A poll about virginity

Does being with a virgin sexually interest you?

  • I’m a male, the idea of being with a virgin is a definite turn-on.

    Votes: 3 15.8%
  • I’m a male, being with a virgin does nothing special for me, but I’m not opposed to the idea.

    Votes: 3 15.8%
  • I’m a male, virgins are a turn off for me.

    Votes: 1 5.3%
  • I’m a female, the idea of being with a virgin is a definite turn-on.

    Votes: 3 15.8%
  • I’m a female, being with a virgin does nothing special for me, but I’m not opposed to the idea.

    Votes: 6 31.6%
  • I’m a female, virgins are a turn off for me.

    Votes: 2 10.5%
  • The obligatory “other”, please clarify.

    Votes: 1 5.3%

  • Total voters
    19

SuperShyGuy

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As some of you are aware, I'm one of Lit's few resident RL virgins, so this is a subject that holds a bit of interest for me. Basically I'm curious to gague the differences between the sexes on this one. Feel free to contribute why you picked the answer you did.
 
SuperShyGuy said:
As some of you are aware, I'm one of Lit's few resident RL virgins, so this is a subject that holds a bit of interest for me. Basically I'm curious to gague the differences between the sexes on this one. Feel free to contribute why you picked the answer you did.

Well since I was one once I guess I will be one again and post first... Being a virgin is a choice and whether I am with one or not makes no difference to me... I would respect your choice.....:rose:
 
SuperShyGuy said:
As some of you are aware, I'm one of Lit's few resident RL virgins, so this is a subject that holds a bit of interest for me. Basically I'm curious to gague the differences between the sexes on this one. Feel free to contribute why you picked the answer you did.

SSG, I commend you for both your honesty and integrity.:rose: Its been many years since I was able to say I was a virgin, but then times were much different back in the seventies.
I picked "other" because I prefer a man who is experienced in the art of love making. A man who understands a woman's body and uses his knowledge to bring both of us to satisfaction.

Now I'm not saying that you or any other virgins here at Lit aren't capable of sasifying a woman. Quite the contrary, with being a member of this community I'm sure you've picked up much knowledge in the workings of the female body and lovemaking. In my opinion, you and those like you who post here at Lit are more likely better informed then many men in society today.

I suppose what my answer is that generally speaking, no; I wouldn't wish to be with a virgin. But then..... I've no wish to be with anyone but MY-Sir, Sir Dave! :heart:


-kym- wanting His touch :heart:
 
Well I have only had sex with one man and he was significatly more exprienced than me..i think it would be really sexy to be someones first..and very emotional and precious.
 
SSG, please forgive the slight hyjack........

Hiya E.L.! :rose: Its good to see you. Haven't had the pleasure in some time. Don't know if we're just not posting at the same time or what, but have missed your humour.
Hope all is well with you and yours.
Perhaps its time to resurrect the "You know that you're addicted to Lit thread", Hmmm?? :confused:

OK, Thank you for allowing me to interrupt. We now return to our regularly scheduled thread. :D

-kym- Waving to E.L. :)
 
I am a female and am in no way opposed to being with a virgin. If a person choses to not have sex rhar is their choice, and I would never question it. If THEY were to chose me as their first partner I would go with it, and try my best to make it a meaningful event for them. For so many the first sexual experience can leave a lot to be desired so understanding the person you are with would be very important I think.
 
Thank you all for your answers so far. And Kym, never feel bad about hijacking my thread to talk to the lovely English Lady. She really is a fine example of the English rose, and a darn good person to boot. :rose:
 
*interups briefly to wave back at Kym and blush at SSG's kind words*


thanks both of you!!! :)
 
Ok well i voted that it is a turn on for me, not always and it would depend on his age, early twenties, but i like the idea of corruption, LOL sorry but i do, innocence is good, in fact worthy, and remaining a virgin is great but when the time has arrived, i like to take that person and open their eyes, its why i also have a thing about young catholic priests;)
 
SuperShyGuy said:
As some of you are aware, I'm one of Lit's few resident RL virgins, so this is a subject that holds a bit of interest for me. Basically I'm curious to gague the differences between the sexes on this one. Feel free to contribute why you picked the answer you did.

I'm one too.
 
Well.... I voted that it isn't a major turn on but I'm not opposed to it. I was 19 when I lost mine... wasn't an exciting adventure, just wanted to get it over with. Needless to say, I've kept lookin for years now....

I totally respect someone who makes that decision to wait!!! I would also respect them if they were to choose me to help rid themselves of their virginity....

Hugs!!

LizA:kiss:
 
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