A Question I have for the guys of Lit

[SeductiveSarita]

I have always thought of the following question...but wasn't sure who to ask. So this is the perfect medium I guess.

So guys, I know I can't generalise too much but it is known widely that guys like their girls to swallow...

What I would like to know is why? Does it enhance the orgasm? Of is it more of a mental thing? How important is it that your girl does swallow? I would just like to know your thoughts please.


Thanks

 

[ffdan]

If a girl is willing to do something so intimate, spit swallow let me cum wherever. It's the journey that counts.

 

[TalkToMeInSB]

For me it is the feeling of coming inside... Having a warm, wet mouth tightly wrapped around my cock as I explode makes it that much more intense. Spit or swallow is up to her...

 

[SeductiveSarita]

I could not care less.
Spit it out or whatever.
These guys watch too much porn.

I wonder how much porn plays a part in this?

 

[SeductiveSarita]

If a girl is willing to do something so intimate, spit swallow let me cum wherever. It's the journey that counts.

I see.

 

[crashD]

I have always thought of the following question...but wasn't sure who to ask. So this is the perfect medium I guess.

So guys, I know I can't generalise too much but it is known widely that guys like their girls to swallow...

What I would like to know is why? Does it enhance the orgasm? Of is it more of a mental thing? How important is it that your girl does swallow? I would just like to know your thoughts please.


Thanks

at that point, i could are less....

i think some of the other posters nailed it - it's a porn thing, it shows dominance over the girl..

 

[SeductiveSarita]

For me it is the feeling of coming inside... Having a warm, wet mouth tightly wrapped around my cock as I explode makes it that much more intense. Spit or swallow is up to her...

I see. So you wouldn't ask her to?

 

[SeductiveSarita]

A better question is this: Do any women like to swallow?
If yes, swallow!

And if no, then an even better question is this: Why do guys enjoy doing things that their partners do not?

maybe it's an unrealistic view of sex?

 

[SeductiveSarita]

at that point, i could are less....

i think some of the other posters nailed it - it's a porn thing, it shows dominance over the girl..

I never thought of the dominant angle...

 

[Skowt]

I see. So you wouldn't ask her to?

I agree, just that feeling of her continuing to work on you with her mouth full of cum. The orgasm is so much stronger.
After the whole event, then what? A pause, followed by a spit?
If it's a swallow, followed by deep kissing and sharing each others fluids. WOW. MMMmmm
I guess, at that time she IS dominating you and in total control. (you better not have your hands on her head forcing anything).

 

[SeductiveSarita]

I agree, just that feeling of her continuing to work on you with her mouth full of cum. The orgasm is so much stronger.
After the whole event, then what? A pause, followed by a spit?
If it's a swallow, followed by deep kissing and sharing each others fluids. WOW. MMMmmm
I guess, at that time she IS dominating you and in total control. (you better not have your hands on her head forcing anything).

So do you warn her that you are about to cum?

 

[carlsnake]

I really don't care if she swallows or not. I'm just happy she will take my dick in her mouth.

 

[hotoldrguy]

I have always thought of the following question...but wasn't sure who to ask. So this is the perfect medium I guess.

So guys, I know I can't generalise too much but it is known widely that guys like their girls to swallow...

What I would like to know is why? Does it enhance the orgasm? Of is it more of a mental thing? How important is it that your girl does swallow? I would just like to know your thoughts please.


Thanks

I find that if the woman swallows it is a more intense orgasm for me. It is an amazing feeling. For me it has nothing at all to do with porn or porn influences.
It is just as much about what she enjoys too. If she likes to swallow, great, if she doesn't that is great too.

 

[oldasspussy]

I have a question... if someone doesn't swallow, what do they do with it? Run to the bathroom? Keep tissues by the bed? Spit it out in the guy's shoe?

 

[hotoldrguy]

I have a question... if someone doesn't swallow, what do they do with it? Run to the bathroom? Keep tissues by the bed? Spit it out in the guy's shoe?

hopefully he is not wearing his shoes at that point...LOL...guess the other option would be to finish him off with your hand and let him shoot on you....just another option

 

[hotoldrguy]

If she is swallowing, then presumably the orgasm is over. Never met someone yet who could simultaneously suck and swallow or swallow with a mouth full of cock.

