A different kind of Valentines Day

[Forrester]

Valentines Day is coming. I know, big news break. I was reading a thread about what people planned to do with that special day. I didn't reply as I tend to read more than post here in the General Board but it got me to thinking.

I am alone. My last relationship broke up rather badly but nothing that is going to have me depressed on that day. Actually it's more of a "Thank God I got out of that in time" sort of relationship. And I am not looking to start anything yet as I fully believe in letting wounds heal before attempting sword play again.

But that still doesn't change the fact that I am going to be alone on Valentine's day which is a day dedicated to love and lovers. Alone in the sense of companionship as I do have to work that day. And as I have been reading the other posts in this forum I noticed many people are either holding long distance relationship (nothing wrong with that btw) or completely out of a relationship or even some that are in a loveless one. Each has his or her own situation to wake up to in the morning.

This got me to thinking about those in the real world around me and how people I am actually in direct contact with each day are in the same situation. They have no one to spend this most special of days with. And the thought struck me why should I let this opportunity go to waste? Why simply live through another Valentines day with the passing thought that there is no one special for me to be with? The answer of course is don't let that happen.

I have a couple of older ladies at my work who have no one for that day either. Husbands have passed away and kids all grown up and out of the house. I am sure they are as lonely as I am on that day so here is what I plan on doing. I am going to go get a small teddy bear with a heart embroidered on it for each of them. I am going to take them to work and give them to them and wish them the best Valentines Day ever. This might seem like a big deal on my part but it's not because, you know, I am going to come away from this enjoying the best Valentines Day of my life as well.

Just a thought but if those of us who don't have the privelage of having someone special in our life picked out someone in our real life and made an effort to give them a wonderful Valentines Day, whether it be a grandparent you take to dinner or a neighbor you give a flower to, I bet there won't be a need for anyone here to post a thread intitled "This is the worst Valentines Day ever".

To all those that do have a special someone to spend it with I hope you enjoy Valentines Day and remember someone who isn't as blessed as yourself.

 

[Beethoven'sFire]

*smile*

 

[seXieleXie]

my thoughts exactly

from another thread (i just posted this!)

i have always been into valentine's day in my own special way. it's a day of love, and i take the opportunity to show it. i'm usually single. i'm usually broke. i still like to celebrate the love i have in my life.

i usually make stuff for people. hand made valentines that are silly. edible valentines (heart shaped cookie cutters and colorful icing are a must). mixed tapes. collages. draw a picture (this is made even better by the fact that i am a terrible artist ) write a poem, or give the person a copy of one of my favorite poems.

there are all sorts of things you can do. for me valentine's day has never been about romance per say, just about love.
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great minds think alike, or something

 

[Rubyfruit]

Forrester, you are an incredibly sweet man. I'm sure you are going to make those ladies feel special.

 

[Caressa]

That is the sweetest and most caring things I have ever heard!

I have always had single Valentine's Days but getting cards or calls from my friends and parents knowing they are thinking about me and they love me always brighten my day.

If only more people would realize that doing something seemingly selfless to make other people happy actually gives you so much more in return.


I send you a big for your plans and I wish you an early Happy Valentine's Day!


Caressa

 

[Forrester]

sexielexie: I bow to your creativeness and I think you are a wonder having the energy to do all of that. I am afraid it will have to be store bought for me as I would hate to have to go into a lengthy explanation of exactly what it was I was giving them.


Rubyfruit: I really hope I do. They are special. Both of them have taken time to just sit down and talk to me whenever I need it and they are always there with a joke or a teasing to make me smile. They deserve some happiness on this special day.


Caressa: A kiss from a pretty lady is always welcome. And a Happy Valentines Day to you and all of the good people here at Lit. Looks like this one is going to be one of the best.

 

[Moridin187]

Actually, that reminds me of what I've been planning on... I am without a s/o in my life right now.. *sigh*... And so are a few of my friends. And since all the friends who Do have s/o's will be busy with them, I'm thinking of having a get together with all the singles, hang out, watch some movies, chill with your friends..


I figure it's a lot better than locking myself in my room, getting stoned/drunk outta my mind, and just basically having a hellish day..

 

[Forrester]

Moridin, that is a much better idea. I hope you all have a lot of fun and a wonderful Valentine. I also hope you get on Lit at least once that day (though that does not seem to pose a problem with the people here in fact quite the opposite) and let us know how your day is going and give us the opportunity to wish you well.