A Rant

pplwatching

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Just a quick rant.

This was posted to another thread discussing first times. It's a nice thread, where it wasn't appropriate to rant ...

I was in math class, last class of the day. I got a test back and got a 16%. After class I went up to my teacher and said "I'll do anything for a better grade. Any-thing." I ended up fucking him for about 30 minutes. He was fat and bald and smelled real bad, but had a huge cock and ate pussy like a pro, surprisingly.

I ended up with a 100% on that test. :)

All right, maybe this is just a troll or a wanna-be, but if this is true then this really chafes me.

What the hell has happened to professional ethics. What kind of society have we made that teaches girls that their first time is a cheap commodity to be used to get a better grade. Do our daughters think that a grade is worth their dignity? Do they think that no one will notice when they can't pass the next class? Are we just not watching? I hope the bastard gets found out and fired. I'm too disgusted even rant about her view of the experience.

Getting off of my soap box now.
 
My immediate impression on reading that when it was originally posted was some kid trying to get a rise out of us.

Just a troll, and not really worth the time spent to rant over it. :)
 
Bobmi357 said:
My immediate impression on reading that when it was originally posted was some kid trying to get a rise out of us.

Just a troll, and not really worth the time spent to rant over it. :)
However time has been spent ranting over it thus maybe we should make smething out of this thread. Something big. Like maybe we could discuss how to best go about taking over the world and then ordereing everybody to goto work naked!
:D
 
Bystander said:
However time has been spent ranting over it thus maybe we should make smething out of this thread. Something big. Like maybe we could discuss how to best go about taking over the world and then ordereing everybody to goto work naked!
:D

except of course the naked fat bald smelly guy of course

hehe

I agree that we need to raise our proffessional ethics again. I was asked a couple of days ago to cheat on a test for a job by a staffing agency, they offered me a job and it would have been based on lieing about my qualifications and cheating on a test to get the job, I turned them down and told them I would not be interested in doing work for their company now or in the future. Maybe I should have took the money, but I know I would never have been proud of myself for that and so stand by my decision. But it is amazing that when I have told people about it a lot of them have asked, how much were thay offering? I don't think they could have offered enough (well for that job hehe) for me to give up my standards to take it. We need to remember an easy way to judge ourselves and keep up our standards. I always just say to myself, "Would I have told my grandfather about it and would he have been proud?" I have never gone wrong when I live by that one myself.

Carnus
 
Bystander said:
However time has been spent ranting over it thus maybe we should make smething out of this thread. Something big. Like maybe we could discuss how to best go about taking over the world and then ordereing everybody to goto work naked!
:D

What are we going to do today, Brain?
 
Carnus... (I'm makeing a joke here, not serious, or accusing) It's easy to have morals when you have bread on the table! :)

pplwatching... I wondered how much of that goes on. I started a thread Sexual Favor Exchange asking for reports from the real world.

It never took off, and I was suprised that so few knew of some who ever bartered sex.
 
ReadyOne said:
Carnus... (I'm makeing a joke here, not serious, or accusing) It's easy to have morals when you have bread on the table! :)


It never took off, and I was suprised that so few knew of some who ever bartered sex.

hehe,, well I have to admit that is true, I have come pretty close to giving up my morals when really broke, but I have never done it, yet.

Bartering for sex,, we all do it everytime we have sex. I will have sex with you because I know you will make me feel good. I will have sex with you because I am lonely. I will have sex with you so you return my love. I will have sex with you so you stop bothering me and let me go to sleep. I will have sex with you so you will take out the trash. I will have sex with you because it please me. I will have sex with you so you will take me home in the morning, I am too drunk to find my keys. Just none of us really chose to look at it that way. hehehe

Carnus
 
Ya, but... Then there's sex as a business deal.

There would never be sex between the parties except for an explicit agreement up front, and it's not relationship based, not for love or potential love, and the same deal could readily occur even if a different person was substituted for one of the parties.
 
