A question...are you left-handed?

DVS

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I'm left handed. I write left-handed, throw a ball left-handed, kick left footed. Well, you get the point.

And, I spank left-handed. There are several thoughts behind left handedness and creativity and luck and things like that. It then makes me wonder if this follows through in the BDSM lifestyle. I know I benefit from my creativity in this, and I like to think the way my mind works is also a benefit for not only me, but for my sub of choice. I guess you'd have to ask those on the other end of my mental thought processes if this is true.

To give you a little background of left-handedness, I'd have to include the beginning, literally. Left-handed people were thought to be evil or sinister, for a long time. They were also forced to write with their right hand, in schools. Sometimes, their left hand was smacked if they tried to use it, or they had their left hand tied behind their backs so they wouldn't use them.

Ah, but by the time I came around, thoughts had changed. Left-handed people are thought to think differently from right-handed people. I consider that a good thing. But, even Dr. Spock, a well-known baby doctor discouraged left handedness.

Left handedness has been part of our slang phrases, over the years. We put salt over our left shoulder for good luck. That salt is supposed to keep the evil villains from bothering us. They were always thought to lurk on the left.

Some think the term southpaw started in Chicago, back in 1890. The baseball diamond was positioned so the late afternoon sun wasn't in the batter's eyes. Because of that, the pitcher would face west, when on the mound. This then, started the left-handed pitchers to be called southpaws.

Is left handedness inherited? It isn't known, for sure. I came from a family of six, two parents and four children. All but me were right handed. And, this is not unusual. Twins are said to have high numbers of left-handedness, but both twins don't become left-handed.

Let's get into the mind, a little. There are two lobes of the brain. The right hemisphere and the left hemisphere. The left hemisphere is the logical thought side. The right hemisphere is the creative side, or the visual side.

It's been found that right-handed people use the left side of their brain to figure out problems, and left handers use their right side. Right handed people can see numbers in their heads (2+2=4), while left handed people see pictures (2 balls and 2 balls gives me 4 balls).

Studies say that left-handed people are stubborn, overly sensitive and impulsive. They have difficulty following directions. They have trouble completing projects.

It has been said that left handers also wet the bed beyond the age of three. But, the so-called social afflictions above could cause anyone to second guess themselves, if only subconsciously. These things could very well have contributed to the thought process that left handers are evil or sinister, in the minds of those who don't know any better.

But, some people to this day still think left handers are so just because they want to be different, anti-social, cause problems and raise a little hell. These people also think left handers could change and be right handers, if they wanted to. People who enjoy the BDSM lifestyle or another alternate life should understand this kind of label.

Joan of Arc was left-handed. She seemed to do OK with it, at least to the end. Billy the Kid was left-handed. He made a legend of himself, too. I'm not saying he did a lot of good, but he did find his spot in history.

Many inventors are left handed, because they can see the invention visually, making it understandable to themselves before it is to others. Benjamin Franklin was left-handed.

Several presidents were left-handed. Harry Truman, Gerald Ford, James Garfield. Even vice presidents, although they don't have much of a job. Nelson Rockefeller was left-handed. Vice president wasn't his first job, you understand.

Many athletes are left-handed: The great golfer, Ben Hogan. Tennis greats Rod Laver, Jimmy Connors, Manuel Orantes, Guillermo Villas, and Martina Navratilova, among others, were left handed.

Musicians, theater actors, artists, painters, and other creative professions are seen to be dominated by left-handed people. The list of left handed people might startle you: Jimi Hendrix, H.G. Wells, Pablo Picasso, Michaelangelo, Leonardo da Vinci, Clarence Darrow, Edward R. Murrow, Robert De Niro, Jim Henson, Marilyn Monroe, Telly Savalas, Charlie Chaplin, Greta Garbo, Glen Campbell, Richard Pryor, George Burns, Lenny Bruce, Shirley Maclaine, Michael Landon and one of my favorites, Rex Harrison, just to name a few.

When NASA decided to look for the kind of imaginative, super-reliable, multitalented people they would need to explore the moon, during this process they found out that one out of every four Apollo astronauts was left handed. The odds of that happening in statistical probability are not likely. In fact, it's a 250% higher actuality than statistics say should happen.

