A Lurker Confesses... A Survey: Does it bother you?

[Jack Diamond]

Hello there, ladies and gentleman. I just discovered this part of the site a few days ago and let's just say my career is probably suffering for it. We'll see. I've wanted to post replies many times, especially in the Amateur Pic Feedback forum, but I don't really feel welcome there. There may be lots of gay and bi exchanges that I just haven't found yet, but generally it's straight stuff. Even when the guy's straight, I have at times really wanted to give feedback, like just say "Great ass, man", but I chickened out, thinking I might get back some nasty homophobia-lite like I have already received about my story. But now I thinkin', since I'm wondering, why not ask?

So, fellow body-loving, sex-loving players in the game of life: Does it matter to you who's looking at your "delicates"? Do you mind hearing from someone to whom you would not be sexually attracted? Let's hear from as many orientations as we can. Shall I name names? Maximus Phalicus springs to mind, for one, because I just really wanted to respectfully tell him that he has a lovely body, but all the other admirers are women, and I didn't want to butt in, so to speak. Would you have minded that, Max?

I'd love to hear from you, good news or bad.

JD

 

[magic_rat]

I for one have no objections to who ogles my personal parts. Although mostly hetero, I have felt it only fair at times to expand on my bi side so as not to deprive the 50% of mankind who are obviously pining for me! Being a gay icon is hard work, believe me!

 

[BlueDaisy]

Hello there, ladies and gentleman. I just discovered this part of the site a few days ago and let's just say my career is probably suffering for it. We'll see. I've wanted to post replies many times, especially in the Amateur Pic Feedback forum, but I don't really feel welcome there. There may be lots of gay and bi exchanges that I just haven't found yet, but generally it's straight stuff. Even when the guy's straight, I have at times really wanted to give feedback, like just say "Great ass, man", but I chickened out, thinking I might get back some nasty homophobia-lite like I have already received about my story. But now I thinkin', since I'm wondering, why not ask?

So, fellow body-loving, sex-loving players in the game of life: Does it matter to you who's looking at your "delicates"? Do you mind hearing from someone to whom you would not be sexually attracted? Let's hear from as many orientations as we can. Shall I name names? Maximus Phalicus springs to mind, for one, because I just really wanted to respectfully tell him that he has a lovely body, but all the other admirers are women, and I didn't want to butt in, so to speak. Would you have minded that, Max?

I'd love to hear from you, good news or bad.

JD

Hon, first let me say....welcome to the Lit community.

Let me say next, I don't think there is a person on Lit who would mind anyone admiring their bods....men included. If you have reservations, you might want to have a chat with Glam (Glamorilla). He is a sweetie, and is gay. He could probably help you with this problem. Check out his threads, "the Glam files". He posts pics of men only.

I, for one, admire pics of the women as much, if not more than, pics of the men. Of course, I'm bi-curious. And there are a lot of bi and bi-curious men on Lit. And at least one other gay man that I know of, other than Glam.

Take care and have a good day...

Blue

 

[BlueDaisy]

I for one have no objections to who ogles my personal parts. Although mostly hetero, I have felt it only fair at times to expand on my bi side so as not to deprive the 50% of mankind who are obviously pining for me! Being a gay icon is hard work, believe me!

ROFL! that's cute, rat! Oh...you seem to be a newbie, too...so welcome to Lit!

Well, do you have pics posted for us to ogle?

 

[transbird]

Hey I wouldn't mind you checking out my pics Feel free to comment!

Most of the people here are really cool, and will definetely make you feel welcome

 

[ChocolateHarlot]

I agree with BlueDaisy. I love to hear comments from men and women. I have seen a couple of threads where guys have specifically stated that no men should respond but they're few and far between. I've found most people on here to be completely open minded and certainly open to compliments from anyone.

 

[hard18m]

no offense, but i would appreciate no comments on my thread, sorry bro

 

[MrGreen]

not a problem here...

When I was younger, it probably would have bothered me to have a man appreciate my body. As I've matured, though, I've become more comfortable not only with appreciating compliments from men, but with realizing that certain men, like Johnny Depp, are just flat out hot and I'd probably have sex with them given the chance. So if you peruse my thread and like what you see, I'm more than happy to hear it. And if you peruse my thread and don't like what you see... well... shut up.

Oh, and welcome to Lit.

 

[krspy2001]

welcome to lit............i like reading posts from whever wants to look and comment

 

[Jack Diamond]

Wow

Thanks for all the replies and welcomes! Sweet. I meant to get back here sooner - sorry. Getting back:

magic_rat: I for one have no objections to who ogles my personal parts. Although mostly hetero, I have felt it only fair at times to expand on my bi side so as not to deprive the 50% of mankind who are obviously pining for me! Being a gay icon is hard work, believe me!

