A deeply personal personal regarding a special project (28m)

notthefakeTim

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I've been working on this post for a little while, because I'm aware that I won't get a chance to make a second first impression. I'm also going to share a lot of intense information, because it offers some helpful background. Get ready for some bullet points.

  • I got married too early, at 25, to a woman who I thought would grow to love me.
  • She did not.
  • Nor did she like sex. 11 times, in 37 months. She treated me like a charity case.
  • She left me last spring, after 3 years of marriage.
  • We're finally getting divorced this week. Praise whomever you like, I'm going with the nice lawyer friend who helped me.
  • I haven't been with anyone else in 5 years.
  • I need to find a way to clean my slate, and have some sexual fun for the first time in a while.
  • I can't tell you how much I'm ready to move on.
  • I don't want to get a hooker, or a friend to do this for me.
  • I'd like it to be discreet, sexy, and a great time for both of us.
  • I don't need you to be my shrink, I need you to fuck my brains out, and let me do the same.
  • I'm not sad, I'm not broken, I'm not angry, I'm not scarred, I just want to have a weekend of NSA fun with a woman who enjoys sex.

Obviously this is a complex situation and would require the two of us to be comfortable getting intimate without getting entangled. I'm an intelligent, open-minded young man with two college degrees, a great job, a decent vocabulary, a great sense of humor, and a supportive group of friends and family. The issue is that if I told them I wanted to bend a near-stranger over and have my way with her while she wails in pleasure they simply would not understand.

You should be unmarried, disease free, 18-40 years old, less than 250 lbs, interested in traveling to North Carolina for a weekend and happy to help me with my little project. I'm not picky, but if you were not a brunette with short hair, that would help. I'd like the two of us to have some chemistry before we start talking about meeting, and I'm anxious to not make this a chore, but a very enjoyable time for both of us.

This is a very personal personal, and it isn't for everyone (I'm expecting some people to think this is insane) but I'm an interesting guy, and I think that for the right person, this could be a great time.

So, PM me, or respond here, and lets see what happens? I'd like to start the conversation sooner rather than later, so I can get on with my life. And with the two of us.
 
First let me say what an excellent and well thought out personal you have posted. I do not meet your qualifications. I just wanted to wish you luck!
 
here's a bump

If i could figure out a way to guarantee I could get to NC I would be all over your post. Two jobs doesn't give much time to travel.

My hair I could dye. It needs it anyhow.

either way I want to say very nice post! I hope you find what your looking for!


Jenn
 
Very well written Tim l wish l had written it. Good luck in your search. l'm sure you will get many replies and at least one will meet your standards.

As for your handle you sound like the real deal, most people in hear have a very good bullshit detector (including me and mine didn't go off once). Maybe it was because you described a much shorter version of my marriage.

Good luck l have a hunch yer gonna find what you are looking for
 
I don't really say too much on here, but your post was so genuine, I couldn't resist. I guess it's because i'm a big softie. Lol. I wish you luck with your search, if you'd ever like to chat sometime, I'd like to think I can offer a good conversation or two, just pm me. :)
 
are you sure you're not the fake tim? this is very fake tim-like. I'm calling you out fake tim!

also, i'll be copying this post in about a decade when I'll be looking for the same thing for similar reasons. Thanks in advance for writing it for me.
 
Thanks everyone

I appreciate the positive feedback I've gotten so far. I just hope this honesty and disappointment works out for good.
 
also, i'll be copying this post in about a decade when I'll be looking for the same thing for similar reasons. Thanks in advance for writing it for me.

Haha, same here, unfortunately.
Oh the choices we make when we're young...
 
Great post! I, too, do not meet the qualifications, but wanted to wish you luck!
 
Update

I've met some wonderful women and had some very honest conversations in the last few days, and I'm thankful for all of you who have offered suggestions or exchanged PMs with me. Still looking for the right woman, and hopeful that something can still happen.

Lets talk about it, I'd love to hear from you.

Thanks!
 
Why don't you place an ad for NSA sex on your local Craigslist? Wouldn't that be easier? I mean, it sounds like you wanna get to know someone but...not know them tooooooo much. Casting a pretty wide net for that, aren't you?
 
Advice

Thanks for the help fellas, but frankly Craigslist is for people who can't string two sentences together and/or tranny rapists. I'm looking for a much more refined kind of woman who can carry on a conversation. I admit, it is complex, but I think its a good way to go that doesn't require me lowering my personal standards.

The good news is that I'm going to meet a very nice woman tonight who responded to this ad so I hope that will help you feel less concerned about my strategy. I'll definitely let you know how it goes.
 
My thoughts ran along the same line as Jrose :try adultfriendfinder.com ,its for singles and swingers.A silver yr memberships about a hundred...Its said to be in the top 4 ,to get laid/use your search engine for sex dating sites...
 
Thanks for the help fellas, but frankly Craigslist is for people who can't string two sentences together and/or tranny rapists. I'm looking for a much more refined kind of woman who can carry on a conversation. I admit, it is complex, but I think its a good way to go that doesn't require me lowering my personal standards.

The good news is that I'm going to meet a very nice woman tonight who responded to this ad so I hope that will help you feel less concerned about my strategy. I'll definitely let you know how it goes.



How high do one's standards need to be for a woman you expect to travel to your town and only get you for a weekend and then you're done with her ? I mean, other than being disease-free and willing to have her brains fucked out ? Just sayin'... :p

Looking forward to the report, though.
 
Update

Had a very pleasant meeting with a local lady who responded to my ad. We weren't able to complete the act due to conflicting schedules, but it was great to meet someone who understood exactly what I wanted from our time together. She asked to remain anonymous, but I'll just say thank you and that I look forward to continuing our exploration soon!
 
Interesting, tho I'm not sure about getting out to N.C....I'm going thru something very similar & wanting something similar, but as you said, not forced. Yes, you can hook up with anyone, but I, for one need to be at least attracted to the person, mentally most importantly. As for Craig's List, I agree %100. If you don't care about anything other than the....puzzle pieces fitting, its great. This is the perfect forum for this, & a wise move IMO. I truly wish we could test the waters so to speak, but, a couple of states too far. Good luck, & I would love to hear how successful this is. I'm sure if, as a woman, I posted similarly the pool would be wider, but not sure what the quality might be, lol.
 
Hey everyone Just wanted you all to know I am online most everyday and night. Just send me a message telling me whatever you are into, since to list everything I am into would take too long, let's just say I havent found ANYTHING yet I would'nt try at least once or twice or three times even LOL!!!!!! my addy on Yahoo is (nigga_master_4_white_hoes). Looking forward to hearing from some of you more naughty people, by the way I am 37 y/o male black married with two children, interacial marriage by the way !!!
 
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