39F Librarian Type Looking for Gentleman in Her Niche

Desiree_Radcliffe

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It was a dark and stormy night...

Wait, that isn't right.

It is a truth universally acknowledged...

No, not that one, either.

There was no possibility of taking a walk...

Fine, fine.

Allow me to introduce myself, if I may. I am 39-year-old a sapiosexual bibliophile who also happens to be goth and work at a library (alas, no MLIS). I realize, by virtue of my gothness and my librarian-adjacentness, I already check two of your boxes. Sometimes this suits me better than others.

I am one of those bluestockings who has spent more time in the company of books than she ever has with a man. However, this is not my first dance in the ballroom that is Literotica. I've had the joy of one, very beautiful connection in my years here, a charming Englishman, whose memory I sometimes recall when I am in a sullen mood. I never want to force anything, but it would be lovely if I could eventually have something similar to the emotional, intellectual (and yes, intensely sexual) sort of relationship I had with him.

I am aware that we both have time constraints, and so I am not asking to take up all of your time, but I do intensely prefer the sort of connection where you have time for me. As a result, married men are out of the question. I assure you that I feel for your situations, but I do not feel comfortable helping you cheat on your spouse. Other preferences include the ability to eventually move conversation off of Lit. I have found, over the years, that voice can be a most humanizing medium, with more versatility than text, in a lot of ways. I will also share video if/when I am comfortable. My particular preferance is for gentlemen no more than 5 years my junior and 12ish years my senior. Other than these, I am open.

Though, there is one thing I must insist upon: intellect. My hobbies include graveyard strolls, gothic novels, and obsessively learning new information. If you can't keep up with my brain, it would be advisable to look somewhere else.

As a result, I can offer you my time. I currently have a fair amount of it, and keep odd schedules, so time zones would not be as great a barrier as with others. I can also offer you somewhat flexible sexual preferences. I had a foray into the BDSM scene a while ago and it wasn't for me. However, I find an intense, intimate, and private D/s dynamic can be lovely. I am a devoted submissive who lives for obedience and is happy to please. I am happy to try new things (within reason), and always pleased to introduce you as well. In addition, I am a good conversationalist, offer silly jokes, and love to discuss books for years. I would also love to be able to write you passionate poems, should you find that interesting.

If you are interested in a long term situation with a bright, clever woman, please do not hesitate to send me a message. If you in some way find this advert offensive, please scroll on by. I do not intend to offend, but I do believe it's better to not say anything if you can't say anything nice. Thank you, and best to you whether the advert applies or not!
 
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Greetings,
Are you familiar with the works of John Norman? You wouldn't happen to enjoy anime and/or manga by any chance?
Until next time m'Lady.
 
I find your advert enthralling, but fear I may well be to old at 58, if this is the case, good luck in your search.
 
Greetings,
Are you familiar with the works of John Norman? You wouldn't happen to enjoy anime and/or manga by any chance?
Until next time m'Lady.
Yes, I am familiar with John Frederick Lange Jr., who wrote the Gor books. I thought they were pretty virulently misogynistic, and them being misogynistic in a fantasy setting didn't help them. Lange was also a philosophy professor. I've not read any of his academic work, though I should see what he's published.

I've not watched any anime, but a friend has recommended me some things. I can devour manga if it's kawaii creepy or cozy creepy. I really enjoyed The Girl from the Other Side, though I haven't yet finished the series.
 
Someone told me that the most fun you could have with your clothes on was downhill skiing. Contra dancing, you say?
Absolutely. You do it with a partner, in my case women, and there is nothing more fun than throwing a woman around on the dance floor. There really was a t shirt to the effect in the late 70s.
 
It was a dark and stormy night...

Wait, that isn't right.

It is a truth universally acknowledged...

No, not that one, either.

There was no possibility of taking a walk...

Fine, fine.

Allow me to introduce myself, if I may. I am a sapiosexual bibliophile who also happens to be goth and work at a library (alas, no MLIS). I realize, by virtue of my gothness and my librarian-adjacentness, I already check two of your boxes. Sometimes this suits me better than others.

