A question for the girls

[sunnyday666]

i have recently come more and more of feelings of bicuriousness(i don't know if this is a word but whatever.)

so this is my question.
girls to you prefer bigger tits or smaller tits.


my parents own two strip joints and i've had it in my face for all my life. my b/f thinks it great that i like girls(i guess he would) but i wouldn't know the first thing about how to get started in this avenue of my life.
any comments/suggestions would be great.

 

[sunnyday666]

i guess no one wants to answer.

see the problem lies here
my b/f knows and thinks its great.
his brother and friend figured it out by themselves after i suggested that we go to hooters for my b/f's bday
i told my best friend and when she teases me about it its embarrassing.
i thought she would understand the most because all her friends are gay.
all she says is that she can't picture me eating someone's pussy. when put like that i get shy.
so i was just looking for someone who understands where i'm coming from
i love going to strip joints
i love looking at the girls.
some of the ones at my dad's club have already probably figured it out. but oh well . its not like they're gonna say anything to my parents.
lol.
so what am i supposed to do in this position.
i would like to be with a girl someday in my life sometime soon.(before i chickn out or before my best friend really convinces me not to) but i'm really shy about this so
if anyone wants to talk they can send me an email to tina_k@rogers.com or they can add me to msn: sunnyday666@hotmail.com
just telll me where your messaging/emailing me from.

 

[bisexplicit]

It sounds to me like your friend and boyfriend are quite immature about the whole matter.

 

[sweetsyn]

hi,

I think what you want and how far you are willing to take it is something only you can decide. I have many friends who are GLBT, myself being TS. A person cannot help who they are attracted to or what the enjoy. I have one friend who considers herself to be only partially bi. She has never given another woman oral sex but enjoys kissing and breast play with other women. I have another that has never touched another female but gets extremely turned on watching strippers and such. It's up to you to decide and your friends and relations will just have to accept it or not.

Gabi

 

[sunnyday666]

hi,

I think what you want and how far you are willing to take it is something only you can decide. I have many friends who are GLBT, myself being TS. A person cannot help who they are attracted to or what the enjoy. I have one friend who considers herself to be only partially bi. She has never given another woman oral sex but enjoys kissing and breast play with other women. I have another that has never touched another female but gets extremely turned on watching strippers and such. It's up to you to decide and your friends and relations will just have to accept it or not.

Gabi

my b/f is very supportive of me.
its my best friend who almost makes me feel ashamed about how i feel

 

[sweetsyn]

Hun,
I put myself through years of hell and torment trying to please everyone else. Don't do the same, if she's truly your friend it won't matter to her what you decide either way. For my own decisions my friends and family are fewer now, but those that remain are true.
Gabi

 

[-phreak]

*confused* ...was this about your friend or breast size?

Okay, I like small boobs, lol, but as for your friend....if she truly calls herself your best friend then she should be able to accept you and your feelings.

And trust me, if you adjust yourself to please people it only drives you nuts...and not in a good way.

Anyways, wish you luck

 

[Ashleey]

i guess no one wants to answer.

see the problem lies here
my b/f knows and thinks its great.
his brother and friend figured it out by themselves after i suggested that we go to hooters for my b/f's bday
i told my best friend and when she teases me about it its embarrassing.
i thought she would understand the most because all her friends are gay.
all she says is that she can't picture me eating someone's pussy. when put like that i get shy.
so i was just looking for someone who understands where i'm coming from
i love going to strip joints
i love looking at the girls.
some of the ones at my dad's club have already probably figured it out. but oh well . its not like they're gonna say anything to my parents.
lol.
so what am i supposed to do in this position.
i would like to be with a girl someday in my life sometime soon.(before i chickn out or before my best friend really convinces me not to) but i'm really shy about this so
if anyone wants to talk they can send me an email to tina_k@rogers.com or they can add me to msn: sunnyday666@hotmail.com
just telll me where your messaging/emailing me from.

You know what...don't worry about pleasing anyone but you. So you're best friend can't picture you eating pussy....neither could mine. Actually I couldn't either. But I did and I loved it. That... and playing with her tits... and kissing her, and all of the other things we did, was actually the most erotic thing that's ever happened In my life. I haven't repeated it yet (mainly because i was stupid and got married..lol) but i'm hoping to very shortly. So don't worry about your best friend, your bf and his friends, your mom and dad or anyone else. Do what YOU feel is right. Just my 2 cents.

