A most ludicrous idea is hoping for a genuine response to this ad

[adamISOeve]

Because that would require a woman to read it who ticks more or less like me. And that is well-nigh impossible. Which woman would possibly “tick” like me? And voluntarily so? ... Only a woman like you could even entertain such an idea. A woman whose needs are out of the ordinary. Weird like women might have ticked a century ago. When genuine curiosity for the thoughts of another human being was considered a virtue. And when responding to new and unusual thinking – from the outside of oneself – was commonplace. These days are long gone, however, and only a needle in the haystack-like woman as you are one have preserved such skills and needs within yourself.

And what the hell for? All you will get out of it is respect from me and admiration. And equal treatment back from my side. I will do my best to understand everything you share with me, and when I do not, I will ask you questions. Because I am curious myself, and I value what you tell me.

Now with time you may perhaps share with me also things that trouble you, in hopes that a listener to your life will give you some extra comfort. And looking forward also to sharing joy you experience, and new ideas which occur to you. For the feedback you crave – like I do from you. A woman like you, and a man like me can do wonders for each other. Including in the realm of sexual intimacy. Wonders in terms of responsiveness and feedback, and also in terms of affection for one another. Which is bound to develop and grow between the two of us.

 

[Sunfulto]

Because that would require a woman to read it who ticks more or less like me. And that is well-nigh impossible. Which woman would possibly “tick” like me? And voluntarily so? ... Only a woman like you could even entertain such an idea. A woman whose needs are out of the ordinary. Weird like women might have ticked a century ago. When genuine curiosity for the thoughts of another human being was considered a virtue. And when responding to new and unusual thinking – from the outside of oneself – was commonplace. These days are long gone, however, and only a needle in the haystack-like woman as you are one have preserved such skills and needs within yourself.

And what the hell for? All you will get out of it is respect from me and admiration. And equal treatment back from my side. I will do my best to understand everything you share with me, and when I do not, I will ask you questions. Because I am curious myself, and I value what you tell me.

Now with time you may perhaps share with me also things that trouble you, in hopes that a listener to your life will give you some extra comfort. And looking forward also to sharing joy you experience, and new ideas which occur to you. For the feedback you crave – like I do from you. A woman like you, and a man like me can do wonders for each other. Including in the realm of sexual intimacy. Wonders in terms of responsiveness and feedback, and also in terms of affection for one another. Which is bound to develop and grow between the two of us.

I believe we are all to damaged by time and the actions of others to trust or have faith in our fellow man again. I gave up on relationships or even friendships with men a long time ago. It's been 9 years since I posted or answered on this site.. my experience since then with the opposite sex has not improved. It's gotten worse. I'm only interaction with men has come down to easy come way go. Gd

 

[adamISOeve]

Sorry for taking so long to respond to you. But frankly, I don't kow, what to tell you, because you flatly stated that you have lost faith. and particularly lost faith in the male part of the population.

I find it sad that you lost your faith, and the only way I see to restore it: take small steps, and such steps, the outcome of which will not hurt you beyond your tolerance of pain. And if you are lucky, your (semi-)faith will be rewarded.

Good luck to you in any case. And I suggest you write at least something into your profile here.