Carnus said:
except of course the naked fat bald smelly guy of course

hehe

I agree that we need to raise our proffessional ethics again. I was asked a couple of days ago to cheat on a test for a job by a staffing agency, they offered me a job and it would have been based on lieing about my qualifications and cheating on a test to get the job, I turned them down and told them I would not be interested in doing work for their company now or in the future. Maybe I should have took the money, but I know I would never have been proud of myself for that and so stand by my decision. But it is amazing that when I have told people about it a lot of them have asked, how much were thay offering? I don't think they could have offered enough (well for that job hehe) for me to give up my standards to take it. We need to remember an easy way to judge ourselves and keep up our standards. I always just say to myself, "Would I have told my grandfather about it and would he have been proud?" I have never gone wrong when I live by that one myself.

Carnus

Its called ethics Carnus, and you should be proud that you have them. Ethics can really be annoying, I know I could get a lot more work into my business if I just start attacking my local competition. But I refuse to do so. Our work must stand on its own merit or not at all. I will not stoop to telling some poor guy he wasted his money going to XYZ and he should let us fix the problems.
 
pplwatching said:
What are we going to do today, Brain?
Blaa hAA Brain is my hero:D

Carnus...dude that is awesome bro. Total respect for that. Classy.
And totally agreed on the smelly people... we will have robotic door person-things who will hose down anyone trying to enter the premises with cold water and soap should they not meet the strict BO Emission standards as set forth by the CoToDBOS!
(Comitee To Determine Body Odor Standards!)
 
probably a fake

Oh, it was probably a lie. However, teacher/student is a big fantasy of mine, even though I know in real life it would/could be unethical if it really made a grade difference.

AND, I have known a couple of fat bald guys who were sweethearts and really kinda sexy.

Sal
 
Fantasies have a place in sexuality. Mine run from timid to kinky. I think it's great that adults today can tell their partners all about their fantasies and not feel like deviants.

But I think we've paid a steep price. I think we've pushed the fantasy aspect of sex so far into the mainstream that our kids can't figure out what belongs in a fantasy and what doesn't.

I'll admit that what set me off was that the post was symptomatic of a major problem that I'm scared to death of. I read a lot of articles about our children saying that oral and anal sex "aren't sex". I cringe at the thought that my son or daughter will say that or worse some day.

The trouble with fantasy is the perception that there are no strings. No girls who feel like trash the next day. I knew these girls in school. I was a shoulder that they'd cry on. I'd like to spare my daughter that pain. I'd like to know that my son never caused that pain. If that post was real, I wonder what that girl would tell you about how she felt the next day.

I, for one, would like to know how to undo it before my kids hit that age. I can talk to them all their lives, but if my wife and I are two voices against a world of TV and media then what chance do we have?

I'll turn my little rant into a "How To". How do I raise my kids to be sexually responsible adults without shutting out the world?
 
Originally posted by pplwatching
Fantasies have a place in sexuality. Mine run from timid to kinky. I think it's great that adults today can tell their partners all about their fantasies and not feel like deviants.

But I think we've paid a steep price. I think we've pushed the fantasy aspect of sex so far into the mainstream that our kids can't figure out what belongs in a fantasy and what doesn't.

I'll admit that what set me off was that the post was symptomatic of a major problem that I'm scared to death of. I read a lot of articles about our children saying that oral and anal sex "aren't sex". I cringe at the thought that my son or daughter will say that or worse some day.

The trouble with fantasy is the perception that there are no strings. No girls who feel like trash the next day. I knew these girls in school. I was a shoulder that they'd cry on. I'd like to spare my daughter that pain. I'd like to know that my son never caused that pain. If that post was real, I wonder what that girl would tell you about how she felt the next day.

I, for one, would like to know how to undo it before my kids hit that age. I can talk to them all their lives, but if my wife and I are two voices against a world of TV and media then what chance do we have?

I'll turn my little rant into a "How To". How do I raise my kids to be sexually responsible adults without shutting out the world?

I don't have any magic answer but let me offer a few comments.

First of all I think the best thing you can do is for you and your wife to demonstrate to your children what a loving relationship should be like....set an example through your actions.

