a new expierience.

[pussncock]

last night i had a dream that i was fucking my girlfriend with her hands tied to the head of the bed and her feet tied apart at the foot of the bed. when i told her about it she got excited and said that we should try it sometime. i was wondering if anyone had any tips or advice for a couple that is new to this.

thanks

 

[fgarvb1]

Well, Until you two decide if you like this sort of "Thing" may I suggest some very soft nylon rope, anywhere from 1/8" to 1/2".

Learn to tie slip knots with stops.

If you are the rough and ready type, go buy some cheap handcuffs and some light chain and some "S"hooks and screweyes.

Or spend some money for some bondage supplies later.

I found that two pair of over-sized padded handcuffs (Right wrist & right ankle) & left wrist & left ankle) works best and is more comfortable.

You can place her in a lot of positions with this . Trust me she isn't going anywhere.

 

[SweetErika]

First off, read up on bondage safety and basics. Yeah, a lot of it is common sense, but surely you don't want to harm her because you failed to do some research.

Once you've done that, google bondage tutorials to learn some basic knots and techniques. There are some great free sites and videos out there. Softer, thicker rope is more forgiving if you want to go that route. Invest in some padded leather or neoprene cuffs or make your own out of Velcro or something else.

ALWAYS have paramedic shears on hand and a safe word and signal in case something goes awry.

 

[fgarvb1]

Good points, SweetErika

 

[pussncock]

thank you to everyone for the help. i'll be sure to do some research

 

[agentlust]

just make sure when she's tied up and she seems like she wants to stop - make sure you ask and dont get too carried away if she has last minute jitters.

 

[diamondgal22]

Make sure to use something soft to tire her hands up with and when she says she does not want to be tied up anymore listen to her. Untie her. But if she wants to be tied up still, just enjoy your new experience of having fun. I enjoy being tied up. It's erotic and it's a fun way of dominating the other person in a playful loving way. If they like it. Only do this if they like it though.

 

[subwannabe]

When I'm tied up I like it to be so tight that there is no wiggle room at all. The more helpless you feel the more erotic it is.

 

[Bakkheia]

Here are a few links you'll likely find helpful:

TwoKnottyBoys - Lots of instructional videos.

TwistedMonk - More instructional videos.

Wipipedia - Article on Bondage Safety.

Be safe and have fun!

 

[omgitsjoe]

old neck ties are wonderful for bedroom games like this