A Thanks Given

Gaucho

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SeXy ReDHeaD's last post on her "Cops" thread got me thinking. In it, she responded to and quoted from a post that I had made a month ago and, frankly, had pretty much forgotten about. This both surprised and flattered the hell out of me. And it made me wonder: How often do we post and how much thought do we give to our words before we post them?

And if we post and (for whatever reason) receive no reply to that post, do we then consider our words to have been meaningless?

It hit home to me then that I have been remiss. Since joining the board in July, I have been privileged to read hundreds of posts from all of you. In addition to occasionally stroking my libido, these posts have been a tremendous source of amusement and information to me. They have led to meetings and relationships that I would hardly have dreamed possible.

And they have reminded me of what I consider to be life's greatest truth; that, regardless of our age, gender, ethnicity, and background, we are all one.

And so, as we enter the season of Thanksgiving, consider this a moment of thanks and hope.

Thanks to Laurel and Manu for providing us with this space.

Thanks to all of you for the posts which have so enriched my life these last few months.

Our words are like little time bombs that we leave in our wake. Chosen carefully, they reward us with the knowledge that we are all "...inexplicably bound together, and that to commit ourselves to both the act of writing, and to the free sharing of our ideas and efforts, provides us with a secret wealth that we should never doubt the value of..."

By the same token, ill-considered and thoughtless words leave us cold and alone, immured behind walls of our own making, cut off from the shared treasure of our common humanity. Acknowledged or not, they go off in our hands, crippling us with shards of remorse and regret.

My hope is that we will all continue to post and be thoughtful about what we post.

No post is meaningless and you never know when your own words will come back to grace or to haunt you.

Again, thank you all.
 
I don't think I've ever started a thread that went more than a couple of pages -- and usually only go about 10 posts. I've never been insulted. I don't usually post general questions, first of all ("What's your favorite kind of breakfast cereal?"), so that has a lot to do with it. (When I do post questions like that they are invariablly the longer threads.) Mostly, though, I get what I'm after pretty quickly and I'm satisfied to let the thread fade.
 
Re: Sometimes I think... I'm never missed!

Luscious Lionness said:

I enjoy myself here and I hope others enjoy my presence! If not, well... just wait long enough... I do go home!


I certainly hope you don't go home,,, at least not for more than just a visit,,,


Replies and threads started,,,

I only start a thread if it's something that's important to me,,, maybe not earth shatteringly important, but still, something that I am interested in saying or knowing,,, If they garner some attention and replies, fine and well,,, if not, then so be it.

My replies,,, those tend to be either serious well thought out expressions of how I feel OR flip/flirty just because I enjoy being able to do just that here.

In any case, it's me being myself. I am not always funny, nor always flirty and I hope that I am not always serious.
And if I make an impression on someone, well so much the better. If I don't, then it's not the end of the world,,, cause I'm still just me being me.
 
Stormy - Thank you.

Dix - I understand your point about starting threads - like yours, mine usually don't amount to much, but moreso because when I start a thread it's usually because I have something I'm just dying to get off my chest and not because I want to discuss how tough it is to line up the proper orifices when I'm using a double-headed strap-on.

But my point has less to do with the number of posts you make or threads you start and more to do with the fact that, like it or not, your words live on after you post them. Whether someone responds to them or not, your words have an impact. You, as a writer and as one of the most respected members of this board, must be keenly aware of the power of the written word and its lasting effects. When you least expect it, the words you've written and perhaps forgotten about can reappear in front of you with the fragrance of a rose or the sting of a bitch-slap.

LL - I know what you mean about not being missed. I often feel the same way. But that doesn't change the fact that you've been here long enough to make a number of friends who, even if they didn't start a "Where's Luscious Lionness?" thread, would miss you if you left for good.

Of course, I wouldn't be one of them. Kidding! I'm only kidding! :)

CW - Agreed. But making an impression is nice, no? (Just ask LL)

Cheffie - No, you da man.

Again, thank you to all the posters who have allowed me to share in your joys and trials these past few months.
 
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