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FlCyclist

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Now I know this seems kind of strange that a guy would complain about this, but I don't know who I would ask about this really. So I thought I would ask you folks about this :D
Here's alittle background on me... I'm built athletically, have been doing various sports since I was 14. Mostly I swam for a club team, then professional, and then college.. at first I started as a "sprinter" and then moved to distance swimming.... then I started cycling riding 50+miles every other day, every summer I have a tradition of going one day on a 15+ mile run..
now here's where my problem comes in... I'm a marathon man it seems also sexually...and it SUCKS! :( with the women I've been with they always had 4 to 5 orgams while I have only 1 or 2 (once I went 5 times while she had so many she lost count) and when I masterbate it takes between 15 and 20 minutes for me.... is this some sort of gift or a curse?
 
Whether it's a gift or curse is really up to the women...some will not enjoy going so long, and others will love it. A few might get the idea that they're not turning you on enough or doing things right, so make sure you give extra reassurance.

If you do want to cut down on your time, stop masturbating for a good while before an encounter, and even expose yourself to things that are arousing to build up the tension/anticipation. If you don't, and your lady loves it, have a blast, and be thankful for what you've got! :D
 
I second what SweeetErika said. :)

Incidentally, don't fall into the trap of "keeping count" of your (or your partner's) orgasms. While it's nice to have more than one orgasm, the total number doesn't reflect one's sexual ability (or lack thereof).
 
erika and eilan gave great advice that i can't really improve on.

one thing that popped into my head though was about the cycling. what kind of seat are you using? a traditional seat, especially over distances, can impair blood flow to your penis. i realize this is the OPPOSITE of the problem you're having but you may want to consider the long-term effects before it's too late.

i'm not suggesting you stop cycling but if you're not using a good seat you may want to invest in one. being an avid cycler you may already have this well in hand but i thought i'd mention it for other readers.
 
EJFan said:
erika and eilan gave great advice that i can't really improve on.

one thing that popped into my head though was about the cycling. what kind of seat are you using? a traditional seat, especially over distances, can impair blood flow to your penis. i realize this is the OPPOSITE of the problem you're having but you may want to consider the long-term effects before it's too late.

i'm not suggesting you stop cycling but if you're not using a good seat you may want to invest in one. being an avid cycler you may already have this well in hand but i thought i'd mention it for other readers.
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That's a really good point, and I'd also wonder if rubbing on the seat or the type of clothes worn might sort of stimulate and desensitize the area enough to last longer during sex. Something to check into maybe. :)
 
SweetErika said:
...I'd also wonder if rubbing on the seat or the type of clothes worn might sort of stimulate and desensitize the area enough to last longer during sex. Something to check into maybe. :)
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hmmmmm... hadn't thought of that before. this is gettin' curiouser and curiouser. and it's EXACTLY why i think everything we touch or use should be made of "nerf". :nana:
 
I actually have a seat thats specifically designed for the blood flow so it doesn't cut off flow at all.. its basically a seat with a hole down the center.. as for padding the shorts I wear have about an inch of padding front to back.. if anything my ass is what kills me on long rides.. well that and the idiot drivers that sit behind me honking their horn even though their in gridlock :rolleyes:
 
EJFan said:
hmmmmm... hadn't thought of that before. this is gettin' curiouser and curiouser. and it's EXACTLY why i think everything we touch or use should be made of "nerf". :nana:
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LMAO...I haven't thought of Nerf in a long, long time!
 
FlCyclist said:
I actually have a seat thats specifically designed for the blood flow so it doesn't cut off flow at all.. its basically a seat with a hole down the center.. as for padding the shorts I wear have about an inch of padding front to back.. if anything my ass is what kills me on long rides.. well that and the idiot drivers that sit behind me honking their horn even though their in gridlock :rolleyes:
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cool. i figured you had that under control. i wish i'd had one of those seats back when i cycled. it gave me hemorrhoids damnit.
 
Mind over matter.

I have a friend that can go for an hour and more, get the ladies off in seconds... keeps them wet, and comfortable.... but has a hard time finishing himself unless the right triggers go off in his mind.


He grew up like everyone else thinking the longer the better, and had all kinds of mind tricks to play on himself to get him to not come.
He had to learn to let go ... and indulge in what hes doing.

It could also be the type of sex you're having. Sometimes your mind/body is stimulated by different positions or situations. He personally liked the girl on top the best, and in a risky area (semi public "going to get caught" kind of sex). But loved it all other ways - for him, a good way to indulge is to roleplay a situation where they almost get caught, or even think about it.

so... thinking getting hit by trains, and tax return math for when he didn't want to.
and thinking about the way his partner's body looked on top while having sex in a parking lot ...

helped him get over it.
Now, it isn't so much of a problem for him, because after an open-minded friend with suggestions on what "the problem" could be (me) and a series of girlfriends helped him out to be able to let go. He even managed to have a quicky (under 15 minutes) this year :)
 
FlCyclist said:
Now I know this seems kind of strange that a guy would complain about this, but I don't know who I would ask about this really. So I thought I would ask you folks about this :D
Here's alittle background on me... I'm built athletically, have been doing various sports since I was 14. Mostly I swam for a club team, then professional, and then college.. at first I started as a "sprinter" and then moved to distance swimming.... then I started cycling riding 50+miles every other day, every summer I have a tradition of going one day on a 15+ mile run..
now here's where my problem comes in... I'm a marathon man it seems also sexually...and it SUCKS! :( with the women I've been with they always had 4 to 5 orgams while I have only 1 or 2 (once I went 5 times while she had so many she lost count) and when I masterbate it takes between 15 and 20 minutes for me.... is this some sort of gift or a curse?
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ok, so what is it exactly you are complaining about? Or are you just bragging? ;)
 
I have had this problem on more than one occassion....and i think it is a blessing....Regardless of my staying power the love making with my lover is over when we are done....don't count the number of times either of uss cums....more fun not to worry about those things.....Have fun all.....L5P's
 
NaughtyLil1 said:
I'm with Ms. Lilith on this one.
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Well I know I can definitely cover that area :D course thats not all I'm about... foreplay is one very big thing for me :devil:
 
NaughtyLil1 said:
You're making me hungry. :p Don't forget dessert.
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ahh yes desert... that would be probably a nice cream filled pie being shared by both you and me ;) :p :kiss:
 
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