A question for other subs and pyl's

[chy_girl]

Please pardon the social comparison theory moment, but do you ever feel like if you could just submit or complete a task, no matter how big or little, for your Dom or PYL that you'd be able to breath normally again?

 

[tigressnred]

Please pardon the social comparison theory moment, but do you ever feel like if you could just submit or complete a task, no matter how big or little, for your Dom or PYL that you'd be able to breath normally again?

I'm not sure what you mean by "completing a task" .....but I do know the breathing feeling your talking about....it happens when the Dom takes firm total control......when they are shy, insecure, or otherwise hesitant it makes me nervouus....and when having me and things "handled" with a certain degree of tenderness, yet with firm control I get a warm sensation of relax and calm....breathing again....and wanting to submit....instead of fight.

 

[chy_girl]

I'm not sure what you mean by "completing a task"
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"Completing a task" as in when my Sir will say 'I want you to do xyz while I'm away and I want to hear about it when I return.' Having a direct order to do something that will please him because I followed his direction (even if it is occasionally vague in specific details.)

*snip*
but I do know the breathing feeling your talking about....it happens when the Dom takes firm total control......when they are shy, insecure, or otherwise hesitant it makes me nervous....and when having me and things "handled" with a certain degree of tenderness, yet with firm control I get a warm sensation of relax and calm....breathing again....and wanting to submit....instead of fight.

Exactly. Almost like being brought back to center, which I can understand. But the feeling of being able to breath... Like the first breath after taking off a corset or the first breath after staying under water too long... But the feeling that the air can all of a sudden get to the bottom of your lungs again is odd and still slightly illogical.

 

[Netzach]

I'd say I enjoy those things with T, they're like having chocolate once in a great while. I would not say I feel like I'm constricted and finally ahhh myself again with them. But I'm not exactly the world's most submissive personality.