a problem with uneven breasts ...

[crashnburn090]

I'm very self-conscious about this. I've recently been posting some personal ads and looking online for real-life hookups. I've met a few people I plan to meet, and when I'm asked about my bra size I don't lie ... but I was wondering if this was a big issue to guys. The guys I've been with before never really mentioned anything about it, but it was all spur of the moment. If I'm planning to meet someone for sex, should I mention it? I don't want to misrepresent myself but I'm not really comfortable just putting it out there either.

Any advice would be appreciated!

 

[done_got_old]

I'm very self-conscious about this. I've recently been posting some personal ads and looking online for real-life hookups. I've met a few people I plan to meet, and when I'm asked about my bra size I don't lie ... but I was wondering if this was a big issue to guys. The guys I've been with before never really mentioned anything about it, but it was all spur of the moment. If I'm planning to meet someone for sex, should I mention it? I don't want to misrepresent myself but I'm not really comfortable just putting it out there either.

Any advice would be appreciated!

The guys are going to ask for proof! I can't wait until several of them see this! You might also try asking on the GB. They have advice on everything.

 

[sasebrats]

Show us them titties!

 

[wrad]

crashnburn090, please be assured that a great many adolescent girls and twenties women have tits of differing size. In the hand or under the tongue, it makes little difference to most boys, men. Indeed, it may add picquancy!

 

[tandoor]

Tits are good. Period. Nothing else matters.

 

[PertPerth]

Tits are good. Period. Nothing else matters.

Quoted for emphasis.

You have boobies. Period. That is all they care about! I can't see why you should mention it.
I have a couple of friends with the same thing - more than a cup size difference. Neither has had them "fixed" because their boyfriends say not to!
Sure, there might be a couple of guys out there who care - but they're the ones who don't deserve getting nakie with you.

 

[Carnivore1]

when I'm asked about my bra size I don't lie

If a guy is concerned about the size of your chest, he'll ask and you'll tell him. If he's not, don't worry about it, and don't just blurt it out like YOU'RE worried about it. No matter what kind of tits you have, some will like them, and some won't. As long as you're ok with them, that's all that matters.

 

[Oliver_Klozoff]

No one is perfect. Be honest not only about your breasts, but about your self-consciousness about them. Among more-or-less healthy people, there are not that many physical deal breakers. What is really unattractive, however, is if someone has an obvious physical flaw but insists on pretending that it doesn't exist. Frankly, if a woman whom I was planning on meeting for the first time confided to me that she was very self-conscious about X, but she thought that she'd better tell me about it before we met, I'd not only carve out a lot of space for her regarding X, but I'd find it kind of sexy that she'd taken me into her confidence on the matter.

This attitude on my part is not without limit: depending upon the degree of the matter, I think you should mention things earlier along in getting to know someone without seeing them. If you're 100 lbs. overweight, you ought to mention that pretty early on. If you're 30 lbs. overweight, it can wait.

To my thinking, uneven breasts generally only barely rate, although I should admit that I think women archers are sexy, if that's not too obscure a reference.

 

[MagicaPractica]

Somebody once posted a page of different women's breasts and I was quite amazed at the variation, having only seen mine and women of disproportionately perfect breasts in pictures. Really, breasts come in a wide variety of sizes and configurations. There is a wondrous variety to them. Celebrate it! Make it something fun if you can. A lot of women refer to our breasts as "the girls." Why not big sister and little sister?

 

[CaptainKirk]

I agree with the others, Crash. This shouldn't make one bit of difference to a guy, if he really likes you and really cares for you as a whole person, not just your breasts. My wife has different sized breasts, as well. Not too obvious to most people, but she was self-conscious about them, too, especially when we started dating.

We've been together almost twenty years, now. That should tell you something, hmm?

Don't sweat it, hun. I wouldn't bother mentioning it; it's not that big of a deal to most guys. And if the guy has to make a big deal out of it, he's not worth your time.

 

[wally2450]

The issue is internal. Post this one the 'How To ' forum and you will most likely get some good advice!

 

[bharman4102]

Hey, I'm just happy to be around a topless chick! Are you going to say something about how my balls are different sizes?