Keep the lines of communication open. Let them know they can talk to you about anything and everything. You won't always agree but that you're a safe place to come to. I know sometimes it seems that our children...especially our teenagers aren't listening...but trust me they are. I would have sworn my youngest son heard nothing I said between theages of 12 and 14...but he heard every word....you should have seen the smile on my face when he finally matured enough to understand and I heard him say what I thought he'd never heard years before.

Make them feel worthy...self-esteem is key to a lot of their decisions and actions.

Take an interest in them...their school work, their friends *make your home the place to hang out*, what ever activities they're interested in.

Talk to them about sex in an age appropriate manner. I'm not talking about the one shot deal...give them a book to read...sit them down...and get technical about plumbing. I'm talking about using any opportunity that arises to talk to them... does your city have a Gay Pride Day? If so, when the news is reporting it use that as an opportunity to discuss sexual orientation....a newspaper article on abortion...you get my drift. Don't wear blinders and say just say no and think they'll abstain...but you have a right and an obligation to tell them what your values about sex are...they'll make up their own minds. Don't forget to talk to them about the emotions that go with it....

Teach them morals and values.....they may be old fashioned but they are still important.....honestly, the value of hard work, respect for one self and others, being responsible for your actions, caring for others.....and so many others....

I think part of the answer to your question isn't about sex at all...it's about helping guide your children to grow up into the young man and young woman you hope they will be. Sex is just a part of our lives.
 
pplwatching said:
The trouble with fantasy is the perception that there are no strings. No girls who feel like trash the next day. I knew these girls in school. I was a shoulder that they'd cry on. I'd like to spare my daughter that pain. I'd like to know that my son never caused that pain. If that post was real, I wonder what that girl would tell you about how she felt the next day.

I, for one, would like to know how to undo it before my kids hit that age. I can talk to them all their lives, but if my wife and I are two voices against a world of TV and media then what chance do we have?

How about we just work to change the culture so they don't feel like trash the next day? :D
No reason they should, really.
 
pplwatching said:

I'll admit that what set me off was that the post was symptomatic of a major problem that I'm scared to death of. I read a lot of articles about our children saying that oral and anal sex "aren't sex". I cringe at the thought that my son or daughter will say that or worse some day.

Well why not? There is after all, a presidential precedent for this concept. Personally I disagree with it, but its there nonetheless, thanks to Bill & Monica. :D
 
PinkOrchid said:

Oh, fuck, now I'm going to get into a policical debate with Bobmi.

Nah Pink, no political debate here. :)

I think the definition of sex is fairly simple. If you're trying to get yourself or another person off, its sex. Granted, that opens the door for quite a lot, but it certainly simplifies things.

:D
 
Carnus said:
hehe,, well I have to admit that is true, I have come pretty close to giving up my morals when really broke, but I have never done it, yet.

Bartering for sex,, we all do it everytime we have sex. I will have sex with you because I know you will make me feel good. I will have sex with you because I am lonely. I will have sex with you so you return my love. I will have sex with you so you stop bothering me and let me go to sleep. I will have sex with you so you will take out the trash. I will have sex with you because it please me. I will have sex with you so you will take me home in the morning, I am too drunk to find my keys. Just none of us really chose to look at it that way. hehehe

Carnus

I will have sex with you if you are in the area. I will have sex with you if you promise to leave me in a mindless heap on the bed afterward.
 
SkylineBlue said:
I will have sex with you if you are in the area. I will have sex with you if you promise to leave me in a mindless heap on the bed afterward.


mmm florida,, I like that idea,, yeah,, florida could be quite good :),,
and I would make and keep that promise, trust me.

Carnus
 
Lol... I'll believe it when I see it.

Florida Weather Report: Deliciously warm, Water is just right. Sunny but not too Glaring. Tan is in good shape.
 
SkylineBlue said:
Lol... I'll believe it when I see it.

Florida Weather Report: Deliciously warm, Water is just right. Sunny but not too Glaring. Tan is in good shape.


Now my shorts don't fit right again with that image in mind.


Carnus

heheh
 
I feel bad, I cheat at cards....

And the state of politics is so bad. I've been living in Indiana (going to school) and the campaign aids can get down right ugly. I refuse to vote for someone who participates in mud slinging.... I wonder what person Literotica would put in office (President)...
 
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