A Question about Strap-on's

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[Etoile]

I will stand up (and bend over) for the women's new right to wield and thrust! (just remember to "do unto others....")

I think you might have missed the point. Calling it a "new" right, first of all, smacks of patriarchy in a big way. I feel like you're patting women on the head and saying "okay honey, you can be the top now!" Parroting my words, like thrust and wield, just makes it feel more demeaning, like you're trying to placate me by giving me what I talked about without understanding what I'm saying. And even though you say it's about "her pleasure," that's not at all the feeling I get. I feel like it's all about you.

I just don't think you get it, and that makes me sad.

And speaking as a mod now: can you please let a conversation revolve around FF strap-on use? Does it always have to come back to men getting something up the ass? It's possible that you wouldn't have much to contribute to a conversation about FF sex, but women still deserve a space to talk about it. You've got other threads on this board that are about the Feeldoe. If women are telling you they are uncomfortable with your line of discussion, back off and let them have their FF space, please.

I hate being harsh, it makes me feel sick. But I have to speak my mind about things that bother me. I'm sorry it wasn't clear enough the first time.

 

[kbate]

And speaking as a mod now: can you please let a conversation revolve around FF strap-on use? Does it always have to come back to men getting something up the ass?

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[apple_pi]

I just don't think you get it, and that makes me sad.

Thank you Etoile for your remarks. Quite clearly that you are a kind and thoughtful soul.

It is because of people like you that Lit is a beautiful place to come to read and discuss ideas. You and some of the others here have made a small difference in my live, helped me to explore things that I would not have on my own. You all have been very kind and generous, and have brought smiles to myself and my Sally.

Thank you again for your caring.

 

[subbie_333]

About thrusting - my partner and I have tried strap-ons, and have had a lot of trouble being able to get close enough for thrusting to work properly. Any suggestions? *have thought of the longer dildo

i am not sure exactly what you mean by "for thrusting to work properly". But, i can address something that might be what you are talking about. i designed and make a leather strap-on harness for BBWs, and, one of my customers was 5'8" 350 lbs at the time she bought one of my harnesses. She related to me that she and her BBW partner had problems getting close enough to get enough penetration. Most longer dildos were too floppy to be effective. She eventually found a 12" dildo with a "spine" inside of it that she could bend to a shape and it retained that shape. i have asked her several times for the name of it and/or where she bought it, but, i don't remember if i ever got that info. Maybe somebody else here will know.


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[Jaxbi]

Subbie - thats kinda what I mean. Will have to have a look for something like that. ! Thanks!

Jax

 

[Baskin Robbins]

I'm open!!! Fuck me!!!


Yummmmm!!!! Fuck me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[bonnietaylor]

just wondering, Photos?

would you two like to share with us how you achieved your level of orgasm with the new toys?

 

[Stella_Omega]

I always get a kick out of these old threads being dredged up by newbies. I don't know how it happens-- but it's funny every time

 

[Etoile]

One man's funny is another man's facepalm...