A very hairy research question

[Weird Harold]

This is primarily a question for ladies with long hair, i.e. longer than shoulder length, preferably waist length or longer.

What do you do with your hair when having sex, when the winds blows, or when your lover falls alseep on it?

Does the long hair get in the way, or enhance the experience?

I need some ideas for incorporating very long hair into a story, and would appreciate any input on good or bad experiences with long hair.

(Yes, Jade, this is for the story I asked you about.)

 

[KillerMuffin]

What do you do with your hair when having sex, when the winds blows, or when your lover falls alseep on it?

Does the long hair get in the way, or enhance the experience?

My hair reaches halfway down my back, use to hit my ass.

I use it caress and tickle skin during lengthy kissing sessions, licking all over, and particularly during blowjobs. My skin is hot and my hair is cool. He loves the smell of it.

I keep a scrunchie on hand to tie it up when it might get in the way during sex, which isn't often. When the wind blows, it gets in my face and goes up his nose (i have attack hair), but I love the sensual feel of it moving with the wind, it's freeing. If he falls asleep on it and I can't push him off, I bite him. Hard.

I love my hair, I think it enhances my experience, sexually and otherwise. Besides, playing with the split ends gives me something to do and my hair stylist more aggravation.

 

[Silverlily]

Ditto most of what KM said.

My hair reaches most of the way down my back. I have to keep it tied back when giving my hubby a blow job, otherwise I can choke on my own hair. The only time I don't is when my hair is wet, then he likes to feel it on his thighs and tummy. I also like to tease him with it when I'm on top and spread it out when he's on top.

 

[goddess_euphoria]

Ok, first, my hair is waist leangth, and I love it! It can get in the way sometimes (I also have attack hair) but it can add a lot too... trailing it down his body, or flinging it around wildly while on top of him. I had one boyfriend once that liked me to wrap it around his cock (he wouldn't come in it, but I still made him wash my hair for me latter!)

Sometimes I put my hair up to, in a bun is best, cause even in a pony tail it still can get in the way! When the wind blows it can get annoying, I can't have my hair down and drive with the window wide open or it'll get all tangled up.

I've had my hair fallen asleep on before, usually I can push him off or pull it out, and it's a pain in the ass, I usually put my hair in a bun when I sleep. Worse than having your hair fallen asleep on? ~L~ had sex on one of those creepers (the little things you lay on to roll under a car to work on it) And my hair got tangled up in one of the wheels! OUCH!! Took my boyfriend forever to untangle it, cause I refused to let him cut it!!

 

[Alyrahh]

Mine too, is waist length... actually a little longer than that. But anyway, the only time I feel it gets in the way is when I'm cleaning house. I don't know why, just seems to get in my way then.

I don't put my hair up for sex, but that's only because I like to have it pulled sometimes. (God, I'm sharing a lot aren't I?)

For the blowjobs, I like it when he holds it back for me

Hope that helps you at least a little, Harold.

 

[Juliangel]

I just cut my hair to my shoulders I miss it so much!

I loved the way I could tease his chest while I was on top with it. I would also sit and tease his cock with it, wonderful way to get his erection going.

During sex or while sleeping I would put it over the top of the pillow. If I wanted a silky wave to my hair the next day I would braid it before going to bed.

I miss the way is felt on my bare back. NO more cutting my hair again, I cannot wait to get it long again!!!

 

[Merelan]

I like it to tease him with too, and for him to hold and "guide" me. But there are times that it can really be a pain.

Yes, during blowjobs, hate that word, I have to keep it back or I choke on it.

In the wind, love the free feeling, but hate the tangles.
Ever eat ice cream in the back seat when your long hair is down and the windows open? Hmm. It's a wonder I didn't get a hairball. Lovely aren't I?

Sleeping, I either braid it to one side or lately wear it in two low ponytails. I am trying to train myself to stay on my back when asleep and have found that it is easier to accomplish this when I can't roll over without laying on a bump of scrunchie.

Do they lay on it? Yes, sometimes but I just push them off, though at the wrong moment it can ruin a mood. And here's one you haven't mentioned, but I cannot be the only one.

Have it down in the wind and get in your car, shut the door and be unable to move as it blew your hair into the way and you have now shut it on your hair. Ouch!!! And you are embarrassed and yet laughing and unable to help yourself.

 

[teresafannin]

My hair is halfway down my back & is attack hair as well. For sleeping, I braid it or wear a low ponytail. My guy loves it this length & I mainly keep it long for him. He loves to feel it on his chest or on his legs during oral sex. He holds it out of the way for me & brushes it out when it gets tangled. On the motorcycle, I always wear it in a braid, takes too long to comb out otherwise.

 

[BrainyBeauty]

Let's not split hairs

My hair is long, straight and soft and goes all the way down to my butt.

I was told a long time ago that men love long hair. I guess I took that literally and even though it is sometimes considered 'out of style', it has served me well. It is usually the first thing people notice about me and comment on.

