a delicate thread?

[Nimbikarana]

Okay, how do I say this...just take this in the right spirit mkay?

...So far in my months of searching the web, i've found a grand total ONE trans-sexual pic that i found aesthetically pleasing or arousing (both, as it turned out)...

For me, and this is just my personal, biased opinion... being trans-sexual is about making your body gender match your soul gender... I have a woman's soul, and hopefully I'll change this male body to match it soon enough...

That said, I don't get what's with the thick lipstick, exaggerated makeup, and bad blonde hair out of a bottle... Hell, if I have the chance to be in a female body, I want to match what "real" fems would wear, not be a grotesque gesture or caricature of femaleness.

In order to become more comfortable that surgery really will make my body look just like any other female, i'd have to see a lot more pics of post-operative M2F trans-sexuals, that are as aesthetically and sexually pleasing to me as equivalent "real" female pics.

Again I do apologize if this offends anyone, it wasn't the intent to - I respect your choices!!

Peace,
Nimbikarana

 

[Mr_Breeze]

No APology Needed

Okay, how do I say this...just take this in the right spirit mkay?

...So far in my months of searching the web, i've found a grand total ONE trans-sexual pic that i found aesthetically pleasing or arousing (both, as it turned out)...

For me, and this is just my personal, biased opinion... being trans-sexual is about making your body gender match your soul gender... I have a woman's soul, and hopefully I'll change this male body to match it soon enough...

That said, I don't get what's with the thick lipstick, exaggerated makeup, and bad blonde hair out of a bottle... Hell, if I have the chance to be in a female body, I want to match what "real" fems would wear, not be a grotesque gesture or caricature of femaleness.

In order to become more comfortable that surgery really will make my body look just like any other female, i'd have to see a lot more pics of post-operative M2F trans-sexuals, that are as aesthetically and sexually pleasing to me as equivalent "real" female pics.

Again I do apologize if this offends anyone, it wasn't the intent to - I respect your choices!!

Peace,
Nimbikarana

I beleive you spoke with truth in what you said. Therefore the sapology is not needed.

Peace unto you

 

[none2_none2]

First, I believe one should be free to do whatever they want to do that doesn't hurt others. If someone wants to get a sex change that is their choice.

That being said, I don't buy into "gender soul". People are people all unique. Because we pigeon-hole people into gender catagories, we have a lot of mal-adjusted individuals. I've known some people (mainly gay men and some lesbians) that were perfectly fine people except for society's bombardment of how a "gender" is supposed to act. It used to bother me, I finally flushed most of the BS down the toilet.

I remember some of this crap in my own life growing up. For examples: how guys are supposed to carry their school books, how guys are supposed to cross their legs, how a guy's hair should be cut, how guys should walk, talk, dress, groom, etc. I did what I did because its what was most comfortable to me, it had nothing to do with my gender, my sexual preferences, or anything else. I've seen its affects on others over the years. I remember a girl who loved to run, and we were in a running club. However, because her parents thought it was making her legs look a bit too masculine she was forced to quit.

Though I have my religious beliefs and am a member of an organized religion, I only pay lip service to religions as to their gender beliefs. I remember how I got on a gay email list for gay pagans. It isn't my belief, but I didn't mind learning about other beliefs. I eventually got sick of their sexism with gender souls. It was worse than any Judeau-Christian beliefs I was familiar with. They were pissed because a woman had been on the campgrounds during their outing. They claimed it distored the vibs you have in an all male get-together. There were also female animals in the area, but somehow that was ok. I saw past their BS.

For me, if the soul is eternal, it has no reason to be bogged down to body parts and hormones anymore than it wants to be burdened by having a race, age, height, etc.

 

[chrk1]

Okay, how do I say this...just take this in the right spirit mkay?

...So far in my months of searching the web, i've found a grand total ONE trans-sexual pic that i found aesthetically pleasing or arousing (both, as it turned out)...

For me, and this is just my personal, biased opinion... being trans-sexual is about making your body gender match your soul gender... I have a woman's soul, and hopefully I'll change this male body to match it soon enough...

That said, I don't get what's with the thick lipstick, exaggerated makeup, and bad blonde hair out of a bottle... Hell, if I have the chance to be in a female body, I want to match what "real" fems would wear, not be a grotesque gesture or caricature of femaleness.

In order to become more comfortable that surgery really will make my body look just like any other female, i'd have to see a lot more pics of post-operative M2F trans-sexuals, that are as aesthetically and sexually pleasing to me as equivalent "real" female pics.

Again I do apologize if this offends anyone, it wasn't the intent to - I respect your choices!!

Peace,
Nimbikarana

most transexuals, on the web, are not trying to match body and soul genders. they're trying to match purse and money. anyone who feels as you say you feel, will also have moral standards. they won't plaster their pics all over the internet.

 

[Nimbikarana]

most transexuals, on the web, are not trying to match body and soul genders. they're trying to match purse and money. anyone who feels as you say you feel, will also have moral standards. they won't plaster their pics all over the internet.

But surely if one obtained the body they'd identified with and wanted all their life, and looked good, they'd want to show it off, no? not necessarily in a sexual way, or in a place as seedy is this, but yeah.

 

[zartol]

...or in a place as seedy is this,...

errrr... okay

 

[gypsywitch]

Not really all that delicate of a thread actually. Just expressions of preferences.

For me it can be annoying to be hit on by male looking lesbians. Why they are the ones who have the balls and not the feminine ones has made me wonder what it is about me... ya know?

If I'm going to be with a girl I want a girl.

 

[Nimbikarana]

Not really all that delicate of a thread actually. Just expressions of preferences.

Yes, I do apologize for the weak pun. Really.

 

[temp256]

i've found a grand total ONE trans-sexual pic that i found aesthetically pleasing or arousing

Link?

 

[Nimbikarana]

Link?

http://www.geocities.com/opcenter_id/14.jpg

This was taken off one of the threads here at lit, can't rememver where exactly.