 

[rainbow_panties]

only you

i guess no one wants to answer.

see the problem lies here
my b/f knows and thinks its great.
his brother and friend figured it out by themselves after i suggested that we go to hooters for my b/f's bday
i told my best friend and when she teases me about it its embarrassing.
i thought she would understand the most because all her friends are gay.
all she says is that she can't picture me eating someone's pussy. when put like that i get shy.
so i was just looking for someone who understands where i'm coming from
i love going to strip joints
i love looking at the girls.
some of the ones at my dad's club have already probably figured it out. but oh well . its not like they're gonna say anything to my parents.
lol.
so what am i supposed to do in this position.
i would like to be with a girl someday in my life sometime soon.(before i chickn out or before my best friend really convinces me not to) but i'm really shy about this so
if anyone wants to talk they can send me an email to tina_k@rogers.com or they can add me to msn: sunnyday666@hotmail.com
just telll me where your messaging/emailing me from.

Whatever pleasure you find enjoyable should be fine with your friends, b/f, g/f, best friends, and family. If someone is giving you a hard time about it then you need to just tell them flat out you will not put up with there crap and that you are happy and feel comfortable, maybe a little shy at first or what not but if they can't face what pleases you and what you find attracting then it is there problem, not yours hun, theres.

I hope it helped! good luck and I know you will find pleasure with a woman and be more open and shy. No worries, lots of people are unsure and shy and get giddy to hide it sometimes.

~panties

 

[snowy ciara]

As far as breast size goes, I like them all except for the ones that are so obviously enhanced. I mean, the ones that are hard, or don't "fall" naturally on the body, or are that icky balloon shape.

Your bf and your friend are another different matter. They both sound a bit immature, and I hope you don't let their vision of your sex life and what it "should" be colour it. It's your body, and your life so just take good care them and let the rest of the world worry about the rest of the world.

 

[Storm Chaser]

Anything is fine, as long as they're natural.

And with regards to your friend, your sexuality shouldn't matter. I'm thinking she's got some growing up to do.

 

[isthisdesire]

hi

I wanted to post to let you know I'm in a very similar situation as you are. I've never been with a girl, but it's something that interests me. If I were not involved, I'd be tempted to pursue it. And I'm sure it would come as a shock to most everyone who knows me (not my boyfriend... he already knows about it!) As everyone has already said, you have to find out for yourself what you like and don't like. Being you is the most important thing there is. I wanted to give you some encouragement and just say don't be down about this. Discovering your sexuality should be fun!

 

[Equinoxe]

so this is my question.
girls to you prefer bigger tits or smaller tits.

I'll admit that I have a preference for large breasts; I can't help it though, they're so womanly.

i guess no one wants to answer.

see the problem lies here

...

so what am i supposed to do in this position.

Well, I think you have to do what you feel is right, you need to live your life as you want to live it. Eventually, your friend will have to realise that she can't make your decisions for you and then, hopefully, she will support you and your life and not cling to some prior image of you in her mind. You should be who you are and she will have to adjust and accept that.

 

[Ricwilly]

I'm not a female but I would prefer having smaller breasts if I was. In my sexual partners I prefer smaller breasts also tho I don't rule out larger breasts. It's really not that much of an issue with me tho I prefer them to be natural.

 

[Never]

sunnyday666,
" so this is my question.
girls to you prefer bigger tits or smaller tits."

I'd suggest that your view of female sexuality is highly suspect. If you truly want me to judge a breast as I'd judge a fruit, however, on a sufficiently athletic body, even a B cup can 'pop' out, which would be a favored combination.

" my parents own two strip joints and i've had it in my face for all my life. my b/f thinks it great that i like girls(i guess he would) but i wouldn't know the first thing about how to get started in this avenue of my life.
any comments/suggestions would be great.'

Eh, ditch the boyfriend, the strip-joints, and Hooters.

 

[ShyBi19]

It might that you just appreciate the female body, or it may lay deeper than that, whatever it is you should be proud, definitely not ashamed! x

 

[greek goddess]

It might that you just appreciate the female body, or it may lay deeper than that, whatever it is you should be proud, definitely not ashamed! x

I'm with you ShyBi19 - or at least I'd like to be!!