women 30-60

[OldRoundBald62]

I am a widower aged 59 with two adult daughters married 29 years. While I'm not sure what I want, there is a deep need for a human connection with a woman. Sure I have my kinked side. It has certainly grown since my wife' s passing these 4 years. For the right woman, with a personal connection, my goal is to make her needs into my desires. I'm seeking a particular fit,but then aren't we all. Once the connection is established with an appropriate level of trust then discussion s can become more intimate. At the heart of it, I suppose I'm just another lonely old fart reaching out.