Anyway, I hope I've made my point, here. I just thought it might be interesting to find out if others have noticed this, and if you have had good or bad experiences from it.

And, I would just like to add my own little rant, here. We left-handers are living in a right-handed world. That should be obvious, but you right handed people don't notice it, because everything is made for the right-handed individual.

I'm not saying that shouldn't be done, but it is a reality. Take a look at your every day world and see if it would work as well, if you were left-handed. Then, think of yourself and how you would deal with that same day, as a left-handed individual.

One small thing I always like to bring up is scissors. Any left-handed person will tell you how they hurt their hands, because the holes are formed for right-handed use. Why is this? Why not just round the edges so either hand can be used, instead of catering to only one class?

Sure, you right handers are saying, "they have left handed scissors made just for you." This is true, but it's obvious to me a right-handed person had to design them, because they hurt worse than the right handed ones do. Two wrongs don't make a right.


We left-handed people have had to learn to live in a right-handed world. We know this is necessary, and understand it. But, being how we are, we accept this as a challenge. It's a challenge we can handle, because in our hearts we know there is a left way and a wrong way to do things. :D
 
A Desert Rose said:
Am I left-handed? No.
Ah, a simple, to the point answer, with no unecessary coloration what so ever. Nothing to pad your answer, nothing to boost your side, make it seem more powerful or the other less so. Yep, you're right handed. :) Nothing wrong with that, though.

Now, find yourself a left-handed Dom, and see if the sparks fly. See if the energy is there, overpowering your senses, where the right-handed Doms haven't been. See if you can handle the sensations the experience brings out of you, as you're taken for a left-handed ride. ...well, maybe I've said enough?
 
DVS said:
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Now, find yourself a left-handed Dom, and see if the sparks fly. See if the energy is there, overpowering your senses, where the right-handed Doms haven't been. See if you can handle the sensations the experience brings out of you, as you're taken for a left-handed ride. ...well, maybe I've said enough?

Is this a left-handed invitation?
 
A Desert Rose said:
Is this a left-handed invitation?
You know, that phrase has been used to mean something other than a straight forward question, by some. Another way the left has had to overpower.

Just think about it. Where is sex? Sure, if parts of your body are touched in certain ways, you feel certain ways. But why? It's because your mind tells it to. Why do you feel that way when touched? You visualize it in your mind. Left-handers visualize most everything, in some way. Take the chance. Live life as it should be lived. Left is best.
 
im lefthanded and readhaired... in my family that makes me the devils spawn lol. Such a rep to live up to. :rolleyes:
Anyway , right handed ppl dont understand how hard it is and how we must always make due. In school my right handed teacher made me print and write in pencil when everyone got to use pens and learn penmanship, why because she didnt know how to tell me to make the letters and the pen smeared across the paper and annoyed her. I cant learn to crochet or knit something by having a right handed person tell me or reading the directions, i can only do it if the right handed person sits facing me and shows me (that would make it the view i have of me doing it myself), scissors suck! no other explaination needed. Right handed desks suck worse. Am i bitter that life revolves around right handed ppl :D Nope cause im different and i like that most of all.:rose:
 
DVS said:
You know, that phrase has been used to mean something other than a straight forward question, by some. Another way the left has had to overpower.

Just think about it. Where is sex? Sure, if parts of your body are touched in certain ways, you feel certain ways. But why? It's because your mind tells it to. Why do you feel that way when touched? You visualize it in your mind. Left-handers visualize most everything, in some way. Take the chance. Live life as it should be lived. Left is best.

I know it has a double meaning... that was my point, dolly. ;-)

And you skirted the question very well, too, I see.
 
Kajira Callista said:
im lefthanded and readhaired... in my family that makes me the devils spawn lol. Such a rep to live up to. :rolleyes:
Anyway , right handed ppl dont understand how hard it is and how we must always make due. In school my right handed teacher made me print and write in pencil when everyone got to use pens and learn penmanship, why because she didnt know how to tell me to make the letters and the pen smeared across the paper and annoyed her. I cant learn to crochet or knit something by having a right handed person tell me or reading the directions, i can only do it if the right handed person sits facing me and shows me (that would make it the view i have of me doing it myself), scissors suck! no other explaination needed. Right handed desks suck worse. Am i bitter that life revolves around right handed ppl :D Nope cause im different and i like that most of all.:rose:
Red hair AND left handed? Sweetheart, I think I'm in love!
 