One gets used to having it get caught in car doors, getting tangled in the wind, sitting on it, dealing with total strangers coming up and touching it, having it fly away and attack others too.

But it sure is a value-added enhancement during sex! Right from the get-go....I love the way I can strategically drape it across my body while slowly undressing (keeping that mystery going a bit longer)

I love to use it as a prop to envelop my lover and me when I am on top- like our own private curtain shielding us from everyone else. I love to have him fan it out on the pillow behind me when I am laying down. I love to rub it across him from head to toe- softly to caress or tickle OR to playfully swat him with it. I like to wrap it around things...

I love to have him pull it- in a caveman "you're MY woman" manner. It brings out all the primal feelings I have. I am probably not alone in saying I LOVE it when someone else brushes my hair- what a sensual, erotic experience that can be. Ooh- and in the shower, having someone else wash it. Now I know what the phrase cleanliness is next to Godliness means! Whoo boy. Is it hot in here or is it just me?

 

[Stormystarr]

My hair also reaches my butt. I like to tickle with it, no, not myself. But my problem is that it's everywhere. It never stays put.
But to anwser your question, I like to wrap it gently around a cock and pull back ever so slowly to tease. While I am working my way down from the neck, I throw it all up and it drags down thier chest until I reach my final destination. Then I just throw it to one side of my head and work my magic.

 

[Whispersecret]

Wanted to help you out, WH, but I think they said almost everything I was going to say. My hair is only just below shoulder length right now, so I can't compare to some of you other ladies.

But, I like the weight of it. If you've ever gotten a lot cut off, you know what I mean, because suddenly your head feels a lot lighter. Sometimes I revel in the heaviness of it between my shoulder blades.

Also, strangely, I had having wisps of hair tickle my face, so I have it up or clipped back most of the time. I think it's very sexy when a woman lets her hair down because it symbolizes an emotional emergence as well as the literal one.

Of course, Harold, you sweet man, feel free to e-mail me anytime with specific questions. I owe you. Don't think I haven't forgotten your help with my teenaged boy and fifties car questions.

 

[Thumper]

You thought I could ignore this???

Oh my GOD...I want you all....

 

[Merelan]

Fess up Thumper, with that gorgeous hair of yours... do you have troubles with it too? Or is it well behaved?

 

[Thumper]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA...

..Merelan sweetie....there is nothing about me that is well behaved....

as to the hair...it gets in the way when I am eating sometimes and a lot of the times when I am...er, pleasuring a lady but they seem to love the feel of it on their belly and thighs and holding on to it...and later I have plesant reminder of the interlude as my hair has an Oh so subtle scent to it

I hate it in winter, the air is so dry and the static makes it cling to my face...

 

[catlover]

long hair

cant resist commenting on all these beautiful ladies with such long hair - reminds me of my first wife - how i loved having it flow over my face and groin while making love - then, damn it- she got tired of keeping it up and had it cut off.PLEASE dont ever do that!

By the way - as an added thought that came later -I Love short haired women too!

[Edited by catlover on 10-21-2000 at 01:34 PM]

 

[goddess_euphoria]

~L~ Forgot about the car door thing! It's happened to me many times! And I remembered something else, being layed down on my back and getting my own hair caught under me. Like, whoa, hold on honey, need to retrieve my hair... ~L~

oh, Thumper, try the Aussie 3 Minute Miricle, hydrates your hair and gets rid of that static cling problem, it's great stuff!

And I'd never cut my hair! One time I went to get a trim and the lady got a little carried away, and I went home and cried for an hour!

ooohh... and I ~L O V E~ having my hair brushed!! I've had to teach guys about starting at the bottom, but it's worth it!


[Edited by goddess_euphoria on 10-21-2000 at 12:26 PM]

 

[Sxxyangl]

my hair is also waist length and i love it. its best when ill throw it in a quick braid so my man can yank on it when we do it doggy. other than that, i never pull my hair back for sex. he and i both love the way it feels when it brushes against our skin. and as far as him falling asleep on it, i can usually gently tug it out. ive had terribly long hair all my life and have gotten used to having it tugged so it no longer hurts (unless i want it to).

 

[Naked Hunny]

You people are making me miss my long hair. A month ago I cut off 21 inches of my hair and I miss it so much. OK OK Yes it already grew 3 inches. Yes i said 3 inches in only one month.But damn I really miss my hair!! WAAAHHHH!!!

 

[Merelan]

Thumper... I had a feel there wasn't anything about you well behaved. Hmmm. What a thought.

