A Question for the Guys

[RedIntense]

I know here on Lit we are all very forward and blatantly flirtatious, but I also know a part of that lies in the safety of anonymity. I am wondering if the majority of men really like forward women in daily life.

For example, I have a friend with whom I "hook up" occasionally. I called him this afternoon to ask if he was busy tonight. When he asked why I answered with "Because I just shaved my pussy and want someone to come lick it."

How would you really react if on the receiving end of that call?

Thanks in advance for the honesty!

 

[Nicodemus]

That kind of response would definately have me on the way. It takes a bit of getting used to when you encounter a woman that is that blatantly forward but at the same time it is a refreshing change. No pretense, no games, and an honest admission to the passion running as deep in a womans veins as in a mans is always a turn on.

~N~

 

[jojatech]

I wouldn't mind that at all. I would be over there as quick as I could. I think it is sexy when women are straight forward with their desires.

 

[2UIsayDilligaff]

I wouldn't mind that at all. I would be over there as quick as I could. I think it is sexy when women are straight forward with their desires.

Couldn't agree more. I wish more women were more forward then what society considers to be ok.

 

[tbon45]

before you hung up the id already be at your house if it was me.

 

[goro goro]

I would have been out the door after you said "shaved pussy". Any girl who says things like that on a telephone deserves to be licked until my mouth runs dry!
But I guess a guy would have to be either very self-confident or oversexed (that would be me) to react in a calm and collected way (like running the mile to your place in a new world record). Otherwise, he might feel under a LOT of pressure, ranging from the code of manners his mother taught him to doubts about sexual stamina.

:edited: to eliminate typos. Damn late hours !

 

[cg_allstar]

I know here on Lit we are all very forward and blatantly flirtatious, but I also know a part of that lies in the safety of anonymity. I am wondering if the majority of men really like forward women in daily life.

For example, I have a friend with whom I "hook up" occasionally. I called him this afternoon to ask if he was busy tonight. When he asked why I answered with "Because I just shaved my pussy and want someone to come lick it."

How would you really react if on the receiving end of that call?

Thanks in advance for the honesty!

I wished I received calls like that more offten. I love it when a girl is a little more "aggresive" sometimes. I had a girlfriend who would whisper naughty things in my ear when we were out, would take a few suggestive bites of her food when we were out for dinner, even grope me if no one was looking. But, I don't like when a girl is really trashy out in public.

 

[stingray61]

I would definately have been there sucking that shaved kitty all night long.
Need a new friend?

 

[TheCentaur]

I'd have to think about it long & hard, just because that's the way I'd be the rest of the day in anticipation . I'm with the rest of the group here. I wish more women would do that. OK, if too many did that I might get in trouble. How about if I just wish my wife would do that.

 

[whitebuck]

that is a nobrainer just ask how far away and do i need a passport

 

[chicagoasseater]

All women should be like you!!!!

 

[EJFan]

i have to agree with what everyone else has said. i, too, would be there before the dial tone kicked in from me hanging up... assuming i remembered to hang up in the first place.

just for the sake of objectivity, i THINK that there is a small percentage of men who, in certain situations or frames of mind, would respond better if they felt they put some effort into getting at the pussy. to just have it GIVEN to them isn't as rewarding as it is when it has to be worked for. i doubt anyone would admit that, but i think it's true in some isolated cases.

 

[BXGemini20]

I'd tell my girl or woman to keep that pussy wet for me.

 

[TirelessTongue]

I personally prefer a woman who is Forward instead of a woman who is always joking and sarcastic. Just my preference, but I find a woman who is a little forward to be sexier.

 

[Quoll]

Hmm long winded explanation or straight to the point.

Yep is good, do it.

 

[DemonOuterverse]

My first reastion would be to say "You're kidding, right?".

My second when the "no" came would be to promptly pass out. XD

My final would be to bolt out the door and head straight there.

 

[phoenix1224]

How would you really react if on the receiving end of that call?

I'd be over ASAP...

 

[nelbuts5256]

I would have been at your door before my phone hit the floor!

 

[grrrowl]

damn straight

I'd beat the light from the headlamps of my car to your doorstep. And there'd be one of those silhouette-shaped holes of me in the door. Panting for one reason turns into panting for another...

I, for one, have a huge appreciation for honesty and confidence.

Forwardness can be someone's general personality trait, or an occasional or specific trait -- an introverted person may, for example, be very sexually confident. Now, it may be a different topic altogether, but forwardness during dating is an interesting sub-topic that says alot about roles our mainstream culture. Roles and expectations that may or may not manifest in a later relationship.

At one point in my life, I realized I was surrounded by women friends whom I had always be interested in, but found out they had very specific ("traditional?") ideas about what the guy was supposed to do (pay for everything, kiss after the first date, call at the right time, etc). So, in my mind, while I was dating these women, it didn't take long for them to conclude that I just wanted a buddy -- when in fact I thought these mature and sophisticated women understood I wanted to get to know them as a person for a month or so. I was flabbergasted by these views, and honestly, very disappointed. I was confused, since most girlfriends before that time in my life were forward enough to say they were interested in me.

Physical and sexual forwardness shows confidence -- very sexy. The sexual relationships where I had to do all the work have not been very satisfying. When the lady expects me to initiate all the time, that that is my role, I get very sad... the sexual relationship doesn't seem to have any sponaneity or potential for growth -- how can you role play? would we ever evolve to anal, for either of us? not likely. Whether you're into bondage or BDSM, I believe some degree of "switching" is natural and necessary for two well-matched partners.

 

[Calvin]

I know here on Lit we are all very forward and blatantly flirtatious, but I also know a part of that lies in the safety of anonymity. I am wondering if the majority of men really like forward women in daily life.

For example, I have a friend with whom I "hook up" occasionally. I called him this afternoon to ask if he was busy tonight. When he asked why I answered with "Because I just shaved my pussy and want someone to come lick it."

How would you really react if on the receiving end of that call?

Thanks in advance for the honesty!

like most of the responses in this thread, I would have been promptly on the way to whereever you wanted me to be....

 

[Jedi23]

Nowadays....

The world needs more women who are forthright and Honest.Enuf of all the beating around the bush!!
I see nothing wrong in platonic friends helping each other out, Occasionally or Frequently.

 

[clubster]

Yes no beating around the bush...or is that shaved pussy. Either way, men like that direct approach.

 

[wideeyedgrin]

I prefer a woman that is willing to attend to her own need and doesn't think she needs to wait for me to start something. Thiis applies from dining out (Where would you like to go? - I don't know, you decide.) to sex.

Now that you have about 22 people waiting outside your door, what are you going to do? (Send out for pizza maybe?)

 

[bertrande]

As a woman of some (okay a fair bit then) experience with men I have noticed that most of the men who can't handle women who know what they want, or how to ask for it, are often not very adventurous in regards to sex.


So go for it be forward and weed out the boring ones.....

 

[eyespeak]

I would crack up and then make ya drive over to my place...........In Your longest coat only..or You can take care of it Yourself