NorthernVAM
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- Aug 2, 2008
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I've spent enough time reading this personals forum, and I always see these ads for BBCs ... and honestly, I don't think it's fair, since you really have no control over the size or color of your "C". I almost never see an ad for an SWC .. where yes the "S" is for small, particularly relative to the big "B" in BBC. And of course "W" vs "B" for the second letter is all a matter of coloring, and while I guess one could go to a tanning salon and "bronze" the hell out of his "C", it seems like that would just be like "passing" for something that you aren't.
So, I ask where is the love of diversity here? Where's the equity in only wanting a BBC when there are lots of SWCs out there wanting and needing the same type of attention that is given to a BBC? I ask you, how can an SWC get the attention it deserves in a world that is so enamored with BBCs?
I'll get off my soapbox now ... and hopefully you all saw my tongue in my cheek as I was writing this .. but hey, if any of you ladies would like to volunteer your tongue (or whatever part of yourself you wish to volunteer) in helping to right this blatant preference for BBCs, and give an SWC the attention it deserves, just drop me a line and I'll tell you where you can volunteer in person.
So, I ask where is the love of diversity here? Where's the equity in only wanting a BBC when there are lots of SWCs out there wanting and needing the same type of attention that is given to a BBC? I ask you, how can an SWC get the attention it deserves in a world that is so enamored with BBCs?
I'll get off my soapbox now ... and hopefully you all saw my tongue in my cheek as I was writing this .. but hey, if any of you ladies would like to volunteer your tongue (or whatever part of yourself you wish to volunteer) in helping to right this blatant preference for BBCs, and give an SWC the attention it deserves, just drop me a line and I'll tell you where you can volunteer in person.