When I met my husband I had very short hair, as I was entering the Air Force. He wanted it long, but knew why I kept it short. Then I had a heart attack and there goes the service. So, he told me if I let it grow he would take care of it and learn how to braid and all that. Well, he is a man of his word. Now he does all kinds of stuff with it, that I cannot do, I have tried. My best freidn has always had long hair and she started him on braiding and now we have several books and he tries all kinds of stuff on it. It is so, way so cool when he simply brushes it. What a way to relieve a stress headache too. Only problem is that he doesn't mind doing other ladies hair and then their guy friends get mad at him cause the ladies expect them to do the same.
Hahaha.....
Now I have a broken right wrist and cannot even wash my own hair, so he showers and shaves me. Whew. The morning ritual is taking longer and longer then ever. And I for one don't mind at all. Try it men. Give your ladies an all over shower. Bathe, wash, shave the whole works. It is a guaranteed turn on.

 

[Weird Harold]

~L~ Forgot about the car door thing! It's happened to me many times!
...

ooohh... and I ~L O V E~ having my hair brushed!! I've had to teach guys about starting at the bottom, but it's worth it!

Thanks a million ladies (and Thumper) The two comments I quoted from goddess_euphoria are two situations that I hadn't considered. (although I think I'm going to have problems working hair caught in a car door into an erotic situation. <G>)

BTW, I do have some experience with long hair. My own is shoulder length, but it's always clubbed back with three elastic bands because it's too curly to let roam free.

It's long only because I'm too cheap to get it cut.

Don't let this slow down the replies. I'm sure there are some good comments and stories yet to come.

 

[Thumper]

Well...ya learn something new every day!

I can't believe this escaped me....I love having someone play with and brush my hair...I never thought to return the pleasure...as Matthau said "What a putz!"

I think I will do that tonight when she gets home from work.....it is sweetest day....

Thanks Merelan!

 

[Merelan]

Hope she enjoys it. What am I saying! Of course she will. It is best when she is on floor between your legs, that way, well.... you can take it from there.

 

[Mortto56]

"Long beautiful Hair"

"Well WH,heres another males comment!"

My hair goes to just past my shoulder blades,and I keep it in a ponytail most of the time.Every once in a while,I'll have my wife put it into a braided tail.

I like the feel of it blowing in the wind,from side to side,swishing over my shoulders.

Although I'm thinning on top right now,it was'nt all that long ago,(well maybe 10 years ago)that I could comb my hair down in front of my face,and not see anything.

I love to tease my wife with it when I'm doing a little oral on her.I'll take it out of the ponytail,and let it fall over her womanhood,and tickle the hell out of her.

I don't have a problem with it sleeping,but it does look pretty scary some mornings when I get up.

Well thats about all for now,can't wait to read the story.

 

[wolfie69]

some men have long hair to lol

OMG.... a fantasy come true.... I love all of these women with long hair... if you send me your addresses I will visit you one at a time! AAAAAAWWWOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Now with that said, I have long hair too....I generally keep mine in a braid, it's just easier for me to deal with, I guess. However, if my partner chooses to undo the braid during the heat of passion, it is an added bonus to love making.......

 

[Lovely Latina]

I have very thick, dark hair about a third of the way down my back. According to my husband, it has been nothing but an enhancement to our sexual experiences...though, more-so from a visual aspect (for him) than a tactile one (for me).

I wear it up in a french twist or with one of those "grippy clippy claw thingies" about 3 days a week. One of my hubby's favorite moments is when I reach up slowly, remove the clip and let my dark, silky locks cascade to my shoulders and over my breasts while staring at him with a sensual half-smile. It's the moment when he realizes that I'm about to seduce the fruck outta him. (Translation for Ramlick: He knows he's gonna git some.)

Plus...for me...the feel of it softly brushing against the tops of my breasts and over my nipples is absolutely uh-MAY-zing...and his knowledge of how incredibly sensitive my nipples are and just how much I enjoy this sensation is most likely what turns him on even more about it as he tries to catch glimpses of my hardening nipples through the tousled strands of hair.

During sex (with me on top riding him), he says that it's soooo sexy to see it fall seductively over half my face as I'm staring down at him and biting my lip in pleasure. (Once again...it's a visual thang.)

During oral sex (and sometimes when he's penetrating me from behind), he'll reach down and entwine his fingers into my hair and pull on it. God I love this! It's so animalistic and primal...not only to feel, but to see. (Perhaps goes back to caveman days? Laaaana! Attuk! Uuul! Ringo! NOT that I've seen that movie or anyfing. *nervous smile*)

My husband also has semi-long hair (musician), but for me the turn on is more in the way it caresses the sides of my breasts as he licks my nipples or how it teases between my legs when he's kissing my inner thighs. It's not so much a visual thing for me.

All in all, I think that the majority of men just love long, flowing hair. When a woman has that "just woke up tousled messy tangly" look about her...they find it irresistable. There's almost a "little girl" innocence about it, but it's combined with a playful sensuality and inherent sexiness. I don't think that anyone, man or woman, can deny the power that gorgeous hair holds.

Just ask my Frank! Whoops! (*winks at Latina* LOL)

Hope that helped at least a little, WH. Looking forward to the story.