a friend of mine is gay

[Sienna]

Hi..............

The thing is......if he has been bi and is married, then most likely he is still bi and he just wants to have a more deeper homosexual relationship.

Thats my advice..........surely his wife has noticed his sexuality?
But then, he may have kept it all under wraps? Poor thing.

Ok, she does deserve to know. But how would she take it?

 

[u2slow13]

I'm confused? Why are you the one telling her?

 

[gbd]

No way

You DO NOT tell his wife. Are you more friends with him or her? Do you want to lose him for a friend? Do you want to be more than just a friend to her? Some men and women get along fine with this type of relationship. Don't butt in unless she specifically asks you. Even then hem and haw. You can get yourself into some deep dodo by butting in.

 

[PowerOfOne]

Do not tell his wife. That is up to him to do. She probably would not believe you anyway and then you would have cut your own throat with your friend as well as the recipient of the disclosure kills the messenger. Stay out of if for your own good.

 

[gbd]

Bullshit!

What a loser he is, AND he wants you to do the dirty work for him. I would reconsider that "friend" title you have attached to him. Tell him, to tell her that he is out of the closet and he is sorry. NOT YOU!

 

[alltherage]

Hellllllllll NO. It is his job all the way. He needs to accept who he is and start being honest. At least with himself.

 

[gbd]

Hmmmm?

By the way drooster, is it you that is gay and you want a friend to tell your wife for you???

 

[weed_man13]

I have to agree with the rest...DO NOT TELL...if he's really your friend he wouldn't ask you...You are setting yourself up for trouble ...you obviuosly are a good friend and want to help but the best way to do this is to just be there for them if they need a shoulder to lean on..or an ear to listen...

You ever hear the old expression about 'shooting the messenger'?

The best thing is to leave it up to him...it's HIS responsibilty, NOT yours! Be prepared for what may lie ahead...

good luck, man..

 

[Sienna]

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Oooooooops!......I still feel sorry for him hiding his sexuality.

Certainly he should tell his wife and not leave it up to anyone else.....but then again.....as someone said, is the one asking the question really the subject?

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[weed_man13]

I have to agree with the rest...DO NOT TELL...if he's really your friend he wouldn't ask you...You are setting yourself up for trouble ...you obviuosly are a good friend and want to help but the best way to do this is to just be there for them if they need a shoulder to lean on..or an ear to listen...

You ever hear the old expression about 'shooting the messenger'?

The best thing is to leave it up to him...it's HIS responsibilty, NOT yours! Be prepared for what may lie ahead...

good luck, man..

 

[gbd]

Echo

I think I hera an echo Siennna, do you?
Ps One day I want to be a guru just like you!

 

[quilesed]

hopefully good.