A question about PMs

[riff]

It's been a very long time since I sent a lit female an erotic PM or e-mail.

So I send friendly PMs. Does this create the impression that I am some kind of panzy?

I've been told I should write erotic fiction by more than one person. I've yet to submit a story to Literotica.

Just curious.... thinking aloud.... oh nevermind....

 

[red_rose]

You called me "sugartits" once.

I didn't think that was very pansy-like.

Kinda ruffled my feathers, actually. But you're cool by me now. lol

 

[Guest]

 

[Hamletmaschine]

I don't do erotic PMs either, other than some jokey/flirty stuff.

Maybe we're both pansies.

 

[red_rose]

I don't do erotic PMs either, other than some jokey/flirty stuff.

Maybe we're both pansies.

PANSY!

Ducks, runs, and hides....

 

[Cheyenne]

There is nothing wrong with funny, light-hearted, kind PMs. You can always switch to the erotic versions after you've been talking to the woman for awhile. I personally prefer getting to know someone first compared to getting the erotic stories sent to me by total strangers.

 

[riff]

I guess I could try PMing myself. Is that possible?

Hey, riff! What's up man? How's your head? Did you take your medicine today? How is the creative journal coming? How's that cute little kitten? How is you mom's schnauser- is he recovering from his injuries? Hey, when are you gonna do another photo essay?

You drink too much. You smoke too much. You look at porn too much. You need to get a life.

LOL

 

[sabbathstorm]

I like a good friendly PM. Riff, you sent me one of those once and you know, it was one of the best things that happened that day.

And yes it is possible to PM yourself. When I try to PM someone with a full mailbox, I bounce them back to myself to send them later. That way I don't forget what I was going to say

 

[Wiggles]

I agree with Cheyenne, and I was thinking the same thing as Emerald.

I prefer the friendly PM's over the erotic ones anyway. They're easier to respond to, and I don't lose interest as easily.

 

[pipercatt]

I prefer to work up to the erotic PM's and emails. I don't really care for an out of the blue sexy PM from someone that I haven't talked with.

Riffy, I think what you've been doing so far is fine. An erotic PM will be more appreciated after you get a dialogue going with someone you find attractive.

Just my opinion, though.

 

[amelia]

And yes it is possible to PM yourself. When I try to PM someone with a full mailbox, I bounce them back to myself to send them later. That way I don't forget what I was going to say

wow..good suggestion...i'll have to remember that!

 

[Desert Amazon]

 

[wicked faerie]

There is nothing wrong with funny, light-hearted, kind PMs. You can always switch to the erotic versions after you've been talking to the woman for awhile. I personally prefer getting to know someone first compared to getting the erotic stories sent to me by total strangers.

yes...thats the best way.

 

[tswyk]

PMs are usually the first way I get to know someone "off" the board. And, just like in real life, they begin rather simply - a "getting to know you" sort of thing. Sometimes, they stop there, other times those conversations move on to e-mail and chat, and then, maybe phone.

I've had these conversations that went all the way to phone with out becoming erotic. Hey, if all I wanted was to get fucked, I'd let you know. And, that being said, some of these coversations have progressed to rather...um...shall we say...WARMER tones - mostly in fun, but not always.

Just like in real life, if the first thing you said to me privately was overtly sexual, I'd shut you down in a heatbeat. That's just not the way I want to be approached.

 

[Carl East]

I have occasionally sent an erotic PM, but only to someone I'm more than fond of if you know what I mean. Most of my PM's though, are of the kind word sort, the ones that tend to make anyones day, be it male or female.

Carl

 

[red_rose]

Now that we're talking about it...

I recently got an "erotic" pm from someone I *had* talked to prior.

It was very unwelcome because of the way it was phrased.

Try to take into account who you're talking to when you *do* get around to the eroticism!

 

[riff]

Now that we're talking about it...

I recently got an "erotic" pm from someone I *had* talked to prior.

It was very unwelcome because of the way it was phrased.

Try to take into account who you're talking to when you *do* get around to the eroticism!

I haven't sent any erotic PMs in months! Or e-mails either!

 

[red_rose]

I haven't sent any erotic PMs in months! Or e-mails either!

Then I'm not talking about you, am I? LOL

 

[Desert Amazon]

 

[Aphrodisiac]

There is nothing wrong with sending friendly pms ... its nice and sweet.


Its better then sending freaky weirdo pms , I seem to be getting those lately and they don't make sense !

 

[Siren]

 

[Desert Amazon]

Re: Re: A question about PMs

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I haven't sent any erotic PMs in months!

I know you have never answered the two pm's I've sent you.....

 

[badasschick]

I'm much more inclined to be turned on by really intelligent conversation.

Someone sending me naughty PM's comes off as chintzy, and trying too hard.

I get off on just talking literate smack.

its all about the grey matter baby.

 

[riff]

I think my grey matter got too pickled last night...