A Desert Rose said:
I know it has a double meaning... that was my point, dolly. ;-)

And you skirted the question very well, too, I see.
I knew it was your point. The question? It has it's own answer.
 
DVS said:
Red hair AND left handed? Sweetheart, I think I'm in love!
tee hee everyone says that till they have to deal with the redhaired devils spawn that can see everything she feels and that others feel. :p then i get called a witch! lol (which is another thing associated with left hands)
 
Kajira Callista said:
tee hee everyone says that till they have to deal with the redhaired devils spawn that can see everything she feels and that others feel. :p then i get called a witch! lol (which is another thing associated with left hands)
Don't include me with the others. Remember, I'm left-handed, too. I've been there.
 
A Desert Rose said:
I know it has a double meaning... that was my point, dolly. ;-)

And you skirted the question very well, too, I see.
Speaking of skirts...I'd like to see you wearing one, while draped over my lap. Of course, your panties would be around your ankles.
 
I'm ambidextrous. I can choose which nut to ejaculate from. :D



Seriously, I'm left-handed, but after spending nine months with my left arm in a cast, I'm pretty damn ambidextrous now.
 
I'm right handed but my mother and youngest brother are left-handed.
 
I throw left handed but write right handed and kick right footed. I probably would have been a good soccer player.
 
WriterDom said:
I throw left handed but write right handed and kick right footed. I probably would have been a good soccer player.


And you use right handed clubs or left? I find it hard to watch Phil play... it all looks so backwards to me. LOL
 
WriterDom said:
I throw left handed but write right handed and kick right footed. I probably would have been a good soccer player.
I do everything as a lefty, but when it came to sports, I batted the baseball right handed and played golf right handed. I might be able to kick a ball right-footed, but only with a little help from the ball itself.

I was no good at baseball, pretty good in tennis (left-handed), and I lettered in golf. If I had been encouraged to change baseball or golf, I wonder how I might have bettered myself. One never knows for sure.

But, batting the ball just felt better, right handed, although like I said, I was no good at it. I just stood there and watched the balls go whizzing by.

Playing golf right-handed was decided because left -handed clubs were not within my price range. As it was, I used my dad's old clubs during most of my tenure. Who knows...I could have been the next Arnold Palmer. Instead, I was just me. You've never heard of me...have you. :(

Nope, it doesn't bother me, but things like that do make you wonder sometimes. I gave up golf early, and went on to different things...non sports things. Oh, wait a minute. Sex is a sport! It's just that the clubs you use work equally well for both right and left-handed players.
 
Back then they converted most left handers to playing right. I think I could have been a great switch hitter as well. Well, not great, but good enough to make the effort.
 
I'm left-handed. It is still awkward living in a right-handed world but I am young enough that people were aware of left-handed issues in school and sports. I still end up having to teach myself everything that involves physical coordination.
 
MastrJ said:
I'm ambidextrous. I can choose which nut to ejaculate from. :D



Seriously, I'm left-handed, but after spending nine months with my left arm in a cast, I'm pretty damn ambidextrous now.
I understand completely. Left handed people some how learn to get by. In your case, you could very well become ambi, to a point.
 
WriterDom said:
I throw left handed but write right handed and kick right footed. I probably would have been a good soccer player.
A Desert Rose said:
And you use right handed clubs or left? I find it hard to watch Phil play... it all looks so backwards to me. LOL
4K, Dolly, I'm confused. You quoted WD's post and your reply was the above. Is there some hidden understanding between you two on this? He doesn't mention a single club. Did you misspost, perhaps?

Was watching Phil on your mind, maybe? :confused:
 
I'm not left handed, but Holly is. She is also red-headed, and has been called "the redheaded monster" by her family ... but I like her that way :D
 
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