A New Phase in life

[RandomCowboy]

I've always been...well, straight. I know that from looking at porn, I can be sexually fulfilled by men and transexuals as well as women, but I haven't yet met anyone who I could relate to as a person. Maybe I'll find someone like that here.

 

[WhisperHaven]

sex objects?

Do you think that it may be due to looking at people as sexual objects instead of people?

I'm not asking to be disrespectful. I just wondered.

 

[James Blandings]

I think it's rather normal foe a person who is contemplating any sort of "alternative" sexuality to objectify. After all, he (in this case) isn't talking about falling in love with someone, he's imagining what it would be like to experience certain things, and it's those activities, not any particular person that has him curious.
You are right though, that that attitude can make it harder to connect with someone.

 

[RandomCowboy]

dfssd

I didnt' mean to come off that way. I was trying to say that I am interested in finding someone that I like as a person.. I don't wanna just go and fuck anyone. I want to be close to someone first. All I meant to say in my post was that I am new to this lifestyle, but curious. Sorry for the confusion.

 

[Etoile]

RandomCowboy,

Have you checked out the Personals section of the Literotica Forum? You might want to post a message there to test the waters.

Best,
Etoile

 

[RandomCowboy]

I most certainly did. i thout it a good idea to meet the folks here though