Now go to the back of the line.

obviously you have not had someone swallow your cum before....so you just step out of the line.

 

[oldasspussy]

In your case, use the bedpan under the adjustable bed.
Then put your teeth back in.

Good thinking, JT! The bedpan is where I normally keep my dentures while doing the 'Hanky Pankies', can't believe I never thought of that.

 

[TalkToMeInSB]

I see. So you wouldn't ask her to?

I wouldn't. I'd wait and see what she did with it....

 

[earth7913]

I find that if the woman swallows it is a more intense orgasm for me. It is an amazing feeling. For me it has nothing at all to do with porn or porn influences.
It is just as much about what she enjoys too. If she likes to swallow, great, if she doesn't that is great too.

I completely agree here, its because it is a more intense orgasm for me also. Porn has nothing to do with it, I like it because it feels good.

When she swallows it is a nice way to end the act. If she spits it out it is kind of a personal hurt, kind of like you taste gross so I have to spit it out. That's what you do with something that you eat that you don't like, you spit it out.

To JTWater: I have to agree with hotoldguy, I don't think you know what you are talking about. In any case, whether you do or not, there is no need to be so disrespectful, you can have an opposing opinion without being so nasty.

 

[Tommybowler]

In my case I don't think porn was the influence. I have actually been considering why having her swallow my cum is important to me. I have had one or two girlfriends over the years some swallowed some spat and some under no circumstances would let me cum In Their mouth.

I have come to the conclusion that spitting makes me feel bad as if she does not want my cum I. Her mouth why did she start sucking. Added to that it feels like a rejection when she does not swallow. I'll happily kiss her after and I enjoy swallowing her cum almost to the point of an obsession. I love when she gushes or squirts in my mouth and I want to swallow her cum. It's part of the intimacy of the act, the acceptance and desire for me. Perhaps it should not be like this but it's how I feel about it.

 

[_me_]

I have a question... if someone doesn't swallow, what do they do with it? Run to the bathroom? Keep tissues by the bed? Spit it out in the guy's shoe?

Just spat my wine all over the laptop at that.

 

[frictional]

I may be in the minority here, but I actually would rather NOT come in her mouth. I like seeing my cum on her face or dripping off her tits, so even if she has me in her mouth right up to the edge of orgasm, I prefer if she pulls out at the last second and lets me shoot somewhere else.

 

[SeductiveSarita]

I completely agree here, its because it is a more intense orgasm for me also. Porn has nothing to do with it, I like it because it feels good.

When she swallows it is a nice way to end the act. If she spits it out it is kind of a personal hurt, kind of like you taste gross so I have to spit it out. That's what you do with something that you eat that you don't like, you spit it out.

To JTWater: I have to agree with hotoldguy, I don't think you know what you are talking about. In any case, whether you do or not, there is no need to be so disrespectful, you can have an opposing opinion without being so nasty.

So you would feel hurt if she spat it out? I'm just curious as I ave friends who do and don't. But al of my Ex's have at least asked me before hand what I do in that situation. (as in days before not seconds!)

 

[SeductiveSarita]

In my case I don't think porn was the influence. I have actually been considering why having her swallow my cum is important to me. I have had one or two girlfriends over the years some swallowed some spat and some under no circumstances would let me cum In Their mouth.

I have come to the conclusion that spitting makes me feel bad as if she does not want my cum I. Her mouth why did she start sucking. Added to that it feels like a rejection when she does not swallow. I'll happily kiss her after and I enjoy swallowing her cum almost to the point of an obsession. I love when she gushes or squirts in my mouth and I want to swallow her cum. It's part of the intimacy of the act, the acceptance and desire for me. Perhaps it should not be like this but it's how I feel about it.

That is fair. Its honest. Thankyou

 

[girlyboi85]

Willingness, I suppose, is what I find sexy about it: she's agreeing to swallow this - let's be honest - gross stuff because she likes me a lot and wants me to be happy. I'm super-appreciative on those few occasions she accedes to my request, and I do try my best, assuming I know in advance that it's on the cards, to make it pleasant for her.