-> Love your attitude! And you're right, being a gay icon is very hard work! (So, where are the hard work pics?...)

BlueDaisy & ChocolateHarlot - thanks for the tips, you're sweet. Hugs.

transbird - thanks, and nice pics!

MrGreen - yes, with age comes wisdom, we hope. And quite often, bi action! Again, we hope. I'm with you on Johnny Depp. Slurp. Nice pics. I appreciate the humour. Fun toys, too.

krspy2001 - thanks for the welcome. Of course, I already know all about your adventures under the command of that hot demanding mistress you've got! It's like a watching a soap or something! You can't wait to "see" what happens next!

And as for our young Mr. hard18m - well, honesty's the best policy, right? I'll keep just keep my comments to myself, and you just keep having a blast with that hot bod. (Oops, was that a comment? First and last, I promise!)



All right, who else wants to weigh in here? The question is basically, Do you mind who's posting comments on your pics?
Let us know...
Newbie Lurker JD

 

[Sweet_Candi]

First let me say, welcome to Lit JD!!

I am fairly new here myself, but I have found my experiences to be wonderfully pleasant so far. I also appreciate getting comments from women, as much as I do from the men. It really doesnt matter to me what they're sexual orientation is...appreciation is appreciation.....period.

Oh....and I dont know if this is out of place or not, but watching gay men have sex is a HUGE turn on for me.....so if you ever wanna post some naughty shots like that....Id be first in line to look at them.

 

[ChocolateHarlot]

I'd be second!!!!

 

[anniebug]

Third!

 

[transbird]

First let me say, welcome to Lit JD!!

I am fairly new here myself, but I have found my experiences to be wonderfully pleasant so far. I also appreciate getting comments from women, as much as I do from the men. It really doesnt matter to me what they're sexual orientation is...appreciation is appreciation.....period.

Oh....and I dont know if this is out of place or not, but watching gay men have sex is a HUGE turn on for me.....so if you ever wanna post some naughty shots like that....Id be first in line to look at them.

It's too bad you don't live closer JD cause i'm sure my wife wouldn't mind if we put on a show for the ladies

 

[ChocolateHarlot]

I'm sure us ladies wouldn't mind either!!!

 

[redelicious]

I think men have a harder time here with exploring and expressing homosexuality or bisexuality then women do. Damn shame, too.
Women have complimented me on my pics. Doesn't bother me, but then I know a compliment does not mean that she wants to fuck me. I guess the best thing would be to try to gauge the self confidence of the thread starter. I think the more comfortable a person is with their sexuality, the less threatened they will be by a comment from one of their own sex.

IMHO

 

[mac_crazy]

Good topic... I've posted many pics on Lit, and although I don't remember hearing from any gay or bi-men, I would enjoy hearing their comments! I'm bi, and have been hesitant to comment on guys' threads, although I find it a little easier to do so on couples' threads. That way, you can throw in compliments to both of them!

Overall, though, I have NO problem hearing any comments on my posts.

 

[magic_rat]

ROFL! that's cute, rat! Oh...you seem to be a newbie, too...so welcome to Lit!

Well, do you have pics posted for us to ogle?

I have posted a couple, on the men with toys thread... heres an example

https://forum.literotica.com/attachment.php?s=&postid=4454054

 

[ChocolateHarlot]

 

[Jack Diamond]

Keep it comin'!

This is great - thanks gang. Very helpful, and I feel so welcome! Especially from transbird (blush, blush).

Wish I could figure out how to quote you guys. Please bear with me...

Sweet_Candi - thanks for your comments. Lots of my girlfriends love watching gay porn. There's just something about it I guess. I'll keep your penchant in mind. I won't be posting any pics myself, but I'll see if any friends would let me post theirs. I'll let you ladies know if I get to.

Redelicious - I think you're right about it being harder for men (no pun) to express home and bi urges. I can understand it being a bit off-putting to know that a guy wants to do to them like they do their ladies. It is a huge energy, it's too bad it comes off as threatening. The last thing I would ever want to do is frighten a yummy guy.

mac_crazy - thanks for the tip, and nice dick! (wink)

You've all been so welcoming, I think you've inspired me to post more personal invitations. Stay tuned here. This roving reporter wants to know: Is it OK if I look at your dick? Do you want to hear from me if I do? (and lady to lady, etc. - you know the drill). I'm off in search of these exhibitionists for their comments...