I am one of those bluestockings who has spent more time in the company of books than she ever has with a man. However, this is not my first dance in the ballroom that is Literotica. I've had the joy of one, very beautiful connection in my years here, a charming Englishman, whose memory I sometimes recall when I am in a sullen mood. I never want to force anything, but it would be lovely if I could eventually have something similar to the emotional, intellectual (and yes, intensely sexual) sort of relationship I had with him.

I am aware that we both have time constraints, and so I am not asking to take up all of your time, but I do intensely prefer the sort of connection where you have time for me. As a result, married men are out of the question. I assure you that I feel for your situations, but I do not feel comfortable helping you cheat on your spouse. Other preferences include the ability to eventually move conversation off of Lit. I have found, over the years, that voice can be a most humanizing medium, with more versatility than text, in a lot of ways. I will also share video if/when I am comfortable. My particular preferance is for gentlemen no more than 5 years my junior and 12ish years my senior. Other than these, I am open.

Though, there is one thing I must insist upon: intellect. My hobbies include graveyard strolls, gothic novels, and obsessively learning new information. If you can't keep up with my brain, it would be advisable to look somewhere else.

As a result, I can offer you my time. I currently have a fair amount of it, and keep odd schedules, so time zones would not be as great a barrier as with others. I can also offer you somewhat flexible sexual preferences. I had a foray into the BDSM scene a while ago and it wasn't for me. However, I find an intense, intimate, and private D/s dynamic can be lovely. I am a devoted submissive who lives for obedience and is happy to please. I am happy to try new things (within reason), and always pleased to introduce you as well. In addition, I am a good conversationalist, offer silly jokes, and love to discuss books for years. I would also love to be able to write you passionate poems, should you find that interesting.

If you are interested in a long term situation with a bright, clever woman, please do not hesitate to send me a message. If you in some way find this advert offensive, please scroll on by. I do not intend to offend, but I do believe it's better to not say anything if you can't say anything nice. Thank you, and best to you whether the advert applies or not!
I like the description you have provided of yourself. I do enjoy the library as well and would love to chat and get to know you better. I am a 41 year old male.
 
I like the description you have provided of yourself. I do enjoy the library as well and would love to chat and get to know you better. I am a 41 year old male.
Thank you for your reply; it is much appreciated. If you are interested, feel free to send a proper introduction via PM. Have a good evening.
 
Thank you, @Kitty_so_frisky, heh.

Hello. I thought your introduction was delightful. I am outside of your age range, but I doubt you will have any problems finding someone to speak with, as charming as you are. Kitty is just aware I have a...predisposition to librarians.

Good luck and have fun.
Thank you for your kind words. I work in a library, but unfortunately am not a librarian. I do wish you a good evening.
 
Passion for the work, and love, mean more than a job title. You are a librarian in my mind, for what that is worth.
Thank you, I think. Having worked in a public library for 8 months now, however, I am glad I am not a librarian. There is a lot more to things on the psycho/social side of things than most people would expect. I'm trying my best to start moving into the work I truly want to do. I appreciate your thoughts, though.
 
Thank you, I think. Having worked in a public library for 8 months now, however, I am glad I am not a librarian. There is a lot more to things on the psycho/social side of things than most people would expect. I'm trying my best to start moving into the work I truly want to do. I appreciate your thoughts, though.
My apologies if I offended. I made the assumption you were doing the work you wished to, and that was not well thought out. If I may ask, what is the work that you truly want to do?
 
My apologies if I offended. I made the assumption you were doing the work you wished to, and that was not well thought out. If I may ask, what is the work that you truly want to do?
Oh you have not offended. I think most people have very specific misconceptions about librarians and people who work in libraries. It'd be awesome if we were all as cool and interesting as Giles from Buffy the Vampire Slayer, and that we were constantly saving the world in fun ways. I mean, us library folk are saving the world, but it's not as interesting as in a supernaturally-themed show.

I recently got my M.A. in technical writing. I am slowly trying to ease myself into a writing-adjacent career.
 
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