A little curiousity

[Calamity Jane]

I know there are bi/gay men here on Lit.

So why is it that they never add their thoughts to all the threads about cock size?

Are they less shallow than us females?

Do they know some secret that we don't, so that to them, size really doesn't matter?

How about the blow job threads? We (women) post to those all the time... but I've yet to see a guy post about his cock sucking technique.

Am I just not paying attention?

 

[Zamdrist]

I know there are bi/gay men here on Lit.

So why is it that they never add their thoughts to all the threads about cock size?

They are probably more tenative about coming out in the open. Lesbian & Bi women are more easily accepted, in my opinion.

Men are more likely to ostracize them than women are.
Too bad too, if you can't feel comfortable in this place, it's a sad day.

 

[Calamity Jane]

I can see your point, to an extent. But there are openly bi and gay men here.

I think it's sad that there's a double standard. It's perfectly ok for me to fantasize about a woman, or flirt with one on the board, but even here, the bi leanings of the men are kept rather quiet.

It's just curiosity on my part. I wonder about bizarre things sometimes.

 

[Zamdrist]

I can see your point, to an extent. But there are openly bi and gay men here.

Well, exactly. There may be openly bi/gay men, that is to say they have 'come out' but are they going to 'ooh' and 'ahh' over pictures of cocks and risk the ridicule or name calling, to use juvenile terms.

Sorry, you probably want to hear from more people than me

What do I know? I love women so much I'd give up my cock for a day just to experience...well you know.

 

[pop_nihilism]

Well I guess this is as good a place as any for my first post here at Lit.Like the guy noted above I would tend to agree that is has something to do with the way alot of society views MM relationships as compared to FF.Is it fair?I don't think so but it is the case and probably will be for as long as we are alive.Anyway,I think there are men that care about size just as there are women.Will they be as quick to voice this opinion?I don't know,after all they may only be carrying an average size cock themselves.It's seems it would be a little hard to voice a displeasure towards an average size cock when that's all you're packing yourself,lol.I believe men,even well hung,can relate to how their partner/lover who is not greatly equipped must feel.I am a straight male who has experimented on several occasions(if that makes me BI in society fine) and I will say I like the look of the monster cocks,but for anything else,average is just fine.

 

[pop_nihilism]

Oooooooooh's and Aaaaaaaaaaaah's,It does suck that men can't even voice and opinion on another male for fear of ridicule.Men always say"I don't know"when asked an opinion on a male's appearance,that is complete bs,you know if another male is attractive or not.It's ashame society has people feeling that they can't take pleasure from other human beings in general.I hate bi,gay,lesbian,and any terminology,why can't we just all be labeled as sexual beings.

 

[Zamdrist]

Well I guess this is as good a place as any for my first post here at Lit.Like the guy noted above I would tend to agree that is has something to do with the way alot of society views MM relationships as compared to FF.

Welcome pop! Glad to have you.

I've been meaning to find the right time/place to say this but have'nt seen it until now. I too have had on a few ocassions 'curious' thoughts. Why I'm not sure. I did have one homosexual experience, no two now that I think about it. I was young, much too young to know all that that entailed. It most likely was just sexual exploration as an ignorant, curious child.

At least that's what I tell myself.

Oh yeah and pop? Work on the punctuation. It's hard to read your sentences without spaces after the period and commas.

 

[Calamity Jane]

...after all they may only be carrying an average size cock themselves.It's seems it would be a little hard to voice a displeasure towards an average size cock when that's all you're packing yourself,lol.

First, welcome to Lit.

I still don't understand the problem. Perhaps I'm being deliberately dense?

I have average breasts... I'm a 38D... but I have no problem commenting on what size breasts I like seeing on a woman (or in Kiwi's case, a man )

 

[TN_Vixen]

I have average breasts... I'm a 38D...

that's average? Mine are 36D and I think they're huge. heh

 

[pop_nihilism]

Thanks for the welcome.

I would guess you are probably one of many straight men who are curious or have thoughts of what would it actually be like.I myself just think it's ashame that people aren't allowed to act on these desires or fantasies for fear of what other peoples opinions on the subject may be.Maybe you will find the right time or circumstances to explore if you feel the need.

 

[Calamity Jane]

that's average? Mine are 36D and I think they're huge. heh

I have linebacker shoulders. On my frame, they look average at best. I could post a pic, but I'm an introvert and KM says they don't post pics.

 

[TN_Vixen]

I have linebacker shoulders. On my frame, they look average at best. I could post a pic, but I'm an introvert and KM says they don't post pics.

that's ok, I'd rather see a pic of that ku-fu snatch of yours. ;-)

 

[Zamdrist]

that's ok, I'd rather see a pic of that ku-fu snatch of yours. ;-)

well I'll have to second that vote. Always up for a look-see at some 'real' poo-tang

 

[Calamity Jane]

that's ok, I'd rather see a pic of that ku-fu snatch of yours. ;-)

Kung Fu Grip isn't really a visual experience... way more tactile, really.

 

[James Blandings]

I know there are bi/gay men here on Lit.

So why is it that they never add their thoughts to all the threads about cock size?

Are they less shallow than us females?

Do they know some secret that we don't, so that to them, size really doesn't matter?

How about the blow job threads? We (women) post to those all the time... but I've yet to see a guy post about his cock sucking technique.

Am I just not paying attention?

As a bi man, I read this board often, but don't contribute much. Although no one has ben rude or unkind, I do get a vibe that the majority of posters would rather do without bi or gay men posting here. Personally, I feel much more comfortable posting in the BDSM area, which is OK, since I have more to say there anyway. I have posted on threads about blowjob techniques and anal sex on the General Board, but I don't think I ever got one reply to anything I posted. Perhaps my comments were not of interest, but I think it likely that many people were less than thrilled by my participation.
Again, I am not knocking the board or complaining, just stating my personal feelings. I'm happy with posting in the BDSM area, and I enjoy reading here.

 

[James Blandings]

Well, exactly. There may be openly bi/gay men, that is to say they have 'come out' but are they going to 'ooh' and 'ahh' over pictures of cocks and risk the ridicule or name calling, to use juvenile terms.

Sorry, you probably want to hear from more people than me

What do I know? I love women so much I'd give up my cock for a day just to experience...well you know.

I don't comment on the pictures of cocks, not because I am afraid of being ridiculed, but because I feel it would have a chilling effect on straight men posting in those threads.

 

[Cheyenne]

We had a bi guy who posted regularly awhile back- MinkSoul. But when he first "slipped" and posted about a blow job he'd gotten from a guy, and then realized he'd accidently announced he was bi, the poor guy fled the board. He came back, but he was obviously uncomfortable at first. I never understood why- he was a great person. Now maybe I understand a little better after reading the comments here. I'm sorry he's not around anymore.