done_got_old
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I see! What's the cause of the chattiness? It's not the kind that comes in a bottle, is it?
A Higher Chat Thread
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done_got_old said:
I wish... No sweets, I am just chatty today. I have gazed at Higher too long, LOL. Just kidding. It's Friday, sugerpie. Plus, I was asked to marry. That makes me giggle.
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Filly Gal said:
You're a poet ........ did you know it?
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veryblueeyes said:
Don't do it ....... save yourself for me!!!!
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higherlevel4u said:Don't do it ....... save yourself for me!!!!
FG, yes he loves me. Wants to get married. Damn, imagine that???
Higher, you are taken. I would be an old woman, waiting for you. LOL
But are you ready? Is this right for you? Are you prepared to commit your life and treasure to the relationship.
Its not about him loving you nor wanting to even marry you. Its about you and does this request to marry you resonate in your heart of hearts.
Can he hold the "space" for you to be all that you can be as a woman, as a human being?
I have learned this about my own relationship and myself, that the most important person in my relationship is me. The sharing of myself is a choice and not a "have too!"
We are partners in a commited relationship with a mutual vison and goals.
I wish you well on your journey.
Its not about him loving you nor wanting to even marry you. Its about you and does this request to marry you resonate in your heart of hearts.
Can he hold the "space" for you to be all that you can be as a woman, as a human being?
I have learned this about my own relationship and myself, that the most important person in my relationship is me. The sharing of myself is a choice and not a "have too!"
We are partners in a commited relationship with a mutual vison and goals.
I wish you well on your journey.
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veryblueeyes said:
True ...... but we could be very old and very happy together .... we could go for long walks in our wheelchairs ..... with our nurses
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Filly Gal said:
Sweet FG, I have been down the path of marriage, I know what it takes. I am still considering, take my word. I know. But he really loves me. I love him, I think. We both have music between the two of us and both get along as friends. He makes me happy. He wants all that I want. Though, why do I feel giddy, but empty right now?
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Listen to what your head says, sweets, but go with your heart ..... 
higherlevel4u said:Listen to what your head says, sweets, but go with your heart .....
Part of me agrees Higher...... and I have always gone with my heart also.... but from experience I dont know if its always the right path. The head is a pretty good leveller. I think a good decision involves both head and heart 50:50.
But only Veebs can make that choice.....
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Saoirse said:Part of me agrees Higher...... and I have always gone with my heart also.... but from experience I dont know if its always the right path. The head is a pretty good leveller. I think a good decision involves both head and heart 50:50.
But only Veebs can make that choice.....
I go with My HEART and Gut instinct 99.9% of the time....ya know If it FEELS right or Not and ONLy you and you alone can decide whats best for ya Veebs ..all My love and I wish ya both the best ..
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~Dream~ said:I go with My HEART and Gut instinct 99.9% of the time....ya know If it FEELS right or Not and ONLy you and you alone can decide whats best for ya Veebs ..all My love and I wish ya both the best ..
Sweet g/f, I am trying so hard to go with my heart. I really am. East coast is just too good to me. I can't give me up. I would be making the biggest mistake in my life, if I did.
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~Dream~ said:I guess I am a bit confused here ..who is East Coast ??
you cant give who up?? Yourself ?? never ever let a man talk ya into giving up anything thats DEAR to ya hun ..period
Dream you are not alone in your confusion.
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~Dream~ said:well thank Goodness for that Dgo ..at least ..
Ok, here is the lowdown. Sorry for confusing. East coast asked me to marry him. I still dig west coast, but I don't want to lose east coast. So I am confused as to what I shall do. East coast loves me a lot.
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It sounds to me like you need a marriage counselor.........okay, sorry for the bad joke.
Go with your heart!
Go with your heart!
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veryblueeyes said:
Veebs, in the end, only you can decide ...... you can listen to what your friends have to say til the cows come home, but at the end of the day, it's YOUR future we're talking about, and only you really know what the true reality of the situation is, and how YOU are really feeling. The only other thing I have to say is that I know East Coast loves you to bits and wants you to marry him, but are the feelings reciprocated on your part? If the answer's yes, then go for it ....... but if you have any doubts ....... whatever you decide, I would wish you lots of love and hope that everything works out the way YOU want it to ......
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Saoirse said:Yep Higher... well said!!! I have to add too that if East Coast loves you he will be preared to wait forever for you... until you are ready.
He will Sao. I know he will. Gosh darn, I am a screwy chica. LOL
