A Question about masterbating

[HorneeLadee]

Does anyone think that if they masterbate too much it can casue them problems having an orgasm during sex? I read something like that the other day and was curious to people' opinions as to whether it is true or not. Any info much appreciated.

HL

 

[lovetoread]

I believe that if you over use your vibrator it can make it harder to orgasm,but I have not heard it happening when you use your fingers.

 

[MsTerious]

Really lovetoread? I found that using my vibe helped me to orgasm. In my opinion, HL, by masturbating in any way shape or form allows you to become comfortable with your body and what it can do. What better way to learn what you like and what works for you? It also helps with your self-confidence when you're with a partner. I have been masturbating for as long as I can remember, I even remember the first time I did it. It's done nothing negative to me, on the contrary, it's been helpful in several ways. So go for it and enjoy it!!!

 

[MissVictoria]

Too much masturbation in males can cause temporary damage to the penis, causing you to have bloody secretions.

But it takes a hell of a lot of masturbation.

 

[psyche]

I believe that if you over use your vibrator it can make it harder to orgasm,but I have not heard it happening when you use your fingers.

Well, I am living proof that if you use a vibrator that it is not any harder to orgasm.......sounds like those testimonials that say if you masterbate you will grow hair on your knuckles. My feeling is use it or lose it, the more I cum, the more I want it......nothing wrong with that! LOL!

 

[capricious_chic]

I am curious as to what you read.. who wrote it.. and if it was applied to both sexes?

I can't speak for men, as I am not a man.. but it seems if that were the case.. men would never have sex, they would just stick w/their fists.

Same goes for women..

Really, there is no better way to learn your body and what you like. If you are confident in what will set you off, you are able to communicate that to your partner.. who will more often than not truly appreciate the input. I would find it tedious to be w/someone who had no idea what triggered them.. and I know several guys who feel the same way.

Don't get me wrong.. it is fun to explore new territory with a partner.. but all the territories should not be left unexplored..

CC

 

[Roy Kay]

Definately use it or lose it. If nothing else it's good exercise and develops fine motor coordination. It also keeps the semen and pussy juice production going.

 

[lovetoread]

I've searched everywhere and cannot find the article that I read about over stimulation with the vibrator,though I know that I read it somewhere.

I did find a wonderful site: http://www.sexual-health-resource.org/masturbation.htm

That has a lot of techniques.

I'm a gonna keep looking though for the other one. I know that I saw it somewhere....

 

[TheCurious]

Too much masturbation in males can cause temporary damage to the penis, causing you to have bloody secretions.

But it takes a hell of a lot of masturbation.

I guess so. I can remember some times in my early teens masturbating two dozen plus times a day on really boring summer vacation days hehe

As for vibrations... I have no idea if there is a long term effect but there is a short a term one. Intense direct vibration, especialy to heavily innervated areas will cause temporary decreases in sensation. I.E. if you hold an intense vibrator right to the clit or the head of the penis for a period of time, the nerves become over loaded and "lesser" stimulation like a finger touching them, won't seem as intense. I don't believe this has any long term risk at all though.

 

[Booty Bandit]

Too much masturbation in males can cause temporary damage to the penis, causing you to have bloody secretions.

But it takes a hell of a lot of masturbation.

IT must take alot!!!! I have spanked my monkey for years and never had blood come out of it.........sheesh

 

[Earl]

Too much masturbation

I'm a guy who's married. My wife isn't to interested in sex. As a result I masturbate. I've been dong it for quite a while. I have no problem reaching orgasm when I masturbate. I have problems cumming during intercourse. The friction just isn't enough to put me over. It's funny but not having sex I resorted to masturbating and now I have problems cumming when I do have sex and my wife doesn't wants to do it less because I can't cum. I really do not know what to do about this.

 

[dreamer]

Too much masturbation in males can cause temporary damage to the penis, causing you to have bloody secretions.

But it takes a hell of a lot of masturbation.

What?? Eeek...I've had days of 12+ hehe...that's too much time on your hands huh?? But bloody secretions??? YIKES! That sounds like something is really being done wrong.

As for the actual question...I think overall masturbation would HELP your ability to orgasm during sex...it allows you to learn what triggers you, how you like to be touched, etc...

I imagine a case could be made for both sides but I would tend to believe more often than not masturbation is helpful to your sexlife.

Have fun finding out!!!

 

[RomanHans]

IT must take alot!!!! I have spanked my monkey for years and never had blood come out of it.........sheesh

The only health-related problem I've had is occasional abrasions from too much rubbing w/out lubricant...I don't like the feel of lotion on my hands for some reason.

May this is related to the same problem that Earl mentions...I get off a lot easier through masturbation, often due to the friction (not anything about my wife, whom I find very sexy and attractive).

 

[re_Mark_s]

The only problem associated with masturbating that I'm aware of is shown